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FEEDBACKS - PART 10
March 15,
2007
"Very beautiful and
presented so lovingly. I am 82 years young----thanks to my two
beautiful children--I am so touched--- Eileen Bankson--LA VETA, CO"
"This was incredibly
moving. At a time of year when I am observing the 20th anniversary of
my son’s death (3/19) and the 15th anniversary of my father’s death
(3/24) I was overwhelmed with emotion. Your choice of music was
absolutely perfect."
"This is a very
moving and touching tribute to age. L.D."
"Your wonderful flash
presentation was forwarded to me by a friend and as I am just now at
the empty nest phase of my life with children that think they know --
it really touched me, as I so hope they will come to a place where
they realize that we did all we knew to do and always wanted the best
for them."
"This is one of the
greatest emails I have had the privy to view/read. It would be good to
have it printed in every newspaper and posted in every nursing home
for families to read. The concept and thought in this is right on the
target. Jan Bornitz of Tracy, MN"
"My parents sent this
to me. Believe me I have been deeply touched. I have helped take care
of my elderly grandparents until their passing. The statements are
things that I heard them say quite frequently. I know my parents and
my husband are getting older and I am dealing with some of the same
things. The one thing I am so thankful for is the time shared with
them. You see, we have a strange family where we all spend time
together all five generations and really enjoy and treasure each
other. Above all I am most thankful that we all share the knowledge of
the saving grace of Jesus Christ and though we will someday have to
say goodbye here on earth it will only be for a while and then we can
be together for eternity, and never say goodbye again."
"If you can view this
without crying you have no emotion left in your soul! It is without a
doubt the most moving presentation I have ever seen! -Thank you- Don
Pagani- Raleigh,NC"
"As the 70 year old
mother of 5 children I cried watching this. I liked most of the 'Wish'.
I did not, however, like the part about 'telling you I want to die'.
I am a Christian and will wait for the Lord to take me home in His
time. For this reason I did not send Parents' Wish to my grown
children. Sharon Harrah"
March 14,
2007
"I'm a teacher in
Shen Zhen, China. I downloaded the movie- Parents' Wish from your
website, it is very touching."
"Thank you, I can't
thank you enough for this."
"Phenomenal! What a
wonderful tribute Thank You!!"
"Thank you so much
for your touching movie. It always bring tears in my eyes whenever I
see it. My Dad has survived my wonderful Mother, he is 81 now.
Although he is a hard man to please, I still love him and see him
twice a week. Your movie inspiration is a reminder that Sweet Moments
are still there no matter how tough the going was/is. That we owe our
parents more than we can ever imagine! Your wonderful inspirational
movie is a Living Legend for All Ages! From Sydney, Australia."
"This is the most
beautiful message I have ever seen. It is so touching knowing you have
children and they don't seem to understand when parents get older. My
heart was so full of emotions and hope children see this and realize
my parents are getting older."
"Wow! I have never
been so touched by any presentation such as this. This should be
viewed by all. Thank you so much."
"It opened my eyes."
"So beautifully done
and said. I was crying from the first page and I'm still crying typing
my feedback. I am caring for my 85 year old mother and I understood
every word. She does not have a long time left on this earth and I
will never again waste another moment with her being angry,
frustrated, or impatient. Unfortunately, what I see out there in this
world today are too many heartless, selfish baby boomers that just
plain do not care about their parents and just plain neglect their
parents and would not shed one tear if they read this. I am so glad
someone forwarded this to me because it is not any easy job and you
would not be human if you did not feel angry, frustrated, or impatient
from time to time. From now on when I do feel these feelings I will
replay this and this will comfort me now till the end. Thank you so
much. These are wise words to live by each and every day. Anonymous"
"It really suit my
true, honest innermost feelings, how a parent think about their
children. Thank you so much."
March 13,
2007
"As I sit here after
watching this slide show of the Parents' Wish, I can't hardly see the
screen to type, for the tears are so over whelming! My mom is 80 years
old and I know I won't have her for very much longer and she will join
GOD in heaven, but this has made me even more aware of my love for
her. After watching this I will always have patience for her. It
has also helped me to come to terms with the facts of life that life
is not eternal here on earth and the spiritual aspect of this is just
beautiful and I too, at age 54 have sent this to my children so that
they will know how much I love them. I pray that this touches each and
every person's heart that watches it and they too can feel what I am
feeling right now. I would love for this to be played at my mom's
funeral for all to see. I would love to dedicate this to her. There
are just not any words to express what I feel for the friend that sent
this to me. I will be writing her to tell her, she is a beautiful
person. Please let me know if there is anyway I can have the recording
of this. My gratitude goes out to the person who sang the music and
the people that put this together. GOD Bless You ALL! Carol"
"I just wanted you to
know that this is the most beautiful e-mail that I had ever seen and
read, I make sure that everyone I know reads this. I had lost my
father, and now my Mother is bed ridden and can no longer do anything
for herself, so we have to take care of her daily, but this is so
true, you only get one set of parents, and they are the most precious
people in our lives, once there gone, it's like you have any empty
spot there always. I had the most wonderful father in the world, and
so is my mother, and I see it coming that will probably lose her too.
I thank them for being my Mom and Dad, and I thank god everyday for
giving them to me. Everybody should be so lucky. Thanks again for
reminding me. Lori, Smithfield, Pa."
"This was so very
beautiful, thank you."
"I think this said
for me all the things I am unable to say to my children for myself.
Thank you. I am forwarding this to my son and daughter right away."
"I recently lost my
95 year old mother who often said she wished she would just die
because her life was just terrible. I would shop for her, and we would
sit for a few hours and talk about God, the universe, life, death, the
stars and our beloved oceans. She never once hit me, she loved me to a
fault. I miss her so very much. I feel as though I could have done
much more for her although she would say no, that I was a most
wonderful son. I cried when listening to and watching your video. It
was absolutely heart tugging. I will send it to my sons. It was so
absolutely true and never did I put all those things in perspective
till I heard and read it. Thank you so much."
"The music and video
is a masterpiece. For those who don't like it, they carry guilt and
have issues. It is the most wonderful video I have ever seen. Josh
Groban's fan in Vermont."
"Your video is
beautiful! A friend just sent it to me because I just lost my 106 year
old Grandmother 2 days ago. The message in your video is a perfect
tribute to not only my Grandmother, but to my Mother who cared for her
for over 17 years."
"It's one of the most
beautiful and inspiring emails that I have ever received from a
friend! Thanks so much."
"If this doesn't
touch your heart then nothing can. My sister sent this to me and I
don't think anything has ever made me cry so hard. My Mom just
recently passed away with Alzheimer's and every Caregiver and family
member needs to view this. Thank you for such a touching presentation!
Brenda Plunkett"
"These words describe
exactly how I felt each time I held my mother’s hand to help her walk,
or cut up her food when she couldn’t eat or help her shower when she
could no longer do it on her own. I wanted her to have the dignity and
respect she deserved. I have a mother who has is in the end stage of
Alzheimer’s who I can no longer reach. I also have my father who is
dying of end stage liver disease. So I am now a parent for the first
time in my life to two children; the same ones who raised me. It is
truly a lesson in life that I will never forget. Have patience with
them and love them unconditionally, for they did us. The most
important thing for us to do is to stop and take time to be whatever
they want. They did that for us."
"Thank you for
sharing your presentation. It really makes us think how we should
treat our elderly. Thank you! Pam Wendt"
"I am absolutely
speechless and wordless. Thank you for the very beautiful 'Parents'
Wish'. I am sure that my daughter will pass it onto her children.
Annette Katz"
"This was awesome. It
said exactly what I feel and I could never share those feelings with
anyone, especially my children. I live alone and sometimes it gets to
be too much. But they know know. I send it to all 5 of them and
the grandchildren. Listening and reading this was a soul cleansing
experience and I cried for a long time. Thank you. I really needed
that. Elvira"
"This is a VERY
beautiful e-mail - It is so true how we take care of our children and
then its their turn - so many are put in homes and left there without
even a thought of how lonely they are and what they might be going
through - They need to put this in print and send it to every nursing
home and newspaper to open everyone's eyes to the needs of our loved
ones - thank you so much for Parents Wish - may God be with you and
Bless you"
March 12,
2007
"Thank God for
Kids..............."
"That was absolutely
the most beautiful picture spread ever seen. I did not have the
ability to hear the music but that is my favorite song I have been
trying to play for my mother- but I requested it for Christmas and
received the wrong one- I have made one copy (paper) but my printer
quit working on it. Somebody extremely humble must have made this up
and put 'unknown author' a labour of true love!! I spend
4 hours a day taking care of mom and other people at the nursing home
and I want this for them and all their children who rarely, if ever
visit-maybe the word will spread and they will change."
"I cried and cried
when I heard this. Emailed it to my children and grandchildren. Josh
Groban's voice is just so beautiful. I have all his CD's. What a gift
he has! Oceanside, CA"
"This brought tears
to my eyes for the reason that I was not with either of my parents
when they died. It was not possible at the time. I hope my children
understand that I am not trying to make them sad, only make them see
that I am getting on and want them to face that fact. I really do not
want them mourning me when I am gone as they have my beautiful
grand-children to care for every day. In their faces I will always be
alive."
"This is the most
powerful message I've read. It brought tears to my eyes. I have such
fond memories of raising my children. I do wish they would understand
today that we just aren't what we used to be. I've sent this on to my
children. Thank you for this great message."
"I am emotionally
touched and cried and cried but it is also healing. I can really
relate because I've been and still am a care giver and I just hope and
pray that when my time comes there will be someone to take good care
of me with love and devotion. I can't help but shared this to as many
friends and family. Very well presented. thank you. God had given you
the gift of spreading the good news."
March 11,
2007
"Thank You!!! That
was so inspiring. My friend just emailed me this because my father in
law has recently had a stroke and doesn't talk much sense. This is so
heart filling. Thanks Again, Pam"
"Absolutely the most
heartwarming email that I have ever received. Thank you. A Parent"
"Thank you. Excellent
job. I sob every time I watch this. Both of my parents have passed
away, (I am 51 years old) but I sent this to my son. It sends a very
powerful message."
"Thank You for a
wonder and inspiring slide show and music! I am nearing 65 years young
and I feel blessed to have a wonderful family and the desire to always
be close to our children and grandchildren. My wife and I are moving
from what has been home in New York all my life to an area
(Pennsylvania) that will be much more suited to our age group and
nearer to my wife’s parents (both mine passed away years ago) who with
God’s blessings are still doing fine. The presentation has reinforced
the positive reasons for making the move to be closer to loved ones
that are older and how important it is to be there for them. There are
not enough words to express how much it means to have a strong family
bond."
"Wow, what a
wonderful presentation!!! I am speechless and have tear or two- My
husband and I help care for his parents in our small town in
Cambridge, Wisconsin. My Father-in-law was diagnosed with Parkinson's
Disease, and my Mother-in-law with Diabetes. My own parents are 80
years of age and 79 years of age- and in Good Health, at the present
time. We have talked of just the issues you touched on in the film. My
husband and I really respect our parents' wishes and try to be very
supportive. But it is amazing how everyone seems to have their own
input on caring for their parents. I’m so glad that you have brought
this film to the public. It is truly an honor to help care for our
parents, and yet to respect their wishes in the process is fantastic.
Sincerely, Nancy"
"I work in a
retirement community (CCRC) with many wonderful people (both staff and
residents). I have forwarded this to several of our staff. It has
touched me in a profound way and reconfirmed that what I do really
does matter. The music is perfect for the message--- though the
message is not seen nearly enough. Thank you for putting it into such
a wonderful, inspiring format that we can share with others."
"Wow, what a powerful
slide show. I was brought to tears. My mother is in the early stages
of Alzheimer's and it really hit home. Thanks and God Bless. Becky"
"Thanks for a very
beautiful and touching presentation."
"This is beautiful,
it made me cry. I sent it on to friends and family. Thank you"
March 10,
2007
"What is the name of
that beautiful song on this Website?"
[Webmaster's note: The
title of the background music is "You Raise Me Up" by Josh Groban. If
you are interested in buying the CD, please click on the Josh Groban
Music link above."
"It takes a whole lot
to move me, but you did. GOD Bless you. Butch"
"Thank you for such a
timely and beautiful work. My dad has been gone 7 years now, but Mom
is still with us at 88. She is getting very forgetful and forgets
right in the middle of a sentence sometimes what she was saying. This
Video makes me realize how much we should cherish just having her to
talk to and listen too. God Bless! J Albro"
"This is so beautiful
and so true. We have sent this to our children with the thought that
someday we may need to tell them this but may not be able to. Judy &
Doug Wilkins"
"My background is
German, Jewish, (run from the Nazis). Very different from yours, I
suppose. Yet, I have held the hands and rubbed the backs of my dying
parents. Gently cleaned my mother's mouth days before she died, and
made all the funeral decisions in October 2006. Decided on the words
for her headstone -- with approval from several siblings. Thank you
for saying it all so beautifully. With tears in my eyes, let me thank
you. One more thing, I worked for nearly 15 years for the U.S.
government National Institute on Aging, National Institutes of Health.
Your film is wonderful."
"Thank you . . . it
was beautiful."
"I am in my middle
60's and everything in it is so true. It made me cry. I sent it to all
of my kids and friends. It was so beautiful! And I loved the music.
Thanks! Connie"
"Thank you for the
beautiful presentation. I cried all the way through. I took care of my
father when he was unable to do so, he became my 125lb baby (as my
husband called him). Sometimes he didn't want a bath or tried to clean
up and make a bigger mess. I slept with a monitor to wake in the night
if he stirred. I loved him so much; he was so gentle yet didn't know
who I was for months. My 22 year old son works at a rehab center and
helps the elderly with therapy after surgery. I try to help him
understand what it's like for these patients, as he is often amazed by
their behavior. This video will help. Thank you."
"I’m a 47 year old
man still fighting back tears. Such a beautiful message for all of us.
After all aren’t we all someone’s child? I have a sister who struggles
with many of the issues addressed in this movie and I can’t wait to
share it with her. I really believe this will help her understand what
a privilege that caring for our parents really is. I have reassured my
Mom and Dad many times that I will be there for them and am blessed
with a wife who is more supportive than I deserve. Absolutely
Beautiful! I thank you for the experience because that’s really what
it is. An experience of emotion and affirmation. Paul Gabriele,
Roanoke, VA"
March 9,
2007
"This is the most in
creditable thing I've seen on this, or any other means of
communication devices. This speaks of ALL the things we want to speak
to our children about, but can't find the gentle way in which this has
given. Thank You, whoever you are, and God Bless you. I hope you truly
know just how much you have given here to oh so many. If I didn't know
better... I'd swear this had been written by the hand of God Himself.
Thank You seems so not enough to express what you have done here...but
you're the writer...know this is quite greater than a mere THANK YOU."
"I found this very
moving and I loved it."
"Thank you for this
beautiful presentation. I am sending it on to my children. Jo Greene"
"I’m 61 taking care
of an 89 year old mother. I cried all the way thru, THANX MUCHLY!"
"As my sisters and I
grow older and watch my parents reach their older years, we realize
that the inevitable will soon present itself to us. As much as we
think about it, your beautiful poem expresses it in such a beautiful
manner. Being a mom, I truly know there is no deeper love than the
love for your children and I hope that someday my children will
realize what I have known for so long.....parents are the inner
strength in all of us."
"Although I receive
many, probably too many touching, sentimental, clever and sensitive
presentations, I can't possibly say they are similar. This has touched
me like no other I have ever received. Thank you, it will be sent to
many for them to view, sit back, reflect and also have a good cry. Irv
G"
"I think that I never
saw anything as moving as that piece.... thank you... P Andrea ...
Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia, Canada."
"My mother died 6
years ago at age 92 of Alzheimer’s related dementia. Anytime I see or
read something similar to your website is a very emotional experience.
But I must tell you, of everything I have read, yours’ was truly the
most touching and a piece that I will keep to pass on to anyone I
think will gain from it. I always knew I was as gentle and as kind as
possible with my mom – reading your piece verified it, even though
verification was not needed. I had the most wonderful mom and dad
anyone could wish for and when I see people not being nice to their
parents, I just want to shake them until some sense gets into their
head. Now I can send them your wonderful site and hope it will help
them to understand the way I did. Thank you so much for this wonderful
service you have provided."
"God Bless the person
that put their thoughts and feelings to words in such a beautiful way.
I Thank You, K Lewis"
"Thanks for this
'wish'. I care for both my parents and my husbands parents and
some days it is easy to get annoyed, frustrated or to feel sorry for
myself because of this 'burden'. This puts everything back into
perspective and makes me feel good for the favor I’m returning after
their years of caring for us. And not only did they care for us and
love us but they did it with no expectations of reciprocation. I hope
I can live by their example as I too will eventually enter the phase
of life they are in now. The most amazing part is that when you think
you’ve become the parent, you see something like this and realize our
parents are still teaching us lessons even in their fragile state of
health….. patience, understanding, selflessness, respect and most of
all love. Nothing can ever replace the love of a family for each other
and nothing could ever be as important, thanks for the reminder."
"This is so true! I
cried through the entire thing! The slide show.. excellent and the
music enhanced the whole piece...thank you, Mary from Tewksbury, MA"
March 8,
2007
"As the director of
an assisted living residence, and someone whose mother had
Alzheimer's, I wanted to say - well done! It's so easy to forget,
become frustrated - a fabulous reminder of why we do what we do! God
Bless You!"
"This was so touching
and really hit close to home. I have lost both my parents. My mother
died in 2002 and all those things were exactly how things were with
her. She was my best friend. She sat by my side while I took chemo for
breast cancer and never complained one time. She really got me through
it. Thanks so much for this beautiful piece. May God bless, Jen"
"Thank you very much
for this beautiful story. It came at the perfect time. My mom and dad
are in a rehabilitation facility now. Mom was already there from
breaking her hip while in the hospital. Dad had a stroke 2 weeks ago,
he is in the same room as mom at the rehab. Center. Thank you very
much, Dave Morphew, Jeannie Payton, Jim Morphew and Dottie
Christopher."
"Many thanks for this
wonderful presentation."
"Really moving
production."
"My husband and I
recently buried his 98-year-old mom, who had been in a nursing home
for 10 months. He fit in at least 5 visits a week for the year she was
in a nursing home. My mom has Alzheimer's and is now like a child.
Caring for her is frustrating and stressful, but we are committed to
doing the best we can for her. This presentation reaffirmed that at
any age, we desire to be loved, valued, and treated with dignity."
March 7,
2007
"Just beautiful! I
have sent this on to my wonderful children. Hopefully, that this will
help them to understand when I say, I am ready to go whenever the Good
Lord calls for me. They do not want to hear about me leaving. In away
I am preparing them for that day. Ruthie"
"This should be a
required viewing for all pre-graduate high school students. By the
time they come around to realizing the message of this video the
parents are either already gone or well on the way, having not been
appreciated when it would have meant so much. Many of the things that
parents do for their children are done willingly, some out of
obligation, some out of kindness, but always out of love. Mistakes are
made because only God is perfect. As I look back on my life I have
come to realize that my parents, although strict, were trying to
prepare me for the game of life. Should God say to me when I die, 'you
have to do it again, who do you want for parents?', I'd say, 'give
me the same two I had so I can treat them with the respect and dignity
they deserved'. But then, that's not the way it works, is it?"
"This was the most
touching email I have ever received. My husband and I took care of his
mother until she passed this year Jan 1. Every photo every thing that
was written was exactly what we would deal with day to day. Thank you
to who ever put this together with the song of Josh it was so touching
and I hope that every one can have the patients and love for being a
caregiver. That is the hardest and most fulfilling job a person can
ever do with the grace of God's help. Thank you again Teresa Fraker"
"An amazing piece! I
would love to see a similar one to younger people in general, not just
our children. I have mentored many young women through the years and
occasionally, I would love for them to see some of these 'wishes of
the old and beautiful'."
"I am sitting here
with my box of cleanex. That was just beautiful. So many adults treat
their parents horribly. From hitting, to pushing them around, to tying
them to their beds. I loved my grandparents more than my own life.
They were wonderful loving people. Not like my own parents I am sorry
to say. I know i don't want to be alone on my last days of my life
here. JAN"
"This has been a
blessing for my wife. Her mother has Alzheimer’s and it would be great
to share with her brother and sister. Thanks."
"This was the most
wonderful program. I am the mother of 6 and it brought tears to my
eyes. I sent this to all of my children Thank You. Anna Witthaus"
"Thank you for
sharing such an inspirational message! My brother is in the final
stages of cancer and my mother just received this presentation and
plans to share it as a memoir tribute to my brother. Thank you again
for being a positive part of what life is all about."
"TY very much for
this the music. I was beautiful and the wording so true. I am going to
put this in a little paper we have at my senior residence housing and
again thank you so much;"
"This is the most
beautiful thing I have ever seen. I played this song at my Mothers
Funeral and now every time I hear it I think of her. I keep this on my
computer so I can listen to it as I think of the joyest times I spent
with my Mom. Thank you. Peggie Mckeesport, PA"
"Truly beautiful and
very timely."
"This is one of my
favorite songs that I hear on my christian station WGTS 91.9 FM. It
touches my heart each time I hear it and to see it put to words O M
Goodness! I pray that the Lord continues to bless his talents."
"I am overwhelmed.
This is beautiful and says all that's needed. Many thanks for such a
meaningful expression of love."
March 6,
2007
"This was just
beautiful and so true. I took care of my husband who passed in July
2006. He was a fighter but know he felt just like this as things came
along he couldn't do. I always tried to be patient and he never
complained, even when things were difficult. We also cared for both of
our Mothers so I am hoping as I grow older they have patience with
me."
"I love this but can
it be done for Grandparents as nowadays there are many Grandparents
bringing up their Grandchildren and we are 2 of them? Thank you."
"The music and the
song is nice. I heard it several times when a young priest who has now
left the parish for some years sang way back but being a matured lady
did not know who the singer was. Now I know and I felt how appropriate
this message would be to one of my sons. Although he has turned 30, I
have to confess, he speaks with little reverence to his dad and even
sometimes to me. It hurts to see him speak so disrespectfully but
hopefully this message which I will forward to him will make him
realize and convert him."
"This is a great
piece of work. Many times people get caught up in the 'busy-ness'
of life and this serves as a great reminder of what is REALLY
important in this world, people and love."
"Thank you - bless
you. My father is in the mature years and I forgot how he helped me
grow up. I cried many tears over this but you helped me put tenderness
back in my heart for my Dad."
"I just wish that I
could again tell my dear Mother how much she means to me and I am
sending this to each of my 6 children to let them know how very much
they mean to me. How I wish I could go back and hold them in my arms
and spend time with them and never let 'things' get in
the way. Nellie"
"My paternal
grandmother died from complications of Alzheimer's. My paternal
grandfather died with Parkinsons. My mother [age 75] suffers from
Alzheimer's... so, this video was good and made me cry. I just wish
the pictures could have been more clear. The captions were perfectly
clear, but the photos were fuzzy, even with viewing on normal
size. I have an excellent computer, so am sure that's not the problem.
I'm not trying to be negative, but just wanted to let you know how I
felt. Thanks for your hard work. ~ Sandra Pinnix"
"Thank you dearly for
sharing a magnificent, heartfelt tribute to the most important
person/people in my/our life. Parent(s) via Parents' Wish, accompanied
by: Josh Groban's: You Raised Me Up. A very touching and moving
presentation that automatically bring tears to the viewer's eyes.
Congratulations on your exquisite masterpiece. BRAVO!!!!"
"Thank you!! I missed
the opportunity to love my Mom in this understanding and selfless way
– my Dad lived for four years after Mom died. Dad and I were never
closer. What a gift God gave to me when he changed my heart – caused
me to slow down – listen and enter into my Dad’s life – to be willing
to walk so much slower through the super market as I tagged along and
he walked using the cart as a walker. I was just there for
companionship. I watched him smile at babies and young children and
bend over to straighten the runner so that no one would trip on it. I
sat at his bedside in Hospice, said Good Bye as he went to sleep that
night with a smile knowing that he would not regain consciousness –
that we had finished our last conversation, and said all that we
yearned to say to each other but had never taken the time. It was
wonderful. He is with Jesus now and could not be happier. I miss him
but continue to be grateful for those last four years of his life. I
pray that thousands will view your slideshow and that hearts will
change while there is yet time – even if it is just a week or a day.
You have a gift and a ministry. Trust and Obey!"
March 5,
2007
"This is not only
inspirational to all of us dealing with this but a gentle reminder
that we may all one day need this gentle kind of care! Thanks!!!"
"I took care of my
mother who had Alzheimer’s and wish I would have had something like
this to view and understand her better. She passed away and many
things said in your viewing is so true. We had fun but it could have
been better. I hope others see this before the loved one is gone. God
bless"
"Your website is
wonderful!"
"I have gotten many
e-mails and this is the most beautiful one I ever received. It makes
me cry and realize truer words were never spoken. Awesome and heart
wrenching."
"Thank you for
touching my heart. This is inspirational on so many levels. I admit, I
have tears rolling down my cheeks. Helen"
"Beautifully done. I
wish all children could see this more than once as they grow older so
they do not forget. My parents are reaching this stage and I can’t be
near them to help them. My siblings don’t always have the patience to
hear the same stories over and over again or to understand that mom
just forgets she’s talking to us when she sets the phone down. Words
never were as important as the time we spent together. They won’t
always be with us and each moment is so very precious to them and to
us. We will regret it later if we don’t try to understand that they
just want to hear our voices and see our faces to make them happy. To
them we are still the babies no matter how old we get. Life is not
always kind to people growing older, so we their children, need to
remember that and try to help our aging parents. Don’t forget some day
we will be the aging parents and our children will learn from us how
to love their aged parents as they watch us with our parents.
"My mother has just
turned 90 years old and I am her 49 year old daughter. Up until
about a year ago, she was doing amazingly well. As of late, her
anxiety, fear, depression and lack of interest has been very saddening
for her and me. I have been praying to the Lord to give me patience,
guidance and direction on behalf of my mother. This video came at such
a crucial time for me. I am realizing now my Mom may be in her end
days, even though I can't hardly bare to think of loosing her. But, in
my heart I know she would finally be at peace and not be in pain.
Thank you for opening my heart, my mind, my soul and my eyes with this
powerful video. Bless you for your compassion, strength and wisdom in
creating it. Kathy Burnam, Port Charlotte, FL"
"My mom has AZ. After
looking at your video, I am coming to terms with the fact my mom is
dying. Thank you for making this video. God bless you and all you do."
"Absolutely
beautiful. I sent to my children. Thank You. I love Josh Groban"
"Thank you. I
believe that everyone needs this reminder occasionally - and I just
received mine. I don't forward all of the e-mails I receive, but I did
forward this one."
"I'm currently caring
for my aging Mother, even though I exercise a lot of patience with her
this will most definitely help me to be even more tolerant. Sincerest
thanks."
March 4,
2007
"My mother passed
away last April 14, on Good Friday after battling illness for three
years. My sister and father and I took care of her and since then my
father has come to live with me. Some days are a little rough, but we
get through them. His health is not good, and my sister doesn't help
out as much now. A friend sent your slide to me and it gives me the
strength to keep going. How true it all is. I have and am still
going through this slide, this is my life. It is so beautiful. Thank
you again. Suzi"
"I loved your
version! I came across this and truly believe Ricardo Venegas Ortega
wrote 'Tribute To Dad' as you stated. It is wonderfully done
and now that I'm at that crossroad to start taking care of my parents,
it is a reminder. Thank you so much!"
"I don't even have
the deepest words to express how I feel. It is so dear, beautiful and
must be inspired by God and whoever took the time and thought to do
this is very blessed. I too cried, my parents gone, but I sent it to
my children and they all responded emotionally. God bless you. Dena
Kinzer"
"What a beautiful and
inspiring slideshow, with the wonderful voice of Josh Groban in the
background! My husband and I are now retired and cruising the waters
of Mexico, while our 11 children, with grandchildren and great
grandchildren are doing their thing at home. We will send this on to
ALL of them- what a great insight for them, and for us, as well. Bill
and Alice Johnson California/ Mexico"
"Wow That was
beautiful, I take care of my 84 year old mother in law. This
really helps. I am also sending this to my children. Thanks again.
Anna"
"The slideshow was
amazing. I am 60 years old, both of my parents are gone and losing my
father was the hardest thing I ever endured. I hope my son can
appreciate the love I have for him and can understand as I approach
the end of my journey of life. Thank you."
"God bless you all
and thank you for this beautiful tribute. For me it was a prayer and
to this I add that I will pray for all of you that God may guide your
hands and hearts in all your endeavors. Sincerely, Maria March"
March 3,
2007
"Thank you for saying
so eloquently and elegantly the very thing I needed for my 11 yr old
daughter to hear. I am 50 and have Hepatitis C. I don't know how long
I'll live, but I need her to know the very things you said in the
single mom parent's wish. Thanks, from the very bottom of my breaking
heart. Gina Walker"
"The site was
absolutely beautiful. I shared it with all of my friends and family.
It serves as a great reminder to me to treat my parents as they
deserve to be treated. Doreen"
"Love the site. Thank
you for taking the time to put this together!"
"This reflects my
prayers better than I could ever put my real feelings to words for my
three children. For they have given me so much joy in my 43 years of
being a parent. I want them to know how much love they have given, and
just be patient as the years come my behaviors cause them to be
stressed. Thanks for the beautiful presentation. I immediately passed
it on to my three children. Gene Adams"
"Thank you! My eyes
filled with tears as I realized that someday I will want my children
to know these same feelings and thoughts and how, today, my parents
sending me this was a message that cannot often be said with words!"
"I am a Parent of a
set of Beautiful Twin Daughters who have sent this to me. To you, who
has put this together...... this is one of the most beautiful things
and so true that were ever sent to me. It put tears in my eye's. I
know my Girls are trying to let me know by sending this to me, NOT to
worry when I get old. Thank you, Brenda"
"Thank you so much
for this beautiful message."
"It says so much. It
speaks the truth to the utmost. I was touched in so many ways. This is
love spoken through so many ways, but by way of telling our children
that when in time everything that we taught you was out of love and
for preparation for the years and events to come. Thank you for
sharing this experience. Sincerely, D.L.Wesley"
March 2,
2007
"This video made me
cry because it hit home more than you know. My grandmother is 85 years
old and she is feeble and her memory is not all there anymore and we
are forced with the choice of placing her in a nursing home for her
own safety and our peace of mind. My Dad is her only living child that
is left and he is taking the reigns all by himself and I know it is
hard for him to see his Mom this way but I am a firm believer that
there comes a time when the child needs to be the parent and this is
his time. My Nana has said on numerous occasions that she wants to die
and has asked her friends to pray that she will. That made me angry
and I have snapped at her friends who have shared with me that they
have done so. I do understand that she wants to go home but in my own
selfish way, she is home with us. You have shown me that it is a
normal thing the way she is acting and that I should not be angry but
just enjoy what time we have left. Amy Bishop, VA"
"It really says it
all, and does it so well. Enjoyed it immensely. I have many folks I
want to send it to. Thanks for all the effort it must have taken to
put it all together."
"As an individual
with an aging mother I loved this website. Of course, it made me cry
and realize that I need to do more to help my mother age gracefully
and not feel like a burden to us. Thanks for putting things in
perspective. Sometimes we get so busy we lose site of the things that
are most important. Blessings to you. Terrie Woodward"
"Oh my, how touching.
This and every photo and phrase applied to my husband and my self. We
took care of his mother for 4 years and the last six months she had to
be put in a nursing home which tore us apart. It was harder placing
her in the nursing home then taking care of her. God bless all the
care givers out there. No one can completely understand unless you
have been there. Thank you to whom ever put this together with the
amazing song and footage. My mother in law passed away January 1 2007
not very long ago and this was so special to me. She said all the
things that was in the video, the showers, wanting to die, the
confusion, and the cane to a wheel chair. God Bless all who takes on
this most wonder challenge. God will bless you. Teresa Fraker"
"That was the most
touching, truth, I have ever seen. I am sitting here right now, crying
like a baby. A 67 year old baby. Everyone needs to send it to their
children. God Bless the one who did this wonderful thing. In Him, I
am, Carolee Argila"
"Brings a tear to
your eye and a lump in your throat. Absolutely beautiful."
"This is so true and
not having my parents anymore, I can see what older people go through.
Bless you."
"Thank you so much
for this amazing video. It expresses the love and desires in the
hearts of the parents, and reminds the child of how their own first
struggling steps were helped by loving hands. We may need their loving
hands some day, and we hope and pray that they will be there. Ruth
Funk"
"I am choked up with
the beauty and the thoughtful truth of this slideshow. Your
slide show, is God sent at a time that I needed it the most. I feel I
will listen and watch it every day, to remember how much I loved the
ones close to me before and all the ones I love now. I am trying to go
on alone. I can see no other way. God Bless the special person who
made this wonderful show, that will help, hopefully great grandmothers
like me and all the families like mine. Be proud, you have made a one
of a kind masterpiece that will hopefully help millions. Thank you"
March 1,
2007
"This is wonderful
and so true of how life is. At this time in my life when things are
rapidly changing for me, when I cannot walk without a walker now, when
eating habits have changed, when children can't fully understand what
is happening, this video says it all. Thank you very much."
"I think this should
be a public service announcement! So many children forget all that
their parents have done for them, and dismiss their parents when they
no longer need them. Your parents won't be here forever; treat ever
moment you have with them as though it may be the last because you
never know. I think this is an awesome video and I love Josh Groban's
music!! Mary --Indiana"
"Very well done.
Thank you. I see myself as the parent and the child. I just lost my
mother and now know that I could have been more patient. I certainly
will share this with others. Thank you again for taking the time and
your talents to create this needed advice. Jo"
"This meant so much
to me. I am taking care of my elderly parents. It is very stressful at
times but also very rewarding. I am so glad that I am able to take
care of them as they took care of me and my siblings when we were
young. I feel it is an honor to be able to give back to them. When I
get frustrated or stressed all I do now is watch Parents' Wish and the
stress melts away. Thanks, Robin"
"This reminds me of
both my Parents. My Dad is now gone and my Mom is seventy-eight. I
pray that I'll always treat my Mom the way I hope I'm treated. I have
wonderful memories of my Mom and Dad. I miss my Daddy so much. These
kids now just don't know or realize just how much they can learn from
the elderly. I am so glad that someone thought of doing this. Everyone
needs to be reminded from time to time. Thank you so much and may God
bless you now and forever! Keep up the good work. Sincerely, P. K. G."
"I am a nursing
student and we are going to start our clinical rotation next week.
Many of us are assigned to nursing homes. Our instructor played the
video for us this morning. I was so deeply moved by this presentation.
Many of us were crying. Thank you for sharing this most blessed video
with the world. Kathy Kunze"
"Thank you to
whomever put this beautiful slide show together and sent it along to
so many folks. Josh Groban's beautiful voice and lyric's was
definitely the perfect addition. The truth was so eloquently
displayed. Thank you, thank you, thank you."
"This was so very
sweet. It brought tears to my eyes and certainly made me think. Thank
you."
"Both of my parents
are gone...the last one, my mom, because of a car accident I caused. I
cried thru the whole thing. It's beautiful."
"I have been caring
for my dad 24/7 going on two years now. I received this email last
year, and it really helped. Now at this year, my dad has gotten a lot
worse. I watched it again, and it still has an impact on me. Thank you
soooooooo much!...LMS"
"I don't cry easy,
but I read this before I went to work.... What a touching tribute to
all parents and children.... I loved it. You should find a way to show
it to all family members to parents and grandparents of nursing homes
and shut ins. Beautiful... everyone should see this and make them
think about how they are treating their parents as they grow older."
"Just two weeks ago,
we had to put our 92 year old mom in an assisted living facility so
she would be safer, better monitored, and assisted with her medication
and oxygen needs. Prior to this move, I found it hard not to be
impatient with her poor memory, hard sometimes not to be irritated
that she couldn't learn how to handle her oxygen tank or that she
wouldn't wear her hearing aids so she could hear me. It was hard at
times not to criticize her seemingly poor judgment about her safety
and well being. It was hard to make the final decision with my
siblings so she could be safe and better cared for, but through it all
she has handled it with grace and trusts us to know what is now best
for her. This lovely piece hit me hard and filled me with sorrow,
guilt, and pain, but by the same token, it made me realize that she
raised us to be responsible, caring, giving, tender and loving
adults... .even if it is hard. Thanks for producing this for all of us
'kids' who still have an elderly parent depending on us. A
Colorado daughter."
February 28,
2007
"I saw this
video some time ago and just received it again. I would like to thank
you for making it available to the public. Once in awhile something
like this is produced and it would be a shame if it didn’t live on
forever. I am 56 and lost my dad a few years ago. My mother is 80 and
just had her first serious health problems and we thought we might
loose her too. Thank God that didn’t happen. I don’t know what more
you can do to get this out to the public, but anyone with kids or that
still have parents alive should not only view it but pay close
attention to the message it brings. Thank you for keeping the message
going."
"I would like to take
the time to thank my dear friend who sent this email to my husband and
I. On January 1, 2007 His mother passed away to a better place and
body. We took care of her for 5 years, and the last 6 months had to be
in a nursing home. Every word and every photo was everything we had
went through. I have watched this three times now and I cry harder
every time just knowing someone was so kind to put this together for
people everywhere to understand what parents and children may go
through in their lives. Thank you and Thank you Josh. Teresa Fraker"
"Thank you for the
opportunity to purchase this beautiful slide show when it becomes
available. I sent this to all my children. Although, I was not able to
say in words to them how I feel, I did send this to them by email to
help them try to understand. (I am almost age 69 and working full time
out of necessity, and certainly do not have the energy to do things
like I once did - staying up until 2 AM washing, sewing, etc.) Thank
you for taking the time to make this beautiful work of art and sharing
it with everyone."
"We all at Northside
UMC have viewed your Parents' Wish and think of it as being a very
profound piece."
"This was truly a
blessing. I cried, because when my mother had dementia, she was like
my child. Sometimes I hated it but then I realized it was truly a
blessing to give back to her. My mother did not speak for years, but
the night before she died as I held her hand she began to squeeze it
and I knew then that she knew I was there with her and for her. She
died on December 2, 2005 and there is not a day that goes by that I do
not think of her, I was blessed to have her. But she knew that because
I told her this all of my life. Thank you again for this piece of joy.
Thedra McMillian."
"Whoever put this
together certainly has elderly parents and children. My mother is
almost 97 and is going through some tough times remembering, it is
very sad, but your video helps us to understand what they are
experiencing. Thank you again, very touching, I have sent it to my
kids as well to help them and their children have a better
understanding."
"This video is
absolutely beautiful and brings tears to my eyes everytime I see it.
It's definitely the Circle of Life. Both my husband and I don't have
our parents anymore, but we both took care of his father, and my
mother. It was very rewarding to be with them to help them. My
husband's dad told me I was a 'good friend'. Especially when I
would feed him his ice cream. My mom was so grateful for us, and my
three daughter's the last two months of her life. She wouldn't really
tell us, but she told all her friends that would come and visit her.
My mom always had hugs and kisses for us, and told us that she loved
us. I think I missed my calling when I was young, but not too old to
find it now. I know God has placed it on my heart to be a caregiver
for others, now that our parents are gone. Thank you so much! Renee
Campbell Colorado"
February 27,
2007
"Of we should be all
those things with our parents but what I really see hear is a
tremendous amount of resentment on the part of parents for what they
had to do for their children. The makers of this video need to check
their feelings and attitude regarding their experience of child
rearing."
"It brought tears to
my eyes.... and opened the eyes of my heart. Keeshondly, Cherrie"
"Thank you for that
beautiful site and piece. I’ve watched it several times and cry harder
each time. I too am 58 years old, have a 91 year old mother and a 26
year old son – he’s the one I really wanted to see this. I hope he
appreciates it. I know now that our children will never know how much
we love them until they have children of their own. Thank you again."
"I'm a 72 year old
male and to me this speaks a truth where the younger generation seeks
only gratification and not loving care of the older folks that has
worked so hard to bring them up and show them the way. Your Parent's
Wish is so beautiful that it brought tears to my eyes. Bless your
site. Dale l. Neill"
"Thanks for this
heartfelt presentation - we would like to share this with advocates
for older adults and it would be great to have it available in CD
version to do so. Thanks!"
"Thanks and God Bless
you and yours. Jim"
"Beautiful, brought
tears to this old curmudgeons eyes."
"Says what every
parent would like to say but never seem to get it out so beautifully.
Thank you so very much. Jim Rash"
"Wow that was the
most beautiful message, and it is so true. I have seen it and I
believe it wholeheartedly because one day it could happen to you and
you have to deal with it. The slides touched me in many ways. I
cried while reading the message. It was just so touching, it was
amazing. I would watch this again and again. The message comes out
really clear, even if you loss a loved one that is close to your
heart. I'm going to send this to all my love ones so they can have a
chance to read and have the same view as I do. This goes out to all my
loved ones who I hold close to my heart. Lisa"
"It was indeed
awesome... it just reminds us of what our parents expect out of us in
their old age.... this will help everyone.. -- Sheryl Ravivarma"
"This was truly
beautiful. I lost my mom to cancer in November 2003. In October 2002
she had to start using and carrying oxygen. This song and words
brought back many memories, good memories, things that we should all
remember. This song reminded me of words of caring and the many
volunteers who were so good and patient with my mom those last weeks.
Everyone was so patient with mom. Thank you for bringing back special
memories. Lee Kwiatkowski"
February 26,
2007
"What a blessing to
have the words of one’s heart 'spoken' through the music and
thoughts of someone who has lived the experience’s of another. I lived
the love of my parents, and hope that my children will say the same of
their time with us. So often we wait to show or say what’s in our
hearts until it’s too late. Showing our love takes time and in today’s
world of 'hurry and rush'. Let us not forget that our purpose
is in caring for one another. Let’s start at home, remembering and
treasuring the love we’ve been shown, and then in silent prayer, have
hope that it will multiply for generations to come. Marsha…….North
Carolina"
"Thank SO MUCH for
these beautiful words. I live in New Zealand, but no matter where we
live in this world the words expressed are universal. I have sent this
on to all my friends and my nieces as I have no children of my own. I
offer care and loving friendship to several elderly people who are
family friends and acquaintances who have all given of themselves to
others during their lifetime while they were fit and able to share.
These words are from the heart and so inspiring. Thank for sharing
them with us. Trish. {Hastings New Zealand.}"
"This was truly
beautiful. I lost my mom to cancer in November 2003. In October 2002
she had to start using and carrying oxygen. This song and words
brought back many memories, good memories, things that we should all
remember. This song reminded me of words of caring and the many
volunteers who were so good and patient with my mom those last weeks.
Everyone was so patient with mom. Thank you for bringing back special
memories. Lee Kwiatkowski"
"I, too, agree with
the writer of 16 January, 2007. I would not send it to my kids. Too
depressing. Why would I want to make my children so sad by thinking
now of what might be in the future. I am 79 and my wife is 77. We
interact with our kids and their kids regularly -- all in a generally
happy way. The world has enough sadness -- I'm not about to heap on
them today the sadness we all know will come our way some where down
the road. Time enough then."
"That was powerful!
It sure brought tears. Mid 2006 started a new beginning in our lives
that came to us as a shock and the facing of these difficult times
earlier than what we thought. We were not prepared to encounter these
months with dad's sickness. We were not prepared to be a parent
instead of the child, however, since we cannot change what has
happened. Our strong beliefs and unity will help us through the
future. Now is the time for us to unite more than ever. It will not be
easy, but we can make it. We have faced many difficulties in dealing
with our dad's fast deteriorating state. The Good Lord has given us a
few more months or maybe years only he knows when it is time. These
encouraging words by Parents' Wish have been inspirational to me. It
is a reminder of all the things DAD did when we were young. We tend to
forget all they had to do for us. This message describes it to the
end. I can now say, 'Thank you DAD for taking care of me when I was
a child. I know things were not perfect, but you took care of us as
best as you were able to.' All I hope is for my dad when it is his
time to leave that he can leave with a smile and that he does not hurt
anymore. That He can finally say, 'My child I have finished. I have
fought the good fight'."
"Wow! This is deep!
It brought tears to my eyes. I can surely relate to this as it's what
my siblings and I are going thru right now and what others have
already gone thru or may go thru in the future."
"This is a very
touching article that I thoroughly enjoyed through the tears. It is so
true to life. I don't always have patience with my mom who is 87 and
this will surely come to mind now. My Dad had died several years ago
and also a brother. I had patience to be with them so much and be
there when both passed on. I have two daughters who do not talk to me
as they say I was not the 'perfect' mother. I wish I could send
this to them... but... I don't interfere with their life and families.
But it hurts when they treat me this way. I am 67 and have health
problems... but I also have a son and daughter who are here for me
when needed. So I will send this to them. This is a wonderful
story. Thank you so much and I thank the lady friend that sent it to
me. Dar."
"Thanks, it is
awesome."
"I have worked in the
field of aging over 30 years. This video presentation gave me cause to
pause and reflect on the work I have done on behalf of many elders,
and I shared it with other colleagues and associates. My mother is
moving toward the sunset of her life, and I realize, with each passing
year, she will need my assistance more and more. I pray I will be
physically, mentally, and emotionally competent to meet her needs, as
she so lovingly cared for her parents. Dee – Uniontown, PA"
"Parents' Wish is a
very touching and real slide show. My siblings and I are going thru
this right now and it's very hard, but I know that with God's help we
will be able to take care of our parents. Thank you for creating this
slide show. I've shared it with others also."
"This is a stunningly
beautiful presentation."
"Thanks. That is
truly beautiful."
"I cannot imagine
anyone finding Parents' Wish anything but profoundly inspiring."
February 25,
2007
"My Mother and Father
are gone for many years now and today my husband and I visited his 94
years Mom, Lula (Grandma) at a Christian Home not far away. We laughed
and chatted and shared time together. She doesn't know us, she thinks
she remembers, can't hear well, poor eyesight with macular
degeneration and other than these, she is in very good heath (Her
father lived to be 99.5 years). She is content. Over the past 2.5
years she had been part of our lives sharing time with her other son
and family. No it wasn't in my plans as a daughter in law. God had a
purpose and we hooked onto it. I learned many things from this time
with Grandma, actually more than I wanted to know for now I think
about how I might live my life to the end. A little scary when I think
today I won't walk. I remember that choices I make today can
make a huge difference for my future living. We have a sweet son. He
is going to be there I know but we don't want to burden him and I am
sure he won't think of it as such. This Parents' Wish touched my very
soul. I am thankful for the things I learned from care giving this
sweet woman. It was surprise to some that we did this - it was the
right thing to do and we have been blessed. A blessed Daughter In law.
"
"Thank
you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! again and
again............"
"A special thanks to
a dear friend for sending this to me. It is especially touching as my
daughter just informed us of her second pregnancy!! In addition, I
work with Hospice patients, most of whom are elderly, and this would
be appropriate for our entire staff, including our Hospice volunteers,
and home health aides. I will pass it on. Thanks so very much, GK"
"I just loved your
poem. It made me cry. I tried to copy it but I can't but I did send it
to my children. I'm 73 so my time is near. Lorraine Hankins"
February 24,
2007
"Beautiful!"
"LOVED THIS!!!!
"This is a beautiful
email. I received it from a friend in Tx. My husband and I cared for
my Mother for a long time before she died 13 years ago at the age of
86. We now have his Mother with us. She has to walk with a walker and
is very dependant on us. She was a very independent person and
expresses her thanks everyday to us for taking care of her and not
putting her in a home. It takes a lot of patience to care for older
people just like taking care of the young. This made me realize more
how much our parents mean to us. Keep up the good work with this type
of production. We all need to be reminded that we too will be there
someday. Doris, Al."
"This was so
beautiful! My mother is suffering from Alzheimer's and it gave me a
moment to reflect. Sometimes I feel impatient and frustrated but this
gave me a new perspective. Thanks for sharing this."
"This was the most
awesome thing I have seen and heard in forever. Please keep up the
good work. This was great. Thank you so much!"
"This is one of the
most beautiful sites I have ever viewed. Thank you very much for all
your hard work doing this so that many are able to have the
opportunity to see it. Barbara"
"I work in an
Alzheimer, dementia unit and thought if this came out in CD or video
it would be a great incentive for some of the very young employees
where I also work as a nurse."
"I just wanted to let
you know that I thought your video was absolutely beautiful. My mother
who died in 1993 had dementia and this video really hit close to home.
May God bless you for making this available to so many."
February 23,
2007
"Getting old is tough
but we all will. Active living and taking care of ones self will help
us to age gracefully but one day the inevitable will happen. I don't
want my family to be sad when that happens just to celebrate my life
which has been blessed many times over."
"Thank you so much
for this. I just recently lost my Mom and my Dad passed away 2 years
ago. I needed a good cry but it was a good cry if you know what I
mean."
"I'm 60 years old and
have 5 sons and 2 grandsons and have been crying since I received this
e-mail. It really hits home."
"I'm a mother who is
now almost 76 years old and my husband will soon be 78. We have tried
to tell our children of our wishes but they don't want to talk about
it. I have sent this to our two children so I'm praying they will now
understand. Thank You."
"THANK
YOU...sometimes we really need to be reminded ....this DID IT!!!!!"
"I am touched and
forever changed. God bless you for this work."
"I am a retired
Geriatric Nurse. Having spent all my years working in Nursing Homes I
can relate to this and can only hope it will help me to have more
patience with my one remaining parent. This was truly beautiful and
your right. Get the hankies ready. I cried from almost start to
finish. Thank you for jogging my memory.
February 22,
2007
"I was so touched by
this email and it came at just the right time. I am caring for my
daddy, who is eighty-six years old. In recent months he has required
more and more of my time. I am honored to be able to help him because
he has always been there for me. Some days I get frustrated and when
those days come, I will remember this email and thank God for the
opportunity to give back a little of what my daddy has given me. My
husband was laid off his job 10 months ago and people criticize me for
not getting a 'job'. I try to explain to them that I have the
most important job of all. It doesn't pay anything monetarily but the
rewards of being able to help my daddy are priceless and I wouldn't
trade my job for any other. Daddy is recovering this week from gal
bladder surgery. He's going to need me more than ever now. On the days
when he tries my patience I will look at this site and say, 'Ah
yes. This is why I do what I do and I thank God for my Daddy!'
Thanks for the beautiful reminder. Phyllis P."
"Thank you for this
web page. It is so awesome. To take care of your parent's rather it's
Alzheimer's or just because of an illness is an awesome pleasure. They
were there for us when we were small and needed them and through our
growing years. Now they may need us so we owe them that. I had the
pleasure to be able to care for both my parent's due to illness before
they passed on and I will never regret it. I thank our Heavenly Father
for this privilege."
"I think that was the
most beautiful thing I have ever seen. It was so real just the way
things go. I will remember it always. I sent it to every one of my
children. Thank you. Gloria"
"This is absolutely
the most beautiful piece I've ever read. I work with the elderly, some
who have no one. We need to love and care for these folks with dignity
because just because you are older, doesn't mean you have stopped
living."
"I was so blessed to
receive this video presentation from one of my son-in-laws. It truly
reminded me of the wonder of being loved. Also, thank you for such a
poignant video! My parents were killed in a car accident a few years
back at the ages of 75 and 77 and, as I viewed the video, I was so
grateful that we, their children, treated them with respect before
they went Home! I have now passed this along to many others that they,
too, might be reminded of the true meaning of love. Bless you for
taking the time to remind us!"
"That was the most
touching wish I have ever heard."
"Great. except for
one thing. My son, Harley, who I had not seen in almost 19 years has
come to live with us. His father, dead since 1997, molested him
terribly early in his life. The ending of Mom and Dad would not be
suitable for him. Plus I probably am just as technically savvy at 53
as he is, having started learning computers before I lost him to
foster care. Nice site though, wish I could send it to him ...
question is, would he even listen to it? Would he understand that I
need him to give me that dignity...that he needs to get his life
together. Suzanne McColl"
"B E A U T I F U L!
We need to forward to our Representatives and get it aired on National
TV."
"Thank you so much -
I actually typed the words of Josh's song and printed my kids picture
on the page! I am raised up by them and I know the day will come when
my 'investment' will pay off!! Thank you, I definitely want a
copy."
"I want to thank you
for such a beautiful piece. I just lost my mom so the message really
touched my heart. I also just love Josh Groban."
"We are the ones that
have tried to make sure that our children had the best in life, for
them as the song says, please allow us to die with dignity because it
is what we need. We all will come to that time where we will want to
close our eyes and Pray to the Lord above that we are ready to seek
the Kingdom of God and nothing else can be said of that except that
when you get old and have prepared yourself for the Lord that you are
ready to enter into his Kingdom. I pray that the world we leave behind
is one that our children can understand and they too have faith and
understanding of God in their daily lives."
"I'm so grateful for
having some caring parents. They might have been very strict, but we
look back then, and they did it for a reason. I came from one out of
eight children. That was a lot of kids back then. I'm 57 and the 3rd
oldest in the family. We are all very close knit family. So as I see
this, I look back when I was a child. It all brings back memories. I
really like this. Its all about family. We should take care of each
other. That is what its all about. Love one another, and help each
other. The world would be a better place. I think this was put
together very well. It is very touching like everybody said. Awesome.
Take care, and God Bless. Kathy Jacks"
February 21,
2007
"A very touching
presentation. Thank you for being sensitive to the needs of single
parent families!"
"Tears filled my eyes
as memories of our parents filled my heart. This video expressed how
we feel too. This is the way our parents would have felt if they could
have expressed themselves as we cared for them. Now we are getting
older and coming into the same situation, which could be anytime in
the near future. We pray that God will keep us in good health with a
good memory until He takes us to be with him in heaven. I pray our
children remember as we remembered for our Mothers, just as this Video
expressed. I would love to have what was said in writing so that I
could read it over and over. Thanks to the person that put it
together. It is very touching. Judy and J.L. Clark Lake City Florida"
"I am anxious to
receive a CD copy of this most beautiful slide show. Please notify
when it is available"
"Thank you for
putting into pictures the words, every parent feels. It was the
saddest, most emotional thing I have ever seen on the internet, but
oh, so true. I could relate to it because I am a mother, who dearly
loves her children, and a grandmother, who dearly loves her grandson,
and had a wonderful grandmother and grandfather, that I could see in
those pictures. A Mother that needed care toward the last, and
memories of my Dad. But what really crossed my mind, was when I use to
help my children walk, when they were learning, never once thinking
that maybe, just maybe, the role could be reversed one day. God knew
we needed children, to raise, to love, and to help us later on in
life. I sent it to everyone I knew. Thank you again. It was like going
back in time."
"Oh My God, How
beautiful and touching. It brought tears to my eyes. I have two
parents who are elderly now and I know they love I have for them.
Thanks so much.....pj"
"This slideshow was
absolutely beautiful! Thank you! After losing both my parents, this
helped to remind me that I tried to be the best daughter I could, and
I am forever thankful for all the love they gave to me. It also
reminds me how important it is to treat everybody with the utmost
respect - no matter what their age. And that older people need more of
our time and patience than others. Thank you again. Judy W."
"As I absorbed your
creation I was, and remain, deeply touched both in my spiritual and
human beings. In reading your feedback I could see a thread of human
emotion permeating through almost all of it. I in turn, add mine.
There is a deep-rooted desire within us to express in a meaningful
way, both to our peers and to those following us in time, that we have
been at the same place...the same and not the same...and that has made
all the difference. Your marvelous work makes that expression
possible. The poet and philosopher bring us close to such a goal but
the powers of language alone do not hold the keys necessary to free
this expression. We know of life and its involuntary accumulation
called 'experience' through our senses. Your gifted combination
of beautiful and carefully selected pictures, meaningful and
well-chosen language along with the 'right' song sung by the 'right'
artist is a product of synergy between all of you. It transcends what
any of you might have done alone. Is this synergy tantamount to
genius? I would not argue that. The brilliant selection of an artist
that is a child himself, in comparison to my journey through a seventh
decade, was not overlooked. Knowing how road leads on to road, I doubt
I shall travel this way again. Your work allows us to say, 'Child,
I exist and I existed then. Understand that my life has meaning for
you.' Thank you, one and all, for your gift. Eric E. Batchelor"
"This is Awesome!"
"This piece is
absolutely beautiful. My father passed in August 2002. The two years
prior to his death I witnessed his decline with dementia and there was
not enough time I couldn't support him enough for I felt and displayed
every word of your presentation. Thank you for putting into words and
visuals what lies deep in my heart. May God continue to Bless and Keep
you. Ruth"
"Prayer for a child.
God watch over our children and help them enjoy life to the fullest,
with love, smiles, hugs, kisses, and tears of joy, also the worship of
God in their hearts. Lead them to better understand the words, honor
thy father and thy mother. Help them to guide our nation into a better
place for their children. Amen"
"I wish for all
children to be happy and remember those parents who took care of them
whether foster, adoptive, family, friend, or real parents and
especially God. Children hold true to your hearts those who have cared
for you. For some day you might be in their shoes (as the old saying
goes). Thank you. Barbara Burghduff, Indiana"
"This one of the best
I have seen. It has to be shared !!! Just GREAT !!"
February 20,
2007
"This is a wonderful
presentation. Thank you very much"
"Thank you so much
for the beautiful, touching and inspirational page."
"With the world
becoming so self centered and losing its 'natural affection', I
think all should watch this 'show'. I was very moved by it. My
dear Mother has been gone five years now and it feels like yesterday.
When we truly love our parents and do all we can for them in love, we
set a fine example for our own children on how to care for us in the
future. So now is the time to really reflect on our attitudes, our
words and our actions.....will we be sad and ashamed of them, or have
the knowledge that we did our best for our parents? This day will
come. Carole"
"This is one of the
most touched videos I have ever came across. After losing my Mother
from cancer 3 years ago I have come to the realization how wonderful
and wise my mother really was and yet to this day. Thank you for this
video to remind people what they have and some day could lose!"
"Thank you for an
inspirational piece of life and the reality for the senior parent
living with memories and fears of aging."
"To 'The Important
Ones' who conceived this outstanding work and had the persistence
to bring it to us: please include me in your notifications when the CD
is available. Many, many thanks for going even further than your
initial endeavor."
"I was moved beyond
believe. My mother suffered Alzheimer's for 12 years. My father old
age, proud and strong but suffering at the end. My everlasting thanks
for putting their words in a way I could appreciate and understand.
Sue"
February 19,
2007
"Your slideshow is a
wonderful thing. It will make anyone stop and think. Thank you."
"Josh, I saw
you on either the Today Show or Jay Leno, I can't remember
which. I was just fixed on you and the words to your beautiful song. I
know that someone made the remark that this was beautiful for funerals
or weddings. It hit me just like 'The Rose' by Bette Middler,
when I heard that for the first time, it was like I couldn't hear it
enough. When you sing, you put so much feeling into your voice
and the words, it makes it beautiful. Wishing you much success with
your singing."
"I am a grandparent
whose son lost a 4 month old baby boy to SIDS in January of 2006. I
also am the parent now who is having health problems. I played this
for my younger daughter and trying to send it to my son and daughter
in law who had the baby die. It made my cry. Thanks Sherry S Boise
Idaho"
"This slide-show
touched my heart and brought back so many memories of caring for my
parents and my husbands parents as they aged or grew weak from
illness. I can honestly say that I know we treated 'our'
parents with the love and respect portrayed in what I saw. Maybe
that's why it hit home as it did and brought me to tears! My hopes are
that this reaches millions.... not just those with elderly parents,
but those who need to understand what aging does, so that their
patience and concern may grow for all of the elders in our society.
God Bless and thank-you for putting this together! ~Margie"
"I thought it was
beautiful and very well presented! Thank you."
"This is an
absolutely beautiful presentation and it would be nice if we could all
have that kind of retirement. I do believe that those of us who
perhaps have had loving parents that love would be returned but those
of us who have not: how can love be taught so that elder abuse does
not occur. I truly believe that you reap what you sow although there
is always and exception to the rule. Sincerely, Regina Sheere"
"What a beautiful
message and so compassionately written. I cried through it and my
husband sent it to our two adult children. There is no better way to
explain growing older and what all of our elders need and deserve and
to be given with joy and blessings and remembrance. Marianne
Porricelli, CT"
"This is the most
amazing slide I have ever seen its really touched my heart! Tears
welled up in my eyes and spilled over and ran down my cheeks as I read
it. I'm 33 years old I love my Parents very much I forwarded this site
to all of my friends to watch that side. I would love to be the part
of this website. If I can do anything for you all who are related to
that site. Yes I'm a freelance web designer. I would like to pay
tribute to all the people who put their efforts to make that site.
Regards Ayesha"
"This was just
forwarded to me from a caregiver who helps me with my Mother. It
touched my heart deeply. My father died in my arms one year ago. He
was 89 and deeply loved. I am now caring for my 93 year old mother in
our home. She is blind and has fairly severe memory loss and dementia,
but she always looks on the positive side and has a great sense of
humor. Although I have wonderful and loving caregivers who help me, I
treasure the days and nights I spend caring for my Mom. There is not
one day that goes by that I don’t recall the wonderful details of my
childhood. I share these with her so that she might remember, too, how
blessed we have been and how blessed we still are to have each other.
In the end, life is so brief. Thank you for helping us to see what is
truly important in our short stay here."
February 18,
2007
"Wonderful. BJG"
"I loved this and
would like it to be around when I get old as a reminder to my
children."
"I just loss my
mother on 29 January. I haven't been able to cry since, I miss her so
much, and I was afraid if I cried that would mean that she was really
gone. A friend just sent me Parents' Wish. I played it twice and
I can't stop crying over my lost. She had a hard last five weeks, and
that poem seem to be written about her. Thank you."
"This was a wonderful
presentation. I was in tears from the beginning to the end because of
the memories it brought to me. My mother died Nov. 13, 2006 with
Alzheimer's. I miss her so much. I was her caregiver in my home for
two years. It was a 24/7 JOY. It was hard and frustrating at times
seeing the changes she was going through and my feelings of
helplessness. But I can rejoice today knowing she is in the loving
arms of Jesus with no pain or confusion. Thank you mother for caring
for me and for giving me the opportunity to care for you. Neva"
February 17,
2007
"I have never read
anything more poignant, more beautiful and true to life. Thank you for
sharing."
"This is awesome. All
I could do was cry. It is beautiful. Thank you for putting this
together...Pattie"
"This beautiful
e-mail was sent to me, and after I finished crying, I e-mailed to all,
young and old. My husband and I are at that age where we repeat
things, forget things, and can't do the things that were so easy to do
just a short time ago. Time goes so fast. You think you have years and
years ahead of you, but suddenly you wake up and you are old and sick.
To the young people, I offer this: Do what you dream of doing TODAY.
Don't wait until there's time, or when you retire, or when the kids
grow up. Live your life now, and gather as many memories as you can,
because at the end, that's what will sustain not only you, but your
loved ones. That is the best legacy you can leave them; good memories.
Mary Lou Carreon Hemet, CA"
"I was deeply moved
by this presentation. I am the Director of Resident Care for an
Assisted Living Community; I was sent this by one of my resident's
son's. I also forwarded it to my regional Director and my
Administrator. This is a beautiful piece; and am interested in using
it to show my staff; and would like to see more of your work that is
about caring for the elderly. Thanks so much. Lori"
"I have cried, cried,
and cried over this piece. Every once in a while I bring it up and cry
my heart out more. It is one of the most beautiful things that I have
on my computer and in my heart. I am on both sides of the coin and
have sent it to my mother, all four of my children, brothers, sisters,
and friends. My mother, of course, cries also. It is also a wish of
hers. I also can totally relate to the song and words in the
film, because I get those same feelings from my children, whom are
grown and on their own now. They don't seem to have patience with me
in almost everything and I am only about to turn 50. My mother also
has those same feelings from some of my brothers and sisters. Some how
I would like them to know and feel with their hearts that someday they
will be in the same spot that our parents and we are in. They too may
feel the same way. Thank you so much for your time and patience to
care and listen to all of the people who just need to be heard and
acknowledge that they exist and have earned the right to be loved and
respected."
"I have been trying
to send this Parents' Wish to a friend in the UK where I also reside,
but when they access the http:// website as suggested they get the
notice to click on several countries such as USA but as there is no UK
to click on they are unable to access it."
[Webmaster's note: We
do not have a mirror site in UK yet but your friend should be able to
play the slideshow from our main site.]
"Just wanted to say
that in this age of high tech and low morals and the now and me
generation this was one of the nicest pieces I have had the pleasure
to read. Thank you for the joy I have gotten from your hard work
assembling this work. E"
"I love your message
in the Parents' wish. Thank you for the good presentation."
"I hope that this has
been posted to all known care taker facilities as all nurses should be
mandated to viewing this!! Please let me know so if not I can do some
research and start sending to all homes to view. Thank you Shawnna"
February 16,
2007
"You have definitely
told it like it is and is to be. Thank you.....and now, my three
children will be reading it. It's really hard to fathom all of the
changes that do take place to us as we age and I think that this
article that you have put into a video for us is very, very nice and
perceptive. Thank you. Diane "
"Inspiring, awesome
slideshow and song that everyone should treasure."
"Parents' Wish
touched me deeply. Our son was severely injured in Afghanistan and in
ICU for 21 days. Now that he is out of the hospital we assist him with
his daily cares. Dressing, toileting, etc... He is like a small child
again physically but mentally he is an adult with all his normal
cognitive abilities. This has reminded me to be patient with him and
to remember that he sometimes just needs someone to listen. His
buddies are still there fighting to keep each other safe, and they
have lost 8 brave souls and more than 30 have been injured in just
their Company alone. This slide show could have been titled 'Dear
Mom and Dad' from the perspective of any ill or injured son or
daughter. Thanks again and we know that God has big plans for our son
- in fact we told him that maybe it was to be sure that we are placed
in a good nursing home when we need one. God Bless you all."
"Please add me to
your email list for items like the Parents Wish ..... Soooooo
Beautiful !!! Thank you for this."
"God Bless You For
Creating This. I was moved to tears while reading this. My mom just
lost my dad in December to lung cancer and I must admit I did fuss
with my dad who was 74 year old about most of the stuff on this
reading. I'm blessed to still have my mom who will be 80 years old in
September. In reading this passage I will be mindful when handling
situations and try not to become impatient when she can't remember
where she put my mail or keys, etc. She usually finds it. God bless
you for making me see my mom getting older a blessing and not a
burden. She's been blessed to see 24 grandkids and 7 greatgrands with
one on the way on Mother's day. Thank you for the beautiful music. I
plan to play it for her during her 80th birthday celebration. Love,
Nancy"
"Beautiful, just
beautiful"
February 15,
2007
"Thank you for
sharing this beautiful music. I greatly enjoy Josh Groban's music.
This has calmed my soul after a very trying day at work. Thank you
again. Melanie"
"Thanks to you and
all your associates, family and friends for putting this together. It
is by far the most awesome, touching, heartfelt video that I have ever
received. It really touches my heart as my DAD is elderly (86) and
this says it all. When I finished wiping the tears from my eyes, I
sent this on to others. Please let me know if you have more and where
I can access them. Once again, Thank you and GOD bless."
"It is so amazing
that I received this e-mail today; for just last week I went into some
kind of depression just thinking what would become of me when I grew
older (I am 59 right now) but already my body does not move as fast as
I tell it to. Anyway, this was the most moving e-mail I have received
and believe me, I have received many, many beautiful ones but I just
could not contain my tears with this one. I feel very very curious and
would love to ask the elderly just how it feels to grow old but I do
not want to offend anyone and I don't. This is wonderful work because
it puts us to meditate on life, especially 'old' age. Thanks.
Margie Guerra Mendoza, Laredo, Texas 78041"
"Simply the most
beautiful e-mail I have ever received. Everyone should remember! Lori
Ann Wagner"
"First of all – don’t
bring kids in the world so that they can do for you. If day care
workers were good for us, then nursing home workers should be good for
you. If 5 marriages, countless lovers, multiple broken homes, happy
hour and step parents were good for us as children, explain to me how
now we need to be patient, loving, and attentive to you? If the TV was
a good tool to keep us as children out of your hair, then tell me what
tool we can use now to keep you out of ours. You need this ridiculous
internet ‘show’ to manipulate us (typical) with guilt for all your
neglect, abuse, narcissistic and liberal lifestyle you lived when we
were 'your dear children' to get what you should have earned
with love, family values, discipline, selflessness, respect for God
and marriage and an uninterruptible devotion to the needs of your
children during the 18 full years you were obligated to fulfill, but
didn’t. It appears the sexual revolution, feminism and the eviction of
God from society and family hasn’t served you all as well as you
thought. HOWEVER – the birth of my children and my resolution to
provide them every spiritual, emotional and physical need that their
birth entitles them to led me straight to God. Though I wasn’t raised
to be this way, I have a God centered, in-tact, two parent traditional
home with marriage and family values. Not only is this a benefit to
me, my husband and children … it is a benefit to my handicapped father
who lives with us. DMI"
"I just finished
watching your video and I cried like a baby! I am sending this to all
I know as too often people turn into strangers, and adults turn into
monsters as their parents get older and can no longer give them all
they wish to gain from them. I know this as my husband used to work at
a nursing home and he often bought shoes, warm pajama's and other such
needed supplies for the gracious residents there, because their
families would not. I hope more people will view this and use their
brain and maybe even act like they did not lose their intelligence,
and take care of their parents they never gave up on you DON"T GIVE UP
ON THEM!!! There is always a way there is always time. You made time
for your kids just as they did for you MAKE TIME NOW FOR THEM WHEN
THEY NEED YOU!!! That is all I have to say.... Shawnna mother of 7
children 29 yrs old. Children ages 10-3 May god bless all our parents
EVERY WHERE!"
"This is awesome!
Very touching. This is the kind of message both children and parents
need to meditate on. I will share this with my family, at this time
that the children are about to leave home and my wife and I are not
too far away from retirement. God bless you. Nii Sarpei, Accra, Ghana,
West Africa."
"Thank you... I'm age
72, with children and grandchildren who should see this, but probably
won't watch it even after I send the link"
February 14,
2007
"It was the most
touching power point that I have ever read so far. I truly speaks of
what we as parents feel. We are in the baby boomer age and facing the
time of taking care of our parents. Yet wishing that our own children
will have compassion on us as well. What a touching and moving
presentation for all to see. Thank You, Love in Christ, K. M. Kemp,
TX"
"This was nice and
very true, as both my husband and I are only children. Both of our
mother's had Alzheimer's and he is regressing some now. However, thank
God for researchers and the money that has found the pills that will
slow this horrible disease down. He is on two of them, now. The music
would have been lovely, if it had not broken up so terribly and we are
on a cable modem, too."
"This was sent to me
by my sister, who received it from a friend. This is just what I would
wish for if I were a parent. SUPERB!!!!! Sandra W."
"This was so
touching. I cried all through it. The music is wonderful. Having lost
both my parents sometime ago I know the feeling of missing them.
Shirley Hughes / Manassas, VA 20110"
"It is wonderful and
very touching. I just lost my 86 year old Mother in July 06 and 95
year old Daddy in Dec 06. Some of these things said were exactly what
they were conveying to us to help us understand. They both longed to
go to their Heavenly Home as life of enjoyment was over for them. I
have friends I would love to give a paper copy to and also use in
programs at times."
"This is absolutely
beautiful. The music goes perfectly with the words. My mother is 97
years old and I can relate as she has been a perfect, precious,
Christian mother. Thank you, Martha Brown."
"I have watched and
listened to this slide show for many, many times. Have cried every
time, since today is Valentines day and I am lonely. I am a 79 year
old widow with 3 grown children. Thank you so much for such a
beautiful slide show. Herma, Hackney, Indiana"
"This has helped me,
tremendously, in dealing with my mother and remembering what she has
done for me. It also made me ashamed of the times I have been short,
snappy, impatient, and angry with her. Although my mother would be the
first to say 'We can't be perfect. We just do the best that we can
at the time.' I will use this poem as a reminder that my mother
does deserve the best at all times. In fact I printed this and it is
hanging on my frig, as a reminder and as a beautiful piece of poetry.
I look forward to the CD. Thank you!"
"This is the most
powerful and beautiful thing I have ever seen or heard. Thank you so
much for providing this to the world. I will share this with many
people. God Bless you."
"This is the most
beautiful thing I have ever read. I think all children should read
this. It bought tears to my eyes. It made me think of when I was young
and my mother was alive. Many of the things in this, she had told me.
Now that I am older I realize what being older is. I love
this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank You".
February 13,
2007
"Thank you. I have
wonderful parents and friends and I think we often forget the most
important part of our journey on this place called Earth. This video
is absolutely beautiful and I want to thank you for sharing it with
me, as I will with those that I love and I hope. I will also honour my
parents in the way that they have always honour me. Respectfully
Suzanne"
"This is truly great!
How truthfully put and said. Needs to be sent to everyone's children
and grandchildren. We need them as we grow older more than ever and
need them to keep in touch with us. Especially grandchildren who when
they were born, thought they were the most magnificent people on
earth, even more so than our own children. Good job!"
"Thanks so much for
this touching slideshow. You must realize how much it means to people
like my husband and me. He is 86, with Alzheimer's Disease and I am
the 84 year caregiver, with the help of three wonderful children. I
could not be a good caregiver without the help of our three wonderful
children. They are there - even before we need them for something we
can't do. God really blessed us when He sent them to us and we are
truly thankful. Of course, I am sending this slideshow to them just as
a reminder as they have to learn to be a caregiver just as we had to
learn to be a parent."
"From all the e-mail
that I've gotten and along with down loads the Parents' Wish was by
far the best of the best. So I thank you."
"As an 85 year old
Great Grandfather and on the downhill slide, I can relate to this.
Believe me I LOVE IT. It is all so true to life. Keep up the good
work. The best I have found on the net. Joseph L Toffton"
"This is a very
moving presentation."
"I thought that this
was a great slides show. At this time my mother is slowly dying of
COPD and her lungs are totally shot from smoking 2 packs a days for 55
years. Till this day she smoke if she wasn't on a ventilator to help
her breathe. The tough decisions is when to let her go. I'm just
waiting for GOD to call for her to become my guardian angel. In her
letter left to us, all she wants is time to rest upstairs before she
comes back to watch over us and still take care of her 3 adult
children. She also loves to hear Josh Groban, and we play it over and
over for her. We know that she will always be there for us until as
she puts it 'until we meet again.' Lost without our mom. From
her 3 kids in Las Vegas"
"A wonderful
presentation. Thank you for producing it."
"I just want to say
thanks."
February 12,
2007
"My dear, dear mother
had a stroke and a heart attack in July of 2006. She is a retired RN.
She doesn't accept care very graciously as she was a caregiver for her
entire life. On her 86th birthday she suffered another stroke. This
stroke took more of my mother from me. She was/is my best friend. She
has become my child. Her dignity has suffered along with her pride.
But this I know, she is forever my heart strings and forever I will
protect her. Thank you for your website. It couldn't have been more
timely that a friend felt I should see/hear and enjoy it. God bless
you... Janet"
"This is the most
beautiful thing I have ever seen. It touched my heart and made me want
to reach out to my mom. Thank you so much. Heather (from New Zealand)"
"This is most
touching thing I have read in a long time. I cried so hard and
remembered losing my two daughters, mother and brother in with cancer.
I am still raising my two grand daughters. My husband and I are in our
70s. So it is hard. Thanks for this wonderful reading. I would love
that song of Josh Groban."
"This is so
beautiful… I was touched. This should be on TV or some place to be
seen by the world. Pat"
"Mom and Dad has to
go in this day and age. I am 64 with 2 adult children and 4
grandchildren. My ex husband, the father of my children, died 2 years
ago. You need to change Mom and Dad to Your Loving Parent"
"Very Powerful! Thank
you!"
"This is the most
powerful email I have ever received. Every time I watch it and listen
to that beautiful song, I cry like a baby. It makes me wish that I
still had my Momma here to talk to and take care of. My Momma was a
beautiful, strong woman. She endured so much sorrow and pain in her
almost 80 years. I loved her so much, but I don't think that she ever
realized how much. Just before she passed away she tried to tell me
something, but she couldn't because she had a tube in her throat. I
will never know what she was trying to say. I have 6 sons of my on and
I cherish everyday that I can call them just to say 'I love you'
and we never talk to each other without saying 'I love you' no
matter if we talk 10 times a day. Thank you for producing this
beautiful email. I have sent it to all of my children who have email
and to all of my friends. Mary"
"This video really
touched my heart and understanding that our time is limited and enjoy
every moment we share with our parents. My father has passed on but I
have not regrets or remorse of being there for my father till his last
hour on this earth. Now we are taking care of our mother and it hasn't
been easy because she has Alzheimer's and Dementia. But we still love
her and care for her everyday. She is still above us and we enjoy her
jokes, her smile and her knowing she is our mother. My sister was
diagnosed with Lung Cancer and mother doesn't recognize her. It is
very difficult to know her time also is limited. Thank you for this
beautiful video. I read it aloud to my husband and we both cried. MHS"
February 11,
2007
"This is a very
touching video. I am taking care of my 80 year old mother and this is
exactly what is going on in our lives today. Thank You for this
reminder, I thank God for the years he has given her to share with
me."
"Magnificent. Dr. C.
Marvin Brads, Psa. 78:9"
"This was sent to me
by my daughter, and that means a lot. A most touching video, so true
to life. Not having either parent alive, am pleased to think I did
what the video says, and am glad to think I treated them as I would
want to be treated. Beautiful, inspiring and a video that I will send
on for others to see and learn from. Thank you! Margie F."
"I would like to
thank the person who created these words. It really touches me
personally. It is real that what we do to all our children and the
effort we gave them when they where small are all true. It made me cry
listening to the music and reading it all. Oh, I can't hold
myself and cried. I would like to thank my friend Chris for sharing me
this beautiful poem. I sent it to my kids and I'm saving it for them
again, that I can still re-send for them in the future. Thanks... for
the wonderful email. Mariam (Victoria Drive) Vancouver"
"Fantastic. EVERYONE
should see this."
"I watched and I was
really touched. Who ever did this did a great job and you can tell it
came from their heart. I have sent it to all my friends and family.
Thank you. Frances Coon, Michigan"
"I lost my dad back
on May 26th, and when I walked into work my co workers showed me this
site. It was a beautiful site, and the most true site I have ever
seen. It made me cry like a baby, hoping that I did do everything in
in my power to never make my Father ever feel less than a person. I
loved my Father and Parents Wish is so true and so touching, so REAL.
So anyone out there if your Parents are sick treat them with the
utmost respect because you only get one set of PARENTS! Thank You,
June"
February 10,
2007
"I'm so glad I
received the e-mail with your Parents' Wish site. It is a very
touching and soul searching message. The circle of life from child to
parent to child is one we will all travel if the Lord leaves us on the
Earth long enough. We forget sometimes and become impatient with our
elderly family members. We need reminders to let us know how precious
they are all to us and that every day is a gift, not a given. Thanks,
DeeAnna, a child to my parents, and a mother to my children."
"Thank you! This is
so timely. I started tearing up as soon as I heard the music. I am
guilty of getting frustrated with my parents when they repeat
themselves, and when they voice their feelings about aging and the
aches and pains that come with it. I feel so helpless as I struggle to
say the right words and do the right things that will comfort and
benefit them. I know that I am blessed to have them as my parents who
still make me feel so special. They have always been there for me and
I am forever grateful. Watching this link just confirms that I need to
do all that I can to help make life easier and more enjoyable for
them. They are still very much a part of my life and I love them
dearly. Thank you again for such a beautiful tribute."
"I want to thank you
wholeheartedly for making viewing of this remarkable slide. My darling
wife has Alzheimer's and takes seizure to. Our folks have long gone
but live in us always. As for Parents' Wish, it's outstanding to say
the least, so heart-rendering and sorrow, but with this on hand I can
keep my mind in the right position. But it's very trying at time's
knowing I can't help her. We live in a pensioner's village with other
old-folk some not to well. Yes that's life, but what gets me is most
of these dearie's have Grandkid's overseas an never see them."
"It’s lovely. Thank
you."
"Approximately 8
months ago, I was rewarded with one of the highlights of my life; I
was introduced to this beautiful and thought provoking song and the
words that accompanied it. During the past 8 months, not a day has
gone by that i have not listened to this song at least twice and
sometimes more. My father just turned 89 years old and I am the only
person he has to depend on. Sometimes he can be quite a 'handful'
to take care of but I call it 'pay back' time for all the
things he and my mother did for me while I was driving them crazy
during my 'childhood'. It takes the care of an elderly person
to remind you as to where your 'roots' really are and if you
are like me, you probably have apologized for all the 'bad times
you gave your parents while you were growing up'. Thank you Josh
Groban for a song and a video that will forever keep my 'mind'
in perspective as I continue to do whatever I possibly can to make the
remainder of my father's life, worth living. If I had my way, the
entire world would hear this song, at least one time and then everyone
would realize what I am having a difficult time trying to convey."
"What a beautiful
thing that was to watch and to listen to!!!! It says so well what is
in the heart of most of us that we would want our children to be aware
of. Thank you for a wonderful rendition! M. Snodgrass"
"Thank you so much
for this wonderful presentation on life. I asked my sons to watch it
and was truly amazed by their reaction. I have sent it on to everyone
on my address list and I cry every time I watch it. I work with a
company called Visiting Angels and I wish this could be sent to all
our patients' children. God Bless you."
"It is so moving, so
'right on'. It touches not only the heart, but the soul.
Incredibly beautiful. I forwarded it to about 50 friends and family
members. We all need to be reminded and this does it, so perfectly.
God bless the author, whomever he or she maybe."
February 9,
2007
"I am a nurse and I
work in a locked Alzheimer's facility (skilled nursing and assisted
living). This video was sent to me by my co-worker and friend. It is
just a BEAUTIFUL, beautiful message. I was in tears from the very
first page. I wish everyone who works there and who walks through the
doors, would watch this video. I never doubted why I became a nurse,
and it's things like this video that just prove to me over and over
again, that I made the right choice. Thank you. Christine"
"Absolutely amazing.
God Bless you and give you the necessary 'stuff' to continue in
promoting this inspiring works. Dorothy ,Calgary, Canada"
"Someone sent me the
Parents' Wish and it has affected me emotionally so much. I hope I
will not forget it. I sent it to many other folks via email and I have
heard back from most of them saying it helped them look at their
elderly parents in a much more tender way and that they too were in
tears. Thank you so much."
"Yes, Parents' Wish
brought tears to my eyes. Thanks so very much."
"This is truly the
most moving email that I have ever received!! It helped me to look at
my life and put everything into perspective. Too many times we get
caught up in the rush of life and don't take time to enjoy the 'little'
things that matter. We too often do not take the time to let our loved
ones know what they mean to us. What really matters and is most
important in our lives is our family! This CD would be a great way to
let them know how much we care and that we love them unconditionally,
not just for the things that they have done for us as a child but for
being the rocks that they are in our lives."
"I don't cry, but I'm
in tears !!!! John (getting old Dad)"
"I love this song. It
makes you think about life. The messages and pictures on this are very
true to how life goes in a circle. We start out needing help and end
up that way. I thought of my mom while reading and listening to the
song. I have many CD’s Josh has done. He is a fantastic singer and
truly puts his heart and soul into his singing."
"This was absolutely
outstanding. Kudos to all those involved in this masterpiece. My only
wish is that as a divorcee, I would like to have on the final scene,
one that would just say, 'I love you very much.' DAD. That
means there should also be one for just MOM too. It would be nice if
you could send this on with just Dad or Mom as one or the other may
have already passed on. It seems odd to say 'we love you, child.'
I would assume that this message would only go to our children thus
the 'child' part seems kind of redundant. Well
done!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
[Webmaster's note: The
Single Parents' version of the slideshow has been out for quite
sometime now. Please go to our
main page for the links.]
February 8,
2007
"I have never been so
touched by any presentation such as this. Thank you again for
presenting this to the public."
"All I can tell you
is that song and the printed word were absolutely beautiful!!!! I
loved it and it is so true. I sent it to my son immediately. Thank
you, Linda H."
"Thanks, your
presentation is surely a blessing. I plan to forward it to our kids on
Valentine's Day. Hopefully it will be saved and enjoyed many times.
Darlene"
"I'd love to have a
copy of the DVD. It's fantastic and my Mom is about to pass away.
Would love to play it at her funeral."
"This was sent to me
by my sister, to thank me for taking care of our father whom has
Alzheimer's. I was with my mother-in-law when she passed at home from
cancer as well and no matter how many years you are in the health care
field it never gets easier seeing those we love and whom have taken
care of us slip away. This was the most moving e-mail I have ever
gotten and immediately I sent it to all my friends. This should be
used as a teaching tool for anyone whom is thinking of working with
the elderly. I hope that this wonderful piece of work never stops
circulating. I have not stopped crying. God Bless all of you that put
this together. Sincerely, Laurie Hardman Seekonk, Mass"
"I just opened this
email from my mom today. She sent it on December 13, 2006. Because, we
live 5,000 miles apart she sends me a lot of emails, jokes, prayers,
and family updates. Because, I am busy with my 'own' family I
usually put her emails in a file and go through them when I have time.
I hadn't realized it was so long since the last time I went through
her file. I am very glad she sent this to me. It made me cry, it
made me see how not reading her emails daily probably hurts her very
much. After all she still takes time out of her day to talk to me the
least I could is listen. Thank You for reminding me that she is still
my 'own' family too. Lynnette"
"A while back I
viewed your slideshow and cried and then sent it off to my daughter
and son. I don't remember if at that time it had Josh Groban's voice
attached. I once again cried and am so glad you have a mother's
version coming out with more pictures of women. Has it been released
yet? If so, I would appreciate a link. Thanks for such a meaningful
and beautiful and touching show."
[Webmaster's note: The
Single Parents' version of the slideshow has been out for quite
sometime now. Please go to our
main page for the links.]
"This is remarkable.
Thank you so much for spreading the word. In this world of hustle and
bustle, we all need to slow down and take time to appreciate what is
around us, our families and friends. I am afraid a large number of our
young people (25 - 35) do not realize this applies to them. They will
be our care givers in the next few years. This is on it's way to my
children who helped me with my aging mother. I know they will
appreciate the message. Thank you again. It is beautiful. The music
could not be more appropriate. From Kuna, ID"
"I sat in total awe
for a few minutes after watching and listening to your slide. A tear,
one tear drop dripped from my right eye onto my right hand.
Immediately, my daughter name Kelly came to mind. Around 5 years ago I
was diagnosed with systemic Lupus and Fibromyalgia and a deteriorating
disc in my lower back which makes it very hard to work. She never
comes over to see, only to drop my grandkids off. Some times it can
only be the 11 year old because I am bedridden that and I can't take
care of a roadrunner 4 year old. So off this went right to my
daughter. I pray God will speak to her heart that it's ok the way I
am, I just want her to come and visit and take her my beautiful
grandchildren home with her. Thank you so. This will be put in my
favorites. Debbie Smith Largo, Florida"
February 7,
2007
"Thought this was
very beautiful and very honest. I have an elderly Mother who is
failing and can no longer do much on her own. We all care for her and
have her in our homes, we help her walk, bathe go to the restroom and
prepare her meals. We will do this until she is no longer here on
earth. More people need to understand this. For those of us whose
parents were there for us, bad and good, we owe them now. Don't forget
who taught you a lot of what you know and helped to make you who you
are. Be grateful and never take a single day for granted. If you
think of them, call or if you can visit, they enjoy both. Please just
don't forget them, they didn't forget you."
"Thank you so much
for this! I've shown it to two of my daughters' and so far it's
brought tears to all three of us. Will have to email it to my oldest
daughter since she is now married and living out of town. The second
time I visited the website, I had my 2 year old granddaughter on my
lap and it's the only thing on the web that she actually sat still
through and watched the whole thing. Once again, thank you so much for
doing such a fantastic job with it!!"
"I am a Social
Services Director at a Nursing Center. My mother sent me your
slideshow and I was truly emotional over it. It really shows a lot of
the issues I deal with on a daily basis at the Nursing Home. I have
tried to explain to a lot of the younger generation that they need to
be loyal and care for our elderly, you know they are the reason we are
here, without our parents there would be no 'us'. Our facility
is just like a big family and we love each other very much, when they
hurt, we hurt, when they are happy, we are happy, when they are mad,
we comfort them. The slideshow really opened my eyes to see how our
Residents and how my parents or grandparents feel or may feel one day.
I recently had a grandmother pass away and the slideshow made me feel
a little better about the way she may have felt before she passed
away, she would always say 'I have just lived too long', I
would always change the subject or tell her not to say that, but I see
now that it was just her way of telling me it's ok, I am going to BE
alright and you will too. You know life is a cycle, when there is a
beginning, there is always and end and we are all here for a reason
and by traveling life's road, we may find what the reason is."
"Recently one of my
friends sent me Parents' Wish. I just had to e-mail you and compliment
you on this piece. I am a nurse on a behavior unit in a nursing home
and most of my residents have Alzheimer's and dementia and watching
this just lets me view them so much differently. Thank you. I hope I
can get through to a few of my fellow staff with this wonderful slide.
Please notify me of anymore presentations such as this and God bless
you."
"Thank you so much
for sharing this beautiful message."
"I just want to let
you know that this has really touched my heart. I used to work in a
nursing home and I am considering going back to work at one again
after seeing your film. Thank you! Natalie"
"Thanks, this is
absolutely beautiful."
February 6,
2007
"Thank you so very
much for preparing that presentation.. I'm 60 years young/old now and
understand every word. My wife and I live on a small farm in central
Missouri. Long ways from wealthy, but with the Lords guidance, we are
rich in the Blessings that He provides."
"Thank you! Wow two
short word's that mean so much. My mother is 83 and I do relate to all
that was shared here. My father is gone but I still have Mom. I love
her very much but after seeing this I see how some times I do get
frustrated, I will try to do better. After I send this to everyone on
my mailing list, I am going to get my mother and show her all the
love, respect, and patience the good Lord gives me. (Hopefully I will
stop crying by then) Thank you again."
"Thank you for the
creation (re-creation) of such an excellent presentation. I’ve shared
it with many (younger and old)."
"Thank you. Excellent
job!!"
"I just had to
respond to this wonderful saying and music. You see I am the caregiver
for my 91 year old mom, living with me in my home. Somedays are very
hard to cope with the fact of her memory and etc. This was so
uplifting, I feel that it was meant just for me. It did make me cry
and I do know that God watches over us and had this sent directly to
me to make me really appreciate my mom. Her husband of 70 years just
passed away last May, my dad. I was caregiver to the two of them...
now only my mom. I have been truly blessed with my parents. Thanks so
much for putting this together. I am sure it will be passed along for
a good long time as it should. I will be forwarding it to many. My
brother-in-law in AZ. sent it to me as he thought it was a good
thing.... and it was beautiful."
"Parents' Wish was a
truly inspiring message!! Thanks to it's originator!! Tears flowed,
and my heart opened!! It shows one, that life really is a circle of
love!!! God Bless our wonderful parents!! Bren from W.I."
"It really hits home.
I am 62 years old and my parents survive. My dad (93) is in a nursing
home and my mom (89) lives independently in a small apartment nearby.
They need the help to do everyday things and I live 1200 miles away.
Thank God for your inspirational message that serves to remind me of
what a precious thing I have in them. And I thank God for my brothers
and the help they provide in my absence. God Bless."
February 5,
2007
"I was so moved.
Thanx for the beautiful experience. I'm about to forward this to my
children and grandchildren. Bless you for passing this on."
"I have been an
assistant caregiver for my Maternal Grandmother, and Paternal
Grandfather, both in their 90's. I have enjoyed the time spent with
them so that I became a Home Health Aide. This presentation with the
music was absolutely beautiful. No matter how many times we hear a
story we must try to listen with 'new ears'. Otherwise we could
miss a lot."
"I merely wanted to
convey my appreciation for this movie. It is very touching and
poignant, alright. I couldn’t have received this at a more appropriate
time. And, I duly sent the links to my children. This is because I
just lost my mother almost a year ago, and my father almost a month
ago. My sisters and brother and I absolutely 'get' this video.
My parents passed away under hospice care, and we were the caregivers.
We experienced the very same things depicted in the movie. We 'got
it', we understood, we walked in those shoes, and this movie
totally served as reminders because there were times during those days
that we did forget."
"I am blessed to
still have my mother at 103+ and get to visit her about three times a
week. I have learned a lot about patience and God's comfort through
the last few years, but I wish I'd seen and heard this earlier. There
have been times I haven't always understood and was not as helpful as
I could have been. She has been remarkably loving and tries not to be
a bother to anyone. She has been blessed by the caregivers' love and
patience at the Nursing Home she's lived in for eight years now,
following surgery that made her legs disabled. Thank you for a
beautiful program."
"It is very true and
touching."
"Thank you for such
beautiful, meaningful wishes and especially to receive on a day like
today. Much love, Connie"
"Very poignant. And,
right to the point. Well done, and God Bless for this fine piece of
work."
"Beautiful! I lost my
mother 7 years ago, at the age of 91, and could relate very well. I
wish I had seen this before my mother passed away. Chris, California,
USA"
"I am in totally awe
– my parents sent this to me. My dad is going to be 72 and my mom just
turned 70. I always talk to them at least 3 times a week over the
telephone as we live miles away from each other. We recently had a
death in the family and I went home for the funeral and it was at that
time I realized that my parents have slowed down. I, for the first
time, took a look around at their home and noticed all the things that
have stacked up. I had a hard time as I realized for the first time
that my parents are getting older. I don’t think of them not being
here. So when I received this message It made me realize that I need
to go home more and share what time is left for them so that when the
day comes I will have no regrets and will know in my heart that I did
the right things for them. There are so many people who don’t make the
time and then it is to late. This needs to be in every household and
God needs to be in all our lives. Please keep this going as this
country and our young people desperately need our prayers and help.
Thank you for putting such an heart felt slide show together. -
Michele"
February 4,
2007
"Thank you for such a
beautiful piece of work......It was very emotional. I no longer have
my parents with me but I feel proud that I did all those things.... I
will be forwarding this to my kids for sure......You touched my
heart...."
"This is so
wonderful, it brought tears to my eyes."
"Your video is simply
beautiful!"
"That is Beautiful
and So True! ! ! Thank you for that Blessing."
February 3,
2007
"I think this should
be flashed daily on TV during the prime time and in all cinema houses
in all the shows. My hearty congratulation to you. Atul Shah, India
Mumbai."
"Love the
presentation."
"This is the only
email I've ever received that brought me to absolute tears. I am a 36
year old mom who, up until recently, took care of my 89 year old
grandmother. It has been a very emotional experience watching my once
active grandmother age and lose her quality of life. There has been
times of utter frustration, anger, sadness, and hopelessness when
dealing with her. I felt like I was dealing with a 89 year old
toddler. Now, I'm ashamed for feeling like this after watching this
video. It was a real eye-opener. I know now that I need to think back
and remember what grandmother did for me. She helped raise me and was
there for me during all the most important times of my life. I need to
be there for her in return during her time of need. it's the circle of
life. Thank-you to all who took the time to create this website. You
should feel very good about yourselves for touching so many people. I
think this should be a national campaign... Tracey"
"This is the most
beautiful thing I have ever seen. It is so true. Every word. I wish my
parents were alive to see something like this. I am sure to pass this
on to my In-laws to let them know that I will be there if at all
possible. Thank you too to Josh Groban for his beautiful and
meaningful music."
"I have lost both of
my parents, but I think about them every day. I just lost my son at 59
years of age, and he never had the chance to grow old. Whether a
person is young or old, that person is missed beyond reality. I'm now
75. I don't feel that old in my mind, but my body just won't do what I
want it to. The song by Josh Groban brings tears to my eyes every time
I hear it. My daughter is a charge nurse at a nursing home and when
someone dies, she feels that she's lost a part of her. Compassion is
what all people need. Pray for young and old alike, and also for our
servicemen in the Armed Forces. Pat Guy from Maine"
"In some ways, it was
touching, but overall, I guess I did not really care for it. I am not
really sure why. Perhaps after some reflection, I may have a better
reason for not liking some of the messages. Thank you, though, for
trying. Jeffh - ELCA Lutheran pastor"
"Loved this site! It
made me cry. Because even though I have very young children. It made
me think, what I will one day say to them or what they may go through.
Thanks for the inspirational site. I passed it on to EVERYONE on my
email list! Sincerely Tiffany Cooper"
"I cried all the way
through. Working with seniors has been my wish for years - mainly to
help 'children' understand to be 'nice' to their
parents. This slideshow said it all. I would love to see these on
billboards across America - similar to the GOD billboards. Thank you
for staying with the course and making this available for so many to
see on the web. It was a journey and if that journey had not be
persistent - I was one that would not have seen it. My mother died
when she was only 50 and my father - now 77, had a stroke last May.
When I see people yelling at their mothers or they get frustrated with
them, I do not hesitate to try and talk to them quietly to remember -
Parents were there for you (hopefully) and to be thankful you have a
parent to go to lunch with at all! I would give anything for my mother
to be at my children's events and then when my father was unable to
travel to my son's wedding last summer due to the stroke, it was hard.
My prayer to each is to remember our seniors. They have given their
dues, their sweat, their tears and have unbelievable wisdom we could
draw from. Thank you for sending the message."
"My mom is 81 years
young and leaves us in the dust. Her memory fades from time to time,
she repeats herself more often, but she's still the most beautiful
woman I've ever known. Parents' Wish reinforces the 'old fashioned'
belief that our elders are treasures and that we, too, will be old
someday. Thank you for putting this so eloquently and truthfully. As
my 101 year old Grandma put it when I was changing her diaper: 'Ain't
this a helluva note? You come into this world wearin' diapers and go
out wearin' diapers.' I laughed so hard I cried. I hope, no matter
what the circumstances, if my children ever have to care for me that
the only tears they cry are ones of laughter. Sue H."
February 1,
2007
"This is absolutely
beautiful and when I pass, hopefully not for a long time, I would like
this for my children. Thanks for such beautiful work."
"I am a Hospice nurse
and we have so many patients whose children need to watch this video.
It may make a real difference in their lives and their relationship
with their parent(s)."
"This slideshow is
awesome. I cant wait for you to come out with a CD so I can show it to
my mom and dad."
"The combination of
Josh's music and the wording used really helped to lift me up today.
Those of us who still have both parents, sisters and brothers, all
alive here with us are very lucky and blessed. This moment with
Parents' Wish reminded me once again of what is truly important..
family and the love of that family. I wish that every child born into
this world could be so fortunate. I thank my girlfriend for sharing
Parents' Wish with me and to all of you for creating it. The whole
world could use some of this love, warmth and joy."
"Extremely well done.
Sensitive, touching, meaningful but the technology part could be done
better or is rather bit wrongly covered. Most importantly it does gave
youngsters a moment to think about their parents and where and how
they are at that minute.. from their busy hectic schedules and race of
life… It just brings back time and makes us know of human needs and
how we are to adhere to them not just depend on technology and money.
Its probably an important lesson again and what our parents have given
us even when they are growing old and made us aware of tomorrow Which
they always do. To look at it or not is choice of the young !!!
Thanks and Regards, Himanshu Advant"
"I have listened to
this several times and still my heart weeps and tears flow. I am
blessed by this enough to buy Josh Groban CD that has the music and
words. Bless You all for this. God Bless You and Keep You In His
Mighty Arms. Joseph Potocny"
January 31,
2007
"This is truly a
remarkable video and everyone should see it because at some point in
their life they will be able to relate to it. I can personally relate
to this, because as we speak, my mother who turned 78 years yesterday
is taking care of her mother and my grandmother who is 98. My mom has
given up so much during her life to do what is 'right' . She
and my dad both immigrated to the US from Croatia in 1966 with myself
and my 2 brothers to give us an opportunity for a better life. After
working for 17 years, they went back and retired in Croatia to take
care of my grandmother. My father was and my mother still is the most
unselfish person I know who thinks about others first before herself
and she continues to sacrifice to watch her mom even though at age 78
herself, someone should be watching her. She could have put her mother
in a home and enjoyed living her precious last years here in US with
her children, but she chose not to because of her dedication in doing
the right thing. Generation after generation, we all need to remember,
that our life here on earth is just a passing. As our Blessed Mother
from Medugorje said in her January 25, 2007 message, 'Do not forget
that you are passing like a flower in a field, which is visible from
afar but disappears in a moment. Little children, leave a sign of
goodness and love wherever you pass and God will bless you with an
abundance of His blessing.' Terry, New Jersey"
"This is one video
that needs to be seen several times to appreciate our parents. In our
family, we take care of our parents and honor them by attending to
them and by living an honorable life. Precious people are not truly
appreciated until they are taken away. Parents are those precious
people who usually are not appreciated because they have always been
there for us. In my opinion, our society tends to place more value and
affection on inanimate objects or animals more than people including
our parents. Thank you for presenting this video."
"O M G that was
beautiful and SO true My Mom passes away with Alzheimer's and that
poem is SO SO SO true even if you still have all your facilities.
Thank you"
"I took care of my
elderly mother until she passed away a couple of years ago. It was not
easy, I had no one to help but I knew I owed it to her for all she had
done for me. I only hope my son can and will understand as I get
older. I sent this to him with tears in my eyes. Baba"
"THAT WAS
SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO BEAUTIFUL. Anyone who views this and can relate to
it should have their tissue box close by. Thanks for sharing this
wonderful work..."
January 30,
2007
"I wanted to say this
is amazing and such a powerful slideshow. I work in Long Tern care for
over 20 years and it is a wonderful tool for staff in the facilities.
I have sent it to my Manager and the Recreation dept to use in
newsletters and staff in services. Thank you so very much Bev
MacDonald"
"I would like the
five minutes back I wasted watching this presentation. I haven't seen
such a cheaply contrived pile of saccharine sentimentality since 9-11.
I love my parents deeply and will take care of them in their old age,
as they took care of me when I was young. However, like humility, you
lose it when you point it out. Additionally, do parents who never
spent time with their kids and let the schools and other authority
figures raise their children deserve tender care in their elder years,
when they had none to spare before? I'm a firm believer that you end
up sleeping in the bed you made, no matter how hard it is. Lest I
overwhelm you with cliches and become guilty of the same offense you
have committed, I leave you with this parting thought. In this day and
age, it's really easy to slap together a website and feel like you've
accomplished something, like the spam petitions that Congress will
somehow sit up and notice despite never having done so before. If you
really want to change the world, volunteer your time out in it, not in
WWW land. If you really want to know what your parents want in their
old age, sit down and talk to them about their wishes and plans."
"You cannot imagine
how much impact this video had on me. I lost both of my parent's in
2006; my mother to cancer and my father, from a broken heart after
losing mom. The song that is played in the video was also sung at both
my parents' funerals. The words in the video, were some of the EXACT
same words my parents had spoken to me during their illnesses and
grieving periods. Although I cried my eyes out watching this video, it
was also very uplifting for my grieving soul. Thank you SO much. Kelly
Tons, Angola, IN"
"Thank you so very
much for this beautiful production. It warms my heart and touches me
deeply. Thank you for your creativity and effort to make this
available to me. In this crazy world it is good to know there are
people like you out there presenting this sort of thing for all of
us."
"I am receiving my
first of this amazing 'gift' to people such as myself. We lost
our mother on December 14, 2006. She was 94 years of age and a very
independent individual, very amazing and of course special. She had
eleven children and delivered over 2000 babies into the world as a
midwife. This great piece of heartfelt work ministered to me as it
brought back memories of the way our Mother was. I was with her the
last year and a half of her life her on earth as we knew her. This
item that you and the originator has so graciously put together and
shared with others is Godsend. I just wish I had it before Mother left
us. It teaches a great lesson. I thank God for each of you who so
lovingly put this together and are sharing it. I forwarded it to my
family today (as many as had computers or cell phones that could
receive it.) God keep you."
"This Parents' Wish
is amazing and so touching. Please notify me when the CD is
available."
January 29,
2007
"This was very
beautiful. And Josh Groban's voice is so wonderful. I sent this to my
two girls, even though we are not that old yet, but it was so
emotional and so true. Thank you for the experience of receiving this
as an email from a dear friend. Norma Butler."
"Thank you for the
wonderful presentation, as it has come to be a great help for me in a
tough time becoming a parent to my mom, when I haven't had a chance to
raise a child yet. This gives me strength and courage, and I know I
will refer to it often. I only wish I could've read something like
this years ago when my father was aging too quickly for me to accept.
Thank you again for the wonderful presentation, as it says things that
a parent only wishes their ego would let them say. Maria"
"This is one of the
most beautiful tributes to our senior citizens I have ever seen. I am
a 55 year old male and I am not ashamed to say I needed a kleenex to
watch it. I remember my dad, at the age of 75, sitting up in bed at
the nursing home and stating that he was tired of living and was ready
to die. He asked us to call the Hospice people and after meeting with
them he gave us two weeks to say goodbye and then he died. We never
argued with him to continue fighting, because his life was not living,
it was just breathing and we understood his willing himself to die. He
was a Christian, and he knew God had a better body and place for him
and he was ready to lay claim to his inheritance. I am going to
forward this to my only child, along with a note telling her how much
I love her and always will. At my age, I am already starting to forget
simple things and am not as sharp as I used to be. Having said that,
nothing that happens to me will ever lessen my love for her. Thank you
to the folks that put this together, and Josh Groban being one of my
favorite singers and this my favorite song, made it even better. Jim
Crews"
"I loved this video.
I never realized the similarity between the things we do on an
everyday basis to raise and teach our children is the same things they
end up doing for us when we get old. This really opened my eyes to
many things. Both of my parents are gone, however I have older
siblings and I will try my best to help then grow old with respect and
dignity. Darlene H. Pyle, LaGrange, North Carolina"
"After watching this,
I couldn't keep my eyes dry, as my mother died from cancer, and I was
the only one in my family that could understand why she wanted to go.
Thank You."
"I have been taking
care of my 96 year old mother for the past 12 years, the last 5 have
been here in my home. She has gone from being mobile to totally
dependent for everything except eating. I get upset with some of the
spills and messes that she makes, and sometimes scold, but I realize
like the clip says, you love them and you overlook a lot of the
problems that are caused just because she is so very old, and you
remember that she took care of me for as long as I needed. This
Parents' Wish is so moving and sentimental...thanks for making it.
Shirley, Kirkville, NY"
"I usually live to do
forgetting the parent's benefit for me and sometimes fear and sad when
they said to me 'We don't want to live any more and want to die.'
The speaking makes my head spin during a moment and makes a hut my
heart. Today I felt sadness while seeing your slideshow and realized
to need a preparation for them. And I will try to give a happy and
rest to them owing to your slideshow raise me up. I would like to say
'A thousand thanks' to you, your family and friends once again.
"It is very
touching!"
January 28,
2007
"This is a moving
presentation. Thank you. Donna"
"A friend sent this
to me a few minutes ago. I watched it the first time without my head
set on and I loved it. The second time I put them on and I just teared
up. My mom has been repeating herself a lot the past 6 months and it
was really getting on my nerves. She had surgery last week to clear
two veins or arteries on the left side of her neck that were over 90%
blocked. Hopefully now the return of adequate blood flow will
oxygenate the brain and her thinking will clear. I already see
improvement, thank God. This slide show helped to put things in
perspective for me and I am grateful. I never thought about it this
way. Thank you for helping me handle what I know is coming sooner or
later, the right way. My mom deserves it. Melinda Velisek. Savannah
GA."
"This made me cry."
"Wow!!! This is soooo
poignant and soooo powerful. We should not gripe about having to do
things for our elderly parents that they once joyfully did for us.
Jan"
"Very beautiful. It
makes the heart glad to see and hear something like this."
January 27,
2007
"I am caregiver for
both parents....beautiful piece!"
"That is so awesome!
I would like to be a part of this web site. Thank you. M. Journey
...God bless!"
"As I viewed this
beautiful song and poem, it brought many, many tears to my eyes! I
have grandchildren who treat me much better than do my own children.
That hurts deeply! At this point, they do not understand. They will. I
love them so. It hurts so that they will not come to see me or even
spend time with me on the phone. The implications are they are too
busy to 'fiddle' with an 'old fart' who can't offer them
anything any longer, other than my hurts and pains, of which I try
very hard to not share with them. Sometimes, they just slip out,
though. As a father who wasn't the best father, I rue the things that
I didn't do, but alas, it is way too late to take those things back,
and it doesn't matter how many times I apologize, they seem to never
forgive. I wish so that they could understand so they wouldn't have to
go through these same things, too. I have never loved so much in my
life and it hurts! The tears never seem to stop, and it hurts oh so
much. Children, I love you with all my heart! Please, please, oh
please, forgive me my mistakes. Paul"
"I want everyone to
know, I am a CNA. I work in a nursing home. This site got to me hard.
I cried all the way through it. All I could think about were the
residents there were I work. Most of them have no family or even
friends willing to come in and see them. They are so very lonely. They
are desperate for love and attention. Sometimes I wonder, don't their
children still love them? I get aggravated at times with some of the
residents, but this site just gave me a whole new outlook on my
residents. They are parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles...they are
human. Though they may be failing in memory, and their abilities to
care for themselves, they are still people and need our love as we
needed them when we were children. Please, if anyone puts their
parents in nursing homes, I beg you, don't leave them there to die.
Visit them often and let them know you still love them. Whether they
remember who you are or not. You do remember. Thank you... Charce D."
"What a beautiful
poem, I always thought I was a tough old bird, but when I read this
tears came to my eyes. My children have this now and I hope they can
understand the way we sometimes appear to them. I grab my cane and
don't walk as fast or as far as I used to but still get around. Their
mother and I do not want to be a burden on any of them as they are
loved as much then as they are now. When our time comes, we hope they
will respect our wishes and try to understand---I believe they will
now. Gene & Rita...Okla."
"My sister's husband
is deteriorating physically. He was always her strength. I sent this
to her so that she wouldn't lose patience with him. He is almost 80
years old."
"I really enjoyed the
Parent’s Wish slideshow and would truly enjoy an easier way to share
it with others."
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