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FEEDBACKS - PART 11

May 3,  2007

"Very, very profound. It brought back so many memories, some good and some bad - but on the whole, with God's help, I know I did all the right things for my parents."

"AWESOME ~~THANK YOU !!! I have been retired from 40 + years in Nursing for a year now, and have seen 1st hand EXACTLY what is said in this movie, and now personally as I look into the eyes and listen to my Aunt who is in the beginning stages of Dementia. I have passed it on, to former co-workers, friends, my children and my grandchildren, because it IS a powerful message to ALL mankind. What a remarkable gift you have given ALL who view this and I am humbled by it !!! In Blessed Friendship~ JERI"

"I would love a copy of your CD for i am going through a very tough time just as this."

"May 5th of 2005, I lost my mom to cancer, and when an email of this nature allows me to remember her, then I am affected to tears. I hope that I will keep this philosophy not only w/my father but also with any of the elderly that I come into contact with. I feel that so many times we push our senior citizens aside and forget about them. Sincerely, Tuesday Jones, Dalton, GA"

"You have created a wonderful slide show with lots of beauty in it. My only wish is that the loving, direct and honest requests made by the 'parent' entity could be presented without the guilt. As a therapist, I work every day with the wounds that we as parents (I am the father of two wonderful boys) inflict on our children, not least of which is the 'look at all I've done for you' routine. Just asking for what we need is much healthier and cleaner. I don't give all that I give to my children as something they have to 'repay'. It is my duty, privilege and obligation for bringing them into this world. It is without strings, and I receive as much as I give. I understand the feeling I can get as a parent when confronted with the unappreciative attitude of my child, but it's my feeling to deal with. I think the wonderful things requested in the first half of each slide are things that all adult children should hear, but the 'because I did so much for you' parts are unnecessary and often counterproductive to achieving the ends you desire. JDF J. David Forbes, M.D. Nashville, TN"

"I shared the slides with my 11 year old son, Arif. He was so touched. He understood why I have been so concerned about his grandma, my mum. He said to me, 'Mum, please forward this to my email for I want to remind myself to love and take care of you.' I looked at him and asked, 'Do you want me to print them out?' He answered, 'I will ask dad to laminate them.'

May 2,  2007

"There are those few times in life, that we are humbled - this is one of them. One of the most cherished memories that I hold in my overwhelmed heart realizing that at 43 I am no longer a daughter is when right before my mother who lived 14 years with Alzheimer's looked up at me and said, 'I'm really going to miss you'. My mother died January 19, 2004 and I miss her everyday and sometimes so much I can barely catch my breath. Thank you for writing this beautiful tribute - I hope every man, woman, son and daughter can view this. Dianne Duursma, Alzheimer's Association - Greater PA Chapter"

"I am living this right now. I read this and cried. I've been taking care of my mother now for almost 4 years and she's not going to get any better. It's so hard watching her going down hill. I took her out of a nursing home to give her better care at home. She took care of me and now it's my turn. This is my life plan, and If I have to will do the same for my father."

"This was the most beautiful thing I have seen in my life. I had a stroke about four years ago and have been down a lot because I have one son that does not except the fact that I have a hard time walking and doing other things he thinks I should be doing. This came to me at a good time because I have been depressed and this helped me a lot to understand things. I wish I could get the words to give to some friends that do not have a computer and unable to see this. Thank you again for the wonderful message with my favorite singer besides. Barb Fossmo"

"I never had a real relationship with my mother. On my 50th birthday she told me that she had stopped loving me when I was 2 years old because I was jealous of my new brother, and that she had not loved me since. Finally I was able to accept what was and stop trying to please her all the time, which only proved to be useless. I decided that when her time came, I would not be there for her, as I felt she had not been there for me. She is now 93 years old, and living in a nursing home. My husband has recently been ill, and when I was told that my mother was probably dying about two months ago, I very coldly shrugged it aside and said that my husband came first in my life. Well, he does. However I prayed to God for a small miracle in his illness, and when we got that tiniest of miracle last Friday, I felt in my heart that I had to go to see my mother now. My husband and I made the 5-hour trip to see her on Saturday. I looked at that very old and very fragile lady who has no memory and whose quality of life is just horrible, and all the resentment I have felt in my lifetime died right there. She can no longer hurt me. And no matter how she felt about me as I was growing up, I realize that I have always had a lot of love for her. I was privileged to feed her supper Saturday, and to spend a few hours with her. I don't know if she knows I was there or not, and to be perfectly honest, it doesn't matter anyway. I know that I was there. Now I just pray that God, in His infinite wisdom and mercy, will ease her from this life gently. The lady sitting in that chair is not the mother I knew. She has no dignity left, and my mother always prided herself on being a 'lady'. In my eyes, she is still a lady and always will be. I will treasure whatever relationship I had with her, and be grateful for all she did for me. If she wasn't able to love me, so be it. She still gave life to me and raised me, and God knows that she did her very best in that regard. I must tell you that it was your message that lightened my heart and made me see things as I now see them. Thank you so much for that. I know I can sleep more peacefully now."

"This is the most beautiful thing I have seen and read. I'm 65 and sometimes I do think about these times. I lost my husband about 2 1/2 years ago in a accident and being alone makes me think more often. I think all children should see this. Not for a guilt trip, but for understanding. Thanks for putting it out where everyone can see it."

"Thank you for the Parents' Wish. It made me cry (I'm 60).  I'm afraid this will upset my daughter who is 23, but when the time is right I will send it to her. Thank you again."

"Enjoyed the Parents' Wish very much and would like this to be viewed at my VIEWING when ever that occurs. Thank you."

"What an amazing video slide show! You have touched every faucet of what people mistake as faults in our loved ones as they age. It would be wonderful if you were able to show this to every high, public school, college and university across the world. People need to see this. Thank you for your dedication to parents as you took the time to develop this slide show. I will forward it on to my entire address book with honour. Sheri"

May 1,  2007

"God Bless you. This is so awesome and I needed it desperately. Both my parents are in bad health. My mom being the worst. She can't do anything for herself as her lungs are so eaten up with enphazema. It is so hard to see her struggling for a breath of air. It tears my heart out. The things I seen in this video are what I am seeing. Sometimes I forget her eyes don't work like they did or when she can't think or she spills things on her. I could go on and on but I am without a doubt thankful and thank God for one more day with her and my dad. I have been told by so called friends...you have a life...and I tell them... yea.. taking care of my parents. They took care of me and with God's help I will do the best that I can for them. God Bless you for this video.. Thank you, Linda"

"What a beautiful thing you have done. Thank you for being a voice among us."

"Wow! Talk about an eye opener. I cried while I watched this. It made me realize that our parents do a lot for us, and as a parent I do a lot for my children. My mom is in her 50's and I don't EVER want anything to happen to her, but this tells you to remember all the things that was done for you and that you should give the same back to them. It was beautiful to watch. Thanks for sharing."

"I enjoyed your presentation very much. It is very touching. I work at a nursing home and thought I would show the power point presentation to them over my computer. However, 85% or more of are residents are female and the elder depicted in your presentation is a man. Very few female adults or children are shown. The close ups of the hands are also that of a male. Have you made a similar or second slide show that speaks to women. Thanks for sharing your work.
[Webmaster's note: I'm sorry but due to limited resources, we are unable to implement your suggestion at this time."

"THANK YOU SO MUCH...... This took my breath away......remembering my Mother in Law whom we all loved so dearly.....sent it on to my children and grandchildren....Beautiful...just beautiful......."

"I am wiping my eyes as I write this e-mail. That was so touching and yet informative. I lost my dad a year ago and some of things said there is what I saw but couldn't understand. I know have a better sense of what he felt and when he was in the hospital and seemed to have given up it was just his time and he knew it."

April 30,  2007

"Thank you I am managing my Mom's care now and sometimes I get overwhelmed. I can only imagine how she feels. She just lost her memory in January. Thank you for helping me see it through her eyes. Karen"

"That was excellent."

"I cried like a baby. The music had special meaning--it was the song played for my dance with my son at his wedding.-- P-J McGlynn"

"This viewing is so very true and so heart touching. It makes you think about your parents and grandparents. Some of which are deceased. I am only 37 years old and have many, many medical problems. I just hope that my children will remember all I have done for them and that they can understand me. I sometimes feel that I would just like to go home because I get tired of hurting and complaining. But, God is good and He will only take me home when he is ready for me. I don't know who wrote this, but God Bless YOU!!!!"

"I first got this e-mail while my Dad was still actively being managed for his colon cancer and doing so well after 9 years. We his wife of 57 years and 9 children all shared this beautiful slide show. Now 1 month after his passing I found it on my saved e-mail and it is even more poignant than ever. We struggle with his loss and thank God for him and help Mom and each other. My Dad was 91 when he passed and was frail in the end and needed us near at night, and this e-mail sent randomly to me help me through it all. Thank You all"

April 29,  2007

"This is so beautiful! I wish I had seen this video before. Both of my parents are now with the Lord, and I now realize that I was not as patient as I should have been during their last years. This video has made me realize that their love for me was still very strong, even though they could not express it because of their health conditions. I should have been more loving and have realized that they needed more hugs. Thank You for enlightening me!"

"I work in a hospital with people who have all different forms of dementia. Everyday I learn something new from these special people. I have so learned to enjoy life and have patience. The saddest thing for me to see is the first day the patient does not know his family. I will never forget the first time this happened. I was holding a gentleman's hand and he was asking when his wife was coming. I saw her coming in the door and started walking towards her with him. She came right up to us and he asked her if she had seen his wife. Thank you for the words and music. Bonnie Ventresca"

April 28,  2007

"This is awesome. My Mama and Daddy are both in their 70's with a lot of health issues. My Daddy is in his 5th year of Parkinson's at it is very hard to watch him fail health wise. Thank you for this wonderful movie."

"My Mom turns 90 this year and finally has given into walking with her cane. This is so touching. She is spending the night with me tonight and we will watch the Diamondbacks and play cribbage after dinner. I look forward to it. She has always been there for me. Thank You for reminding me! BEAUTIFUL!!!!"

"I was just reading through the feedback and one person could not understand why anyone would want to die. Obviously this person has never known anyone with Alzheimer's or living in a nursing home with nothing to do but lay in bed. Or watched a loved one die of cancer. When your life is no longer enjoyable why not want to go be with our maker. I look forward to dying. I am not ready yet but when my time comes, I hope the Good Lord sees fit to take me before I am a burden to my children and family. I was very touched by the Parents' Wish. My children just went through losing their Father to Alzheimer's and it was very sad to watch this wonderful man wither away into another world. This Parents' Wish can help several of my friends who are going through tough times with their parents. This arrived in my e-mail to late for my children but in time to help others. Thank You!"

"I'm so touched by this Parents' Wish. Thank you, thank you."

"I don't have all the words right now that can truly express how touching this video was. My father suffered a stroke 7 years ago, and the anniversary of that fateful event was less than a week ago. It's been hard for all of us, but especially him. He was left paralyzed on the right side of his body and with very little intelligible speech. It's easy to get frustrated with him, just as he gets frustrated with us for not understanding what he wishes to express. Your video said it all, however. He showed the same care for me. Thank you so much for this beautiful message."

April 27,  2007

"You are wonderful. My children are my best friends but a lot of families would rather shut out their senior parents not realizing there is a wealth of knowledge if you take the time and be patient. My parents are up in years. My dad is in early stages of Alzheimer's but we have wonderful times because I take the time to listen."

"Hey this is a listener of your thing. I'm only 12 years old and this thing has just turned around my ways of thinking of my parents and grandparents."

"This is an amazing presentation. My wife and I are care givers for our 101 year old aunt as well as volunteers at a nursing home. Everything that was shown is so true. Life is a circle and so many forget how their parents looked after them and it is their turn now to be looked after as it will be our turn. God places us on earth to look after each other and we need to do a better job. This presentation will go a long way to improving our seniors lot in life. God bless you and your work. Doug & Carole Penn"

"It was very beautiful and touching. It made me cry and then realize that my husband and I are getting old and will be facing this sooner than we think. I just hope our children take this to heart when they read it."

"I find this very inspirational and view it at least once a month. I am the primary care giver for an elderly mother with Alzheimer's and can identify with the statements. I also use it to reground me when I feel frustrated and would love to own a copy."

"I took my soon to be 88-year-old mother shopping yesterday afternoon. I've always loved spending time with my mother, especially shopping. But she's getting more frail by the month it seems, and it really hit me yesterday afternoon. I found myself losing patience with her with her at times... and had to remind myself of a lot of the points you make in this video. Not sure if I succeeded entirely. I got an e-mail from my sister with this video URL this morning. Wish I'd gotten it yesterday morning! I'm writing this through the tears. This video should be mandatory viewing not only for all adult children of aging parents, but for everyone."

"A social worker from the hospital where I work passed this around, and I was deeply touched when I viewed it. It brought back memories of my dear mother, who passed a way three years ago at age 86, after battling cancer for nearly two years. As her condition deteriorated, she sometimes 'lashed out' at me and other family members for no apparently good reason. Yet I refused to let that bother me (at least not in her presence). It often helped me at that time to look through family albums. Seeing photos of her -- as a child, lovely young wife and mother, and doting grandmother -- reminded me that each of us has our own 'circle of life'. So I did everything I could to truly BE with her, to see to her comfort, health care, and enjoyment of the time she had left. Even as she was slipping away from us (peacefully, thank God) in the E.R., I was able to hold her hand and tell her how much she means to me. I guess what I'm really trying to say is that being able to care for my mother during the most vulnerable time of her life was a gift for ME, one that I will always cherish. Thank you, again, for producing this truly remarkable film! A daughter in California. Renae Jones."

"With such Grace this movie expresses the most important message to people dealing with aging parents. I am sure God is smiling that you took the time and had the technical ability to make this beautiful presentation. Surely is has blessed many and will continue to do in the future. Well done! Blessings , Linda from Palm Desert"

April 26,  2007

"This really speaks to me. My mother passed away 17 years ago and my 6 children are my hope for the future. I pray this will speak to them. Love and patience are the kind of 'traits' you hope to pass down to your kids This really speaks to that. Kimberly in Colorado"

"Very touching, meaningful, and real. Thank you, David M. Morrow, MD"

"I wanted you to know I enjoyed your Parents' Wish web site so much. It was sent to me by a friend. It is so true and I have had my granddaughter view it as we are raising her. Thank you!!"

"My one and only child, my son, only has me, his Mom, having suffered the divorce of his Mom and Day. I would love to send this beautiful message to him from me but it would hurt him to be reminded that his Dad abandoned him at the time of the divorce many years ago. I wish you had this message with just Mom -- or, for Dad's in my situation, end with just Dad. And that there was a way to choose an ending of Mom or Dad or Mom and Dad. There are so many families separated by divorce or the death of a parent that would appreciate a choice of endings. Many thanks! Marguerite"

"Man did I need that. My older brother forwarded this to me on a day I was having a hard time dealing with taking care of our 83 year old mother. Out of six children, I do almost everything for our mom. After seeing the video I realize I don't need to be appreciated by my mother or thanked by her for everything I do. I've always thanked God for the parents I had because they gave up so much so that all their children could have everything we ever needed, gave us a Christian upbringing, and were wonderful role models. When the role is reversed and we are the caretakers, we need to remember the little things our parents did for us that we are now doing for them, and thank God we have this time to share with our parents. In this fast paced world, we need to stop and take care of those who need us the most. Again, I am so glad I saw this today, with tears rolling down my face, so that I can now be a better daughter to my mother for what time she has left in this life. Sincerely, Brenda Green"

"I am 82 years old and I sent this to all my family, I know this is the most true and beautiful story I ever read and heard. I thank God for people like you for saying what us old people can’t think how to express ourselves. Thanks again for a beautiful and true story."

"This is the most beautiful e-mail I have ever received. My husband and I are but 70 and 71 but know what lies ahead. I sent this to all of our children and saved to my desktop. Thank you, thank you, a hundred times I thank you. Dorothy Grossnickle, IA"

"I work with the elder everyday, and how true the words are. They just want a smile or a hello. Sandy Branum"

"The words and music are beautiful. I wish I had read it while my Mother was still alive. Thank you."

"This touched my heart so much; you can never imagine! My parents are 84 years old and will be married 64 years on June 21st. They have always been my best friends. As I watch my Mother, especially, become more incapacitated, it tears my heart out because she was once this vivacious, out-going, sparkling woman and to see my Dad tire so easily as he lovingly tends to her makes me wish I could do more. My brother died at 35, his daughter was murdered at 13 and my sister died 10 days after her 50th birthday. The three (3) of us are all we have. I hope some day my own son will care about me this much! Thank you. Jude Themm"

April 25,  2007

"Every person providing any type of long term health care in the world needs to see this video. Awesomely amazing!"

"That it is a lovely and heartfelt presentation."

"At first I thought that it was sweet and that there was going to be some kind of joke at the end, but then there was a part that said something about wanting to die and as your child I should not get mad cause one day I will understand and at that moment I started to cry, cause I don't think about my parents passing away. Not that I didn't think that they would pass, but I never thought about the day that they would be ready to go. And that just struck a cord with me, I never want for my family to feel like when it's there time and enough is enough that they have to try and stay for me."

"I loved it all except for wanting to die. Lost my husband of 50 years before Thanksgiving. He was wanting to stay but WILLING to go. Accepting God's will is different than Wanting our will. It hurts but God works in mysterious ways. Giving birth hurts but the Joy it brings is worth accepting. And I WILL see him again. Tune is close to DANNY BOY... another gift. HJS Minnesota"

"Hi, I'm 14 years old, and my mom died when I was 10. The video was so touching, I cried watching it, but at the end, felt as though I has said goodbye properly to my mom."

"I have never viewed anything more beautiful. It says exactly what I want to say to my children; thank you! I am sending it to my daughter and two sons."

"This is one of the most beautiful messages I have seen. Especially if you have a older loved one."

April 24,  2007

"Thank you! This presentation was beautifully prepared. Many children of the elderly do get impatient. I hope it gets to many of them. It is so easy to do the things you say not to do. I worked with the elderly and always strove to listen, even when my other duties called."

"I got this in an email today and want to thank you so much for the time spent composing it. I really needed the wake up call. I am a nurse and know what older people go through and the need to keep their dignity is so important to them. I am taking care o my 90 year old Mother and have been losing patience with her lately when is to slow. Thank you for the reminder that she needs more time. We all need a wake up call every now and then. God Bess You."

"Because I am elderly and have children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren, I thought this was one of the most beautiful and moving slide shows that I have ever seen. Thank you."

"This was an eye opener and very touching. It made me realize the importance of how aging people must feel sometimes when others do not respond 'appropriately'. Whoever put this together did a spectacular job! This should be shown in all classrooms (college level included)."

"I have no intention of sending Parents' Wish to my children. It is an attempt to put a guilt trip on them and makes the assumption that we as parents are not being understood nor cared for. That may be true for some but not me. A loved mother!"

"I am very impressed. This should be out were many more people can access it that do not have a computer. It sure would bring a lot of understanding to people who think the elderly should be pitied. I have never read so many true statements in a row."

April 23,  2007

"I wish you had one from mothers only because there are a lot of us who did the raising and stood alone for many years in the parenting but have these feelings about our old age advancing and can't with truth and honesty, sign Mom and Dad. Thank you, though, for a beautifully written message."

"I just received this in my email and it brought tears to my eyes and a lump in my throat. So many times I have seen kids get upset with their parents because they don't understand what they are saying, or they talk about the past as if it were yesterday. To them it is/was, there memories are just as real to them as yours is to you. My father in law who passed away many years ago was an AWESOME man. I loved him to death. He had Alzheimer's and he talked about the past more than the future. I loved the stories he would tell, the things he would say. He loved to laugh and cut the fool. He always had a twinkle in his eye when he was up to something. I've fed him many a time and sat and talked and just listened. Any a lot of times just sat with him and said nothing. But sometimes just being there and they see you and see the love speaks more volume than any words could ever say. I'm gonna pass the Parents' Wish around. It is totally awesome.... Thank you so much for having it online for someone to share with me....... God Bless, Jeannette"

"It was absolutely beautiful. I loved it."

"There is no way to tell you how this arrived at the time I needed to read it. Thanks to all who participated in its' creation and for keeping me on the path my mother needs me to be on. B. Hicks"

"I will ditto all the feedback I read. At the age of 93 my father died 6 years ago, mother 15 years before and I did do all the things in these slides and am so grateful. I could feel sort of what they felt as they got older. I will send this to children and c.-in-laws. Some times I feel that the 40 and younger generation don't know these feelings. (I'm 70 now) I would love to see this slide show past all over the world. Thank you for preparing it. APW"

"My Dad passed away last month, and we brought Mom to live with us. She has moderate dimension, and most of the time she needs a wheelchair to get around outside. After seeing, and reading Parent's Wish', my mother has become more precious to me than I thought possible. I try to give her as much time and independence as possible, and maintain her dignity. I know that she loves us, even if she can't remember all of us, and that she'll spend the rest of her journey surrounded by those who love her. Beth Flashner"

"The presentation was very well done; however, it's one the most depressing things I've seen on the net on a long while. I have no intention of apologizing in advance to my children for any 'mistakes' I may make as a result of increasing age. Furthermore, if I have done the right things as a parent, I should not have to beg their indulgence for growing old. I also very much resented the idea that my life was 'survived' rather than just 'lived', and that my 'surviving' should be some sort of justification for whatever I do in my advancing years. In my opinion, the only slide that was necessary was the very last one. And if you haven't told your children you love them before this, you deserve whatever treatment you may suffer as a result of your failures."

"I have a heart of stone. But after viewing Parents' Wish, my heart cried like never before. It is sad that even in India children are neglecting their parents as they get old. Last story I heard of a son throwing out his mother out of the house at night. Currently she is in retirement home. I hope more and more children will take care of their parents. What is going on with this world more and more parents are neglected. Thanks you for making this presentation and hope this site is viewed by millions. Parvez Merchant"

"I would like to have a copy to include as part of new employee orientation at our skilled nursing facility. It reflects the values we want all employees to have. Thank you for your time and effort in preparing this piece."

"I lost my mom after 18 months in a bed while she dwindled away, physically, emotionally and mentally. My 91 year old father is still doing great! The love that exudes from his is powerful. I have learned so much in the last few years while I’ve taken extra time to be with him. I’m so grateful that he has survived to pass this on to me….his baby. The circle of life. Lois J"

"My wonderful husband of 30 years passed away December 15th, 2005 from cancer. I held him in my arms and whispered in his ear as he took his last breath how much I will always love him. He was only 52 years old and never really had a chance to live his best years. As I watched your video and cried heart shattering tears I thought of the words and knew that those words are what my husband would have said to our children had he had a chance. I just wish to say thank you and that I will have my family watch this video. From my heart, thank you."

April 22,  2007

"Thank you so much. I hope my children appreciate this as much as my husband and I did."

"After I received it this, read this, and stopped long enough to dry my eyes in between, I sent this on to several friends. It is now, just from my e-mails, stretched from California to New Jersey . How wonderful. It is a keeper! Phyllis Lansin, IL".

"Thank you. Very powerful presentation."

"This was one of the most moving thing I have ever read. I cried the first 3 times I read it and then I was able to read it without sobbing. My father was 100 years old today. My mother is 99 years old. My family and I saw them today and this ode was on our minds. I have sent it to my 2 children and many of my friends. When I hear from them about this e-mail, everyone tells me how touching it is. I have never written anything like this e-mail before, but I had to tell you how much it touched me. Thank you for sharing it with all of us."

"This is the first email I've checked after the birth of my daughter. She is 8 days old today. Although my mother is not elderly, I can relate to the frustrations one feels sometimes when your parents do not meet one's expectations and it seems you can not relate to each other. I broke down in tears realizing that just as I struggled to learn the best care for my new born daughter, my mother had done the same for me. Thank you for reminding us of our part in the cycle of life. I too one day hope to be looking back at my life and annoying my daughter with the same story for the umphteen time. Best regards. WY. Miami, FL"

"I loved this, and have sent it on to many including our own 4 grown children. And, oh yeah, shed lots of tears---good for the soul. Sending it on to our children. I told them we give them permission to 'cry', and hope they certainly do. Know what--- this should be shown in high schools/colleges!!!! Love Josh’s singing---he is quite talented, and 'cute' also, tee-hee. Thanks, Ann Reynolds (:"

"I do so wish that my youngest sister could have had this compassion for our beloved Mother before she passed away. This is truly beautiful and has brought tears to my eyes."

"Absolutely compassionate, beautiful and expressive. I cried all through it. You can believe my children will receive it shortly along with other friends to share with their children. Thank you so much."

"This is so BEAUTIFUL!!! I must say it brought tears to my eyes as I remembered caring for both my parents before they died (both had Alzheimer's). I wish I had seen this video about 8 years ago (both parents died in 1999); it would have encouraged me and my sister and made us a little stronger. However, the memories are wonderful. This video helps a lot with those memories. THANK YOU! Eve Cogdell"

"Poignant... and timely Thank you!!!!"

"Your site brings tears to the eye and warms the heart. Thank you so much. My husband and I are in the position of now 'needing to be cared for' and we thank God that we have a loving and caring daughter who is willingly doing so. With a diabetic father who has lost his right leg and wears a prosthetic, has had a major and minor strokes and a mother with congestive heart failure, along with scarred lungs, and other serious health problems, who needs oxygen 24/7, our daughter has been coping with these problems for over 10 years! What a wonderful gal she is. She is retired now and would like to travel but has put that on hold to care for us. She is the light of our life!"

"What a reality check...really puts it all in perspective. My 72 year old Mother-in-law is fighting bone cancer, and we know what awaits us. My Mama and Daddy are 74 and 81 respectively, and I see the changes each day. Being an only child, I've felt all the love these two people have for me. I just hope and pray that I will be able take care of them and be understanding with them as they have been and still are with me. Thank you so much. Gayle C., Valley Mills, Texas"

April 21,  2007

"This was so meaningful. I'm older and this is how I think my children feel about me. So please be good to your Mother and Father. I really enjoyed this because it's so true. Thank you kindly."

"This is a beautiful piece. I hank you for all you did to bring this to us."

"A friend shared this with me and I can completely understand the message it contained. I am 66 years old, and recently lost my last parent, my Mother who was 97 when she went to walk with God. The passages in the Parents' Wish contain so much wisdom, and are exactly the type of things that occurred during the last years of my Mom's life and also the things that she talked about. It is the most meaningful thing that I have watched or listened to in a long time, and I can guarantee you that I cried because it strikes to the very heart of what our beloved parents go through when growing old and ultimately leaving us. Thank you for creating such a fine presentation. Sincerest Regards, Richard N. Palinko"

"I just loved this. Makes you think how people can hurt their parents like they do in this world today. This should touch everyone in a special way. Go give your mom or Dad a hug today......"

"This is beautiful!!!!! The tears are streaming down my face, once again. As I have read it many, many times and each time its makes my thankful to still have my mom and dad alive. I will read it again, many more times!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

"I really loved it. I will be 80 in October 2007 and often wonder what my last days will be like. P.B."

"I cried...a lot. The music alone is most moving for me. I can see why you are flooded with people swarming to it like bees to a hive. Our society has often turned a tired impatience toward our older people. To me they are on glory road and they no longer care to be part of the FAST LANE. This clip takes people to their heart and soul centers and speaks to them. The frame with a man in the hat and glasses looking out to me with tired eyes, but a smile on his face...asking us to understand why he wants to die... well it was like my father in law was looking at me, and telling me he is ok, and he loves me, and he is happy. This little net movie made his presence very close to me. Thank You for the work and effort you have devoted to it. Ohio

April 20,  2007

"This is the most beautiful e-mail I have ever received. Having lost my own Mother who just passed away this past winter at the age of 99. Having spent about 6 of the last years not knowing anyone I wish many times there were things I had told her long before she started leaving us. I guess parents love with all their hearts but we forget they too need loving words till their end of time. Thanks again and God bless you work."

"This was be far the most beautiful email that I have ever seen. I actually cried when I was reading and listening to it. I have passed it along to all of my friends. No truer words were ever spoken/sung. Extremely moving. Thank you for sharing."

"Your articles are beautiful and am interested in receiving emails through your newsletter or other means. Very touching and so true. Thanks."

"Thanks dear friend for the touching presentation. Tears rolled up in my eyes whenever I watch this. Reminds me of my duty towards my mother. Of her love. Of the ways pains she has taken to bring me up. Really a wonderful and very very useful work. Thanks again for the great presentation. Regards, Anas".

"This was a beautiful message and the music by Josh was very moving. I passed it on to my children. But, I do have a question. Why were most of the pictures of fathers? There were moments in this message that a mother's picture would have been nice especially at the end while walking by the water. Why could it not have been of a father and mother with the 2 children? Just something I think you should have thought of. Thank you again for a beautiful message. God Bless You, Pam Basehore"
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"I am so moved and keep on playing it over and over again with some tears in my eyes. God bless you! Reyna C. Funderburk"

April 19,  2007

"This is lovely, it just moves a little slow for me."

"That was so exquisite. It had me in tears. God bless you."

"This is the most amazing website I have seen in a very long time! Thank you for taking the time to put this together and to remind each of us that the time we have with those we love is so limited and that we should cherish every step and every breath we have with our parents! Leslie Rycroft"

"Thank you for making this available publicly. I will go there often to be encouraged when I am overwhelmed with my caregiving responsibilities. Perspective is a wonderful thing! I love my Mother and want to be reminded of the best I always intend to provide her and along side her. Sincerely, Sam"

"This is absolutely beautiful. Both my Mom and Dad, and grandparents have went on to be with Christ. This has brought back so many happy memories that I sit here and cried, this is so touching. I hope others have some beautiful memories of their loved ones. Thank you for putting you heart and soul into this precious piece of writing and music. Ruby, from Indiana"

April 18,  2007

"Thank you for this most beautiful presentation. I would like to purchase a CD when it becomes available so that I can share it with family and friends, and the seniors who would appreciate your artistry. My mother is an Alzheimer's patient, and so many of our friends are dealing with these issues. I am confident that through your presentation, we will be able to reach out to family members who have harsh hearts or who are in denial of this tragic reality ... the disease of memory loss, and aging. Thank you ... for making us cry."

"A dear friend sent this to me; we are both dealing with parents in their 90’s. It could not have come at a more perfect time for me as I have often been frustrated and irritated dealing with my mom moving so slowly, or repeating herself, etc. I cried when I watched this video and it really made me so aware of what a wonderful mother I have and how lucky I am to have her in my life. I will appreciate every single moment with her from now on and I thank you very much for sharing this video. I printed it out, page by page, to share with my sister and brother who do not have computers. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. J. C."

"I was so touched by the Parents' Wish video. It's absolutely one of the best I have ever seen. I sent it to my two daughters whom I hope will treat me with dignity when I am older. I know they will. Thank you for reminding us all. Josh Groban's song was perfect back-ground music."

"Today I am sick and I am alone. I know I will be alright in a few days, but I am thinking about the time when thing will only go downhill. Your video was very touching. I have my memories, when my children were young, and I know, they will take care of me, when time comes."

"Thank you. Very nice. The music is nice but I had to turn my speaker up and it was a little scratchy and paused in a couple of places. Take care. Gob Bless. Carol Randa"

"I am sitting here early in the morning with a lump in my throat but am thankful that someone is talented enough to come up with the idea and motivation to produce such a beautiful piece of work. Thank you and God bless all."

"Thank you so very much for Parents' Wish. I think it is just so very interesting to watch. I am 80 years old and love to view these kind of e-mails. I got this from a friend, but if you can send me some more please do so. GERRY"

April 17,  2007

"Very Touching and true... It's really worth reading."

"A co-worker sent me this because she knows that I rush out of work every lunch hour to take my 94 year old father out to eat. This video made me cry, but smile, too, and made me very grateful to know that I was lucky enough to 'hear' what my Dad would say if he could find the right words. Thank you for creating beautiful images and heart warming music to go with those 'right words'."

"I lost my 90 year-old Mom on Easter Sunday. A friend sent me this video a few days later, not knowing that Mom had passed away! These exact same thoughts have been in my mind for the last couple of years, and also as I held Mom's hand during her last hours. It was like a letter from God, telling me I had done a good job. Coincidence? I don't think so..... "

"I absolutely love Parents' Wish."

"It made me cry! We took care of both my parents for ten years (dad died 6 years ago). My mom (Alzheimer's for the last 15 years) would say as I changed her, 'Now this is a turn about.' We just had to put mom in a nursing home, but I visit her as much as I can. I really appreciate my time with her. I thank God all the time. Thank you for your wonderful reminders!"

"It's a beautiful piece, although very sad."

"This piece is the most beautiful I have viewed. It is so true that the tears kept flowing. Thank you so much. I during my lifetime have lost many, many friends, my husband, my niece and nephew, my Mother and Father, my in-laws and I thank you for this marvelous piece which I will treasure forever."

"I am writing from a charitable organization in Toronto, providing services to frail adults who speak French. We loved your clip and would like to present it to our employees at our next Team building day."

"BEAUTIFUL! It took my breath away and brought me to tears. I lost my mom to breast cancer 15 years ago. I was honored to care for her, she was a saint. I am a breast cancer survivor and I didn't have a lot of care, I somewhat had to go through it alone. I have a 26 year old daughter that hasn't had anything to do with me on and off for ten years. During my recovery she had a large wedding and didn't invite me. She then had her first child 10 months ago, I never saw her pregnant and I've never seen my grandson. I hope someone sends this to her, maybe it will touch her heart and make her realize how important life really is."

"Thank you for sharing this. I am at this time caring for a parent in my home until death do us part. I'd love to show this at mom's funeral for my family and friends to view."

April 16,  2007

"The song made me cry because I have heard it so many times before and it really went well with this video. Since my own mother-in-law has had failing health and been in and out of hospital it seems very appropriate. She is doing well, but this seems to speak for all parents even if they healthy. God bless. Sue"

"That was a magnificent piece. I have older aunts and uncles that I will definitely be even more patient with in the future. Thank you for giving me so much to think about. Today, a day where 33 people died needlessly in Virginia, we need to come together and put ourselves in the other person’s shoes for a while. Thank you for letting me try those shoes on."

"Simply: so true and so beautiful...."

"This is one of the most beautiful e-mails that I have had the privilege of receiving, and have actually put it in a file to be given to my children one day upon my request. Thank you so much for this very tender video, in such a trying world that we live in today. I found such love and tenderness in this. Thank you. I am sure I speak for all Mothers and Fathers that received this e-mail"

"What an awesome presentation. I lost my Dad in January this year and now it looks like my Mom is starting to fade. Thank you for reminding me just how wonderful my parents are/were. I pray that God will guide me in the way I need to go in order to look after my Mom at this very difficult time. This presentation has truly touched my heart. Thank you for all your hard work in making the Parents' Wish."

"I wouldn't want to miss getting this!! God bless you for sharing this with a world that seems to be forgetting their old and handicapped. Little children aren't the only ones getting abused. This movie was so touching and reminding of how are parents treated us when we were young. Thank you very, very much for sharing this."

"What a beautiful presentation. I cry every time I read this. The music is perfect. I lost my mother on April 3, 2007. She was 94 and in a nursing home and suffered from dementia. How I remember some of the very things that were said in this presentation. I am going to ask our pastor to read this at her memorial service. My mother wanted to die and go to heaven and be with her husband who passed away 10 years ago. Thank you for touching my heart. Lori"

"Many thanks for a wonderful, wonderful perspective on age… both old and young... and those of us in between."

"A friend of mine had sent this and I really enjoyed it. Especially since my Mom just passed away last month. It was a very hard thing to go through but I am certainly grateful to have been able to help my Mom let go. I do know she is a way better place but also needed to know the we (my Dad-married 51 years, son, and 3 daughters) would be all right and  it was ok to let go and rest. She did exactly that when me and my Dad let her know it was fine to go be with her son and Dad."

"How beautiful....How true...Bring on the tissues!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

April 15,  2007

"Since not every family is a two parent family, do you have a single parent version of this? As much as I would love to sent it to my sons, I raised them by myself, and would like the message to reflect that. It is useless to me otherwise."

"I just got this. I sat and cried because I remember when my Mother and Father was living their last days. I sent this to my children hoping they would listen. This is the most beautiful e-mail I have ever received. Thanks and God Bless Carolyn From Ky."

"Amazing and soooo true and appropriate... but as 'just a MOM' with kids who have no dad ... I can not forward it to my babes ... how SAD is that, I says to myself says I ... Too bad you could not have signed it somewhat differently ... not 'Mom *&* Dad' ... nice if they have it ... NOT so nice if they don't ... Such IS this thing called LIFE, you know ..."

"Thank you so very much for the reminder of our own aging and our responses to those who are aging ahead of us. I sent it to my children and pray they will receive it with understanding and not condemnation... for aging is a process of discovery even though sometimes we cannot remember what was discovered but only that the journey was one of great joy!! This is also a reminder of our human state of vulnerability... both old and young.. maybe that is why we older folks smile at very young children and love babies!!"

"No matter how many times I see this it reaches into my heart and soul. My mother passed away in November this past year and she had Alzheimer's (severe dementia) which is so hard to watch the progress of this disease. Your Parents' Wish brings it all to the surface and gives us understanding and guidance at times when we are at your lowest in watching someone we love leave us. This gave me strength and knowledge that I was doing the right thing for my loved one. Pleas keep making this available. Thank you and may God Bless you. Kathy Cogan"

"ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

"This warmed my heart. My husband died in August 02. I have Parkinson and live in a assisted living home. This is so right on. I am going to show it to many of my friends who are in the same position as I am. Thank you. Shirlee Clancy"

April 14,  2007

"Thank you for a beautiful and poignant slide show. I agree with some of the other comments hopefully we instilled values in our kids as they grew up but a reminder never hurts. As a former geriatric nurse this message is so sad but true. As a granddaughter who watched her grandmother fade into dementia and a daughter in law who now has to watch my mother in law go through it too I too was brought to the verge of tears. I forwarded it to all my friends and family in my email address book especially the ones goes through it now. Mary Evans Ledyard, CT"

"Thank you for the beautiful and touching slide show with a more than appropriate music for the background. My grandmother had dementia. I was a geriatric nurse and my mother-in law is going through /strating dementia so I emailed to my family and friends."

"It is a beautiful way of telling our children exactly how we feel as we get older, and I feel the pictures say a lot."

"Thanks that you remember me and send you such a good video I have ever seen. You're so good. I am very glad."

"Thank you for this. It is so beautiful and touching. I have sent it on to my children, grandchildren and all my friends."

April 13,  2007

"Thank you for such a moving presentation that can help people understand the aged and infirm and how to love them in their weakness."

"Beautiful!"

"Very touching... I lost my dad two years ago and reminded me of him... Thanks"

"This brought tears to my eyes and has helped me think and reflect inward about my aged parents (89 and 85 yrs), one of which (Dad) is in a nursing home. I have not had the best of relationships with my parents but yet I’m the one that has been relegated to assisting them in their final years. They have not just grown old but have survived a lifetime with all its woes, disappointments and setbacks. I will work to make my relationship with my parents better in their final years, enjoy and appreciate the love and teach my son the value of the privilege of having his grandparents in his life."

"I had no idea what I was going to view when I clicked on the site but as soon as it started I knew that I would need tissues to get through it. What a wonderful tribute to children and parents. I do believe that if children are raised properly they will do as you wish without a reminder but listening to the music and watching the presentation I am going to send it to my son anyway."

"This brings back the memories of my mothers failing health and what she asked of me. 'Please don't feed me I want to feed myself always.' This is one of the many wishes she had for her last year of life. The last one was 'please don't make me do this anymore.' This I will keep and hope that my own children will respect life this way. Thank you."

"Thank you so much for allowing us to experience this emotionally moving message. I have lost both of my parents and feel that people from all walks of life, of all races, creeds, cultures, young and old will relate to this wonderful story. No matter how many times I watch this I shed some tears. Thank you again and may God bless you."

"Very touching!"

April 12,  2007

"I cried............thank you, and may God bless you abundantly!"

"I keep this in a folder and read it all the time to try to remind me to have more patience with my Mom. She is 71, dying of lung cancer and has dementia and me and my 2 sisters go through all of this daily. We lost my Dad 2 years ago to lung cancer and she just wants to be with him and doesn't want to eat all the time. I cry so hard every time I watch it, but it's worth it if it helps me or anyone understand a little better how people like my Mom feel. Knowledge is power, and we can never have too much. Judy Anderson, Oronoco MN"

"Recently I made some major changes in my life. My marriage of many years came to an end. I have two grown children and grandchildren. For the first time in my life I am on my own. While I know my children love me and would give me anything I need what I want the most is their time and love. Our golden years can also be our lonely years. A simple 'I love you' and a big hug goes a long way. Thank you so much for the beautiful tribute."

"Thank you for such a moving presentation that can help people understand the aged and infirm and how to love them in their weakness."

"Thank you – I did not view your beautiful message with dry eyes – you hit all points very well – thanks for the reminders – I am a widower without children – I am strong believer in my right to die – I admire your courage in incorporating that message in your Parents'. Jim"

"I was so touched by Parents' Wish. My dad and I have renewed our relationship after a ten year struggle to get along. He decided to write a book about his life as a child growing up during the Second World War, and I helped him do so. In this age of technology, he often struggles to understand things, and often I become frustrated because he is hard of hearing. At seventy-one years of age, he has tackled this writing project with determination and passion. During the writing process, I have often become impatient with him. With his age has also come disease and on a bad day, succumbs to the stress this brings. This Parents' Wish video touched my heart. It was a reminder of how patient he was with me as a little girl, and encouraged me to be the same to him, as he was with me. The truth of the website shamed me into being more meek, mild and patient with him. Thank you so much. It was a real eye opener. Angela"

"It is wonderful!!"

"Thank you for providing the words that would be hard for my parents to tell me because of their independence and pride. It reminds me that me relationship with them is changing. The music and the pictures made the words all the more powerful."

"I really would like just the words so I can keep them and have them for our eldest boy who is battling with life. One day we hope he will read the words and it will break his hardened heart so that even if we are not around, we will have him with us in God's Kingdom. He's so lost and messed up and we love him with ALL our hearts."

April 11,  2007

"Thank you so much for putting this beautiful piece together. I became a mother at 42. I became a caregiver to my mother at 45. She is doing better, but it has not been easy. Thanks to a wonderful organization, LA Caregiver Resource Center, my burden was made lighter and I have become educated in what is involved in helping a parent grow older. My grandmother helped raise me and taught me the very things you are putting forth. Bless you in every sense of the word. I wish this piece could be turned into a commercial for all to see around the world. Thank you."

"My brother sent me this email and I don't remember ever seeing anything so beautiful and so true. My mother is in the last stage's of Alzheimer's so a lot of it applied to me. My moms' body is still here but I lost my Mother a long time ago. I would give anything just to talk to her again for 5 minutes. Thank you for reminding me that all I've done for her in the past few years is no more than she has done for me for the last 40 years. She was always there for me, no matter what. God Bless you, Gayle"

"This is the most beautiful e-mail that I have ever received!! I'm so thankful to my dear friend for sharing it with me. I have seen it three times and have sobbed each time I see it. I sent it to all of my dear children and their spouses."

"Excuse me for a moment while I get myself together. Reading Parents' Wish brought on such tears. Our son is a loving son, a caring son. But he has always had a hard time showing or expressing his feelings. We know his love and concern for us, is there. It truly showed after I sent him the e-mail of a Parents' Wish because he called me and said 'Thank you and ALWAYS know I love you and I'll cherish my childhood and good upbringing. Also know that I will always be there for you in your times of need.' That call meant so much to me. I've sent it to everyone on my mailing list. Thank you again...........DB"

"I just sit and watch this over and over."

"That was so beautifully and truthly stated! I loved that music and especially, again, the statements of how I feel anyway. And what my husband and I have shared to each other. I've sent it on to all of those in my life that are my age and older as friends. And I know many 'children' will be receiving this tonight. This generation is so blessed to have the internet to be able to speak to our own children through millions of other's same feelings. Thank you, likami"

"It is the most beautiful thing I have ever seen and view it many times since I have a mother who I love dearly in a nursing home."

"I will patiently wait until the CD is ready- I think the message is just so important that it’s worth the wait."

"My 87 year-old Dad lives with me and it was a tremendous reminder of just a fraction that I owe him for being a terrific father and ways that I can make his life easier and more meaningful day to day... ways to demonstrate more patience and love. Thank You!!"

"You should re-title this 'The Big Guilt Trip'. What a bunch of  'scolding' sentiments. I'm old enough to share my thoughts on aging with my kids but I hope I never have to 'guilt' them into spending time with me, listening to me or returning my love. SHEESH - you guys give us old folks a bad name."

"Exodus 20:12 'Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee' [KJV]. This is God's fifth commandment from the Holy Bible. Parents' Wish amplified this verse beautifully. May you live Long upon the land! Ian Taylor, NSW, Australia"

"I am 29 years old with 2 very young children. Though I am not yet old, I have decided to make a mini-scrapbook inspired by the presentation for my wishes when I grow old. The movie was very moving and touching. It projects hope that our children will be patient with us when we grow old and to continue to care, protect and love us until the end of our days. Thanks for the movie. It gave me some peace that all will be well."

"I must tell you I have had this for months, my mom is now is a nursing home and at least once a week I play this, to remind me of how hard it is for her now to do the littlest things, and what a wonderful mother she was. Thank you for something so so beautiful and so so true. Sincerely, Lucille Ricker"

"Your slideshow was forwarded to me tonight. It hits especially home because I am now taking care of our last parent. She is 83 years old, her mom died at age 84. We have taken care of parents for the last 6 years. 1 died from cardiovascular dementia. his symptoms were much like Alzheimer's, 1 died from who knows- he just got sick and had to be hospitalized and sent then to a skilled nursing center to recover - he went downhill from there on. Last November after going thru many doctors seeking answers about a sore on the sole of her foot - my mother in law died from malignant melanoma - you never think about a sore on the sole of your foot being cancer. Thanks for trying to keep this slideshow, we don't seem to appreciate it until we are going thru becoming the caregiver for our parents."

"We just had to bury my Nana's 94 year old older sister yesterday and watching my Nana reminded me of this Parents' Wish. We do get frustrated at my Nana sometimes. She is 85 and requires more attention than my 7 year old son. Yet, I see her philosophy and her wisdom through your poem. I love her and will not be the same when she leaves us - but through her faith in God, I know I will see her again in Heaven. I just pray that my son will give me the patience that I give my Nana. She is the foundation of our family and needs our love, patience, brain and support as she grows into her next phase of life. Blessed! Michelle Parker"

April 10,  2007

"That was one of the most touching emails I have ever received. I couldn't help but cry as I watched it. It made me think of my grandparents and parents. The one part where it said 'if I tell you I am ready to die, don't be angry with me, one day you will understand', made me think of my grandmother. She said those words to me about a week before she died."

"Parents' Wish is a very powerful message. I sent this to a friend. They sent it to relative who has not spoken to her folks in years. It had such an impact that she called her parents!!!! Thank you for such a beautiful presentation. SR"

"Thank you for your respectful representation of aging parents. This is the most loving tribute to parents I have ever been blessed to see. The beauty of the life of all parents hopes and dreams is so lovingly communicated."

"My son is very ill and I wish you would have left the mom and dad off of the ending. I would like to send this to my grandsons who do not understand that my son, their Dad will not ever be the same. They are impatient with him and will not give him a arm to even help him up. This is the father who coached teams, read to them, cooked breakfast, played and taught them right from wrong. Worked to make sure they had a good life with opportunities. I am appalled at their behavior at 21 and 23. So I guess neither one would understand this video. Too bad."

"I sat and cried from about a 1/4 of the way in to the slide show. It was happy tears as I have not found a better way to let my children know how I feel. Keep up the good work. Would like to see more of your work."

"My parents are up in years and their health declining, at times rapidly. I have three other siblings, although we all live in other states from my parents, I’m the only one who sees them regularly throughout the year. I am going to forward this link to all of my siblings. Maybe it will move them to realize when our parents get to the age they are, and they are suffering with health ailments, we truly are now on borrowed time. Maybe they will see that we truly only have but a blink of time left to enjoy and love them. Thank you for your dedication in publishing this moving and loving tribute/reminder to us all to take every moment we can as often as we can to love each other….unconditionally! Thank you. K.S. Chicago, IL."

"It was beautiful and very well done and I hope my kids send it on to theirs."

"I am 54. My Father is 82, quite ill and at his home with care. I viewed Parents' Wish presentation yesterday. It helped add an awareness to the acceptance process of my Father's vulnerability, and eventual passing. The timing is a gift. Thank You. Mr. Kim Kennedy"

"Thank you for the beauty, sincerity, and truth of this slideshow."

"Thank you for this most poignant slide presentation. I am 79, and it expressed so many feelings I could not put into such beautiful words. The music is perfect. I sent it to my children, so perhaps they night better understand some of the things older folks feel about life from their perspective."

"I enjoyed the video on Parents' Wish. I am a single mom and it would be great if you had a similar video which just had mom on it. Mary"

"Thank you so much Debra for sending this to me and it truly brought me to tears when I heard it. I'm an old 73 year old and there has been many times my # 4 son has guided me through this high tech computer world and many times my other 3 have given me help when I needed it. I give my THANKS to each and my daughter, last but not least, helps me, as this wonderful song and lyrics look back, to remember that she, and I'm sure the others, remember their youth. God Bless each of you and the people that put this wonderful song together. P.E.R."

April 9,  2007

"Thank God for the internet or we would never have been able to see this. It speaks volumes. I'm now 67 and still in great health, but I know the day will come when it will be me on the screen. I sent it to everyone I know. In these troubled times in which we live, this makes me realize that yes, in America, if family always comes first, we will be ok in the USA... Paul Stewart, Indiana."

"I work in a Nursing Home and would dearly love to find a way to make this part of our annual education process- it is so soul-stirring, heart-warming and such a important message- for everyone. Having suffered a stroke myself at the age of 52, I have made my wishes clear and well known. But I work every day with wonderful, challenged sweet people, who deserve the absolute best in return for all they’ve given to those they love. Thank you so much for this heroic reminder to everyone not to toss away some of the most valuable pieces to anyone’s life. Whether they know it or not, these are integral parts of who they are and when it is time for life to come full circle, as it always does, we must be prepared to return the loving gestures we already received."

"We just want to let you know how meaningful Parents' Wish is to us. We are in our eighties and have sent it to our three sons. Although we have talked openly with them about the time that will come, this is just so apropos. The music is such a wonderful addition. Thank you so much for what you have done for us, and for so many other folks."

"Just beautiful--"

"This is absolutely beautiful and moving. We can only pray that the next generation of children will care for their grandparents and parents in the same fashion that our generation did for ours. Every moment needs to be cherished because we just don't know when they'll will simply be a memory."

"OUTSTANDING!!!!!!!!!!!"

"Thank you for posting this song. My mother has dementia and I am now caring for her. Your words were able to express what my mother can no longer express herself. Thank you and may God bless you for your encouragement."

"Thank you for putting into words and music the inner life of so many of us who are baby boomers. My mother and former in-laws are currently drifting away with various maladies of old age. I try every day to find a way to meaningful respond and to make meaning for myself as I grow older next. Thank you for speaking to the best of what we are as children, parents, and aging adults."

"I had the privilege to view the Parents' Wish today. How inspiring. I immediately sent this to my wife who has the same issues with her mother addressed by this presentation. I guess we as children (even though grown adults) don’t understand still what our parent’s feel. I know I’ve learned from my parents growing up, and this shows that we still don’t know everything as there is more to learn. Even though we may not like what some of the content addresses, we still need to sit back and look at what we learned growing up and understand our parents are still teaching us. As a parent, I too will forward this to my children and hope that one day, the cycle will continue. Thank you for the privilege of viewing this demonstration."

"This slide show touched me and all the people I sent it to. Its beautiful, touching and makes its point. I wish that all children with aging parents could view it. Thanks for a beautiful piece of work. Barbara Gallyot"

"I must say GOD surely inspired you with this message. It is beautiful and so true. June 27th will be 2 years since I lost my mom. I wish I had received this several years ago. Maybe I would have been more patient and understanding sooner. I was, the last couple years, but she really needed me to be long before that. We as children get so caught up in OUR OWN lives and OUR OWN families that we forget WHO made us the people we are today. Some of us forget the kindness and love our mothers and fathers gave us so freely, UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. The same unconditional Love we OWE them. I wish with all my heart I had even ONE day with my mother back again. I would let her know without a doubt that she was cherished and would AWAYS be by me, her Daughter and best friend."

April 8,  2007

"Beautiful!! Thanks."

"My parents sent me this, on my birthday, and it was horrible. What a huge guilt trip. Parents, your children DO NOT want to see this. Ever."

"I just lost my wife last March 23, 2007. She wanted to be at home when God called her so it is so fitting and beautiful. Thank you, Dale, Phila, PA."

April 7,  2007

"The tears are still streaming from my eyes. The version for the single mom is exactly right! These are the things I tell my son and when he arrives home today, I will show this to him. He will be as moved by this as I am. Thank you so very, very much. With gratitude, Laurel M. Harper"

"How moving and a beautiful reminder to remind us of the patience we need with our elderly parents. My father passed away with Dementia and Diabetes related complications and so much of this video resonated with me. He lived in a long term care facility for two years before he passed. Thank you and God Bless You."

"I was born and raised, surrounded by sea water and mountain in the province of Quezon (part of the Philippines).  I came from a big but poor family. My childhood was not happy, not the same as my cousins who really enjoyed their childhood. I will not blame my parents for this. I am proud of what I came from. I am thankful that I was raised by my parent with faith and dignity. I was really touched when I saw this. I don't know why, maybe because we were not close to my father since I was 10 year old. My father was getting old and diagnosed of a Cancer in the liver 3 stage. I felt bad and humbled. Even though I gave my best to love him, I did it in hiding. I work hard and go to school at the same time to reach my dream to succeed because I don't want to see my parents to get stuck in the rice field forever. I want to give them good foods, shelter and good life. I care for my father so much. I know it is too late to show how much I love my father  but I will make it sure that the 9 months left in this world for my father that I will do my best to make him Happy and memorable. I love you TATAY AND NANAY. I will always be in your side. Love 07BSN11HVF"

April 6,  2007

"You have no idea what this means to people. People like me. My mother is fine, right now, but my grandmother has Alzheimer's and that means, one day, my mother will get it and eventually, one day I will get it. We all know this, we all understand this, even though we don't like it, we know and viewing the beautiful slideshow, puts everything into perspective. I know I will be taking care of my mother, like she is taking care of my grandmother one day, and that is fine with me. I will always remember your slideshow, remembering it's message. It is truly a beautiful message. One that needs to be spread, as I did, to my mother and my family. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart. God bless."

"A piece packed with power, and very meaningful. I remember well as a child when my mother cared for John. He was 84 and had advanced Alzheimer's. I was 14 and drove John to get a haircut and light a cigarette for him, 1 puff and it burned up in his hand, but I sat and talked with him and lit him a cigarette if he wanted it. His railroad days were very interesting to hear about. He passed away in peace at our house in the front Bedroom. I miss John and he'll always have a place in my heart as long as I'm alive. His children came to his funeral, but did not come to retrieve his personal items, so I kept them for a long time. I just hope all children have a chance to see this piece, I'm 61 now and my daughter will read this piece, you can bet on that. All my friends on my email list will also read this and there are many. Thank You."

"Understanding that you too will grow old some day will help you to be patient with those who already have. This understanding helped me to care for my father who suffered and died from Alzheimer's disease and my mother who took her anger out on me because she could no longer live on her own. Understanding the frustration of being dependent upon others for the rest of her days helped me when I felt she did not appreciate the sacrifices my husband and I were making to care for her in our home. Growing old is a terrible price we all pay for Adam's sin but Jesus came to pay a debt he didn't owe because we owed a debt we could not pay."

"Beautiful!! This should be made into a TV commercial to have full access to everyone as a reminder. Well done! Kim Gibbons, NJ"

"The video was wonderful."

"I thought that your video on aging parents was beautifully done and incredibly moving. It has particular meaning for me now as I was diagnosed with cervical cancer this past Fall. My mortality crept up and slapped me right in the face. It is so vital to me now to let my two daughters know how much I love them and that I did the best I could raising them into the wonderful human beings they have become. As I grow older, I want to be safe and happy in the shining embrace of their love and understanding. Thanks again for this enlightened video. Pat W., Missouri"

"I just lost my father this past June and the song 'You Raise Me Up' was the song that was my mother's favorite during Sunday services. That I did not like as a child but I so get it now! Your slideshow and music made me weep like never before and has helped me to mourn and put into perspective my father's death and life! I miss him so much! He and my mother retired to the NJ shore and I followed them here after I separated and divorced with my two daughters and this slideshow is such a pictorial of the last piece of my life as I knew it with my father. This slide show is truly what life is about, the rest is not important because in the end it is who and how we love that is most important! I loved it and sent it to my daughters who are in college now. Thank you again and I will forward to all I know."

"I have both of my in-laws in the nursing home and this touched my husband and I in every aspect of the video. I think this would be a wonderful tribute to my father-in-law when his time is ended here on earth with us. Our day's are numbered and I think this would be wonderful to be played and shown at his memorial. We just were called up there again and these words are all one's that we have heard from him and my mother-in -law has Alzheimer's. This is the most beautiful thing I have seen, but so true and sad."

April 5,  2007

"This presentation is really great. My daughter sent it to me before she immigrated to the States. Now all my children are there and I'm alone in the Philippines. I was divorced about twenty five years ago in the States and have since moved back to the Philippines and remarried but I have done my share in raising two of my children (I have three) while still there in the States and even here in the Philippines. I have had no children with my present wife of 11 years. I am still strong at 56 thank God but this presentation had me thinking ten... fifteen years from now when I will really be needing them but they will be so far away. Dan from Jolo, Sulu, Philippines."

"This is the most beautiful thing I have ever seen. Thank you so much for your touching presentation and show all of us how important it is to show our parents we love them before it's to late. Mine have gone beyond but I hope they know my deep feeling for them while I was watching this."

"I received this BEAUTIFUL reading from my relative. Wow, I cannot describe how this reading hit me!!! I have been receiving emails (readings, etc) from family and friends for so long now; but when I opened this one - it made me sit back in my seat and take hold of myself. I just cried because it was so real to me beings my Mother is in a nursing home from the result of a stroke in December 2006. This reading is so true--how can we make people stop and think about it. That is life from youth to old age. The LOVE in that reading is so real. I am sending this one to my family and friends. The next time I go to visit my Mother in the nursing home, I will not say, 'Mom, eat your food'. I will say, 'You know how much you want to eat'. I will also let her do more talking without me interrupting and I will also tell her more times how much 'I LOVE Her'. Thank You, Phyllis from Nebraska"

"My college roommate sent this to me today. How did she know? I had just seen my dad in the nursing home. He looked very sad today. He can no longer walk, he does not want to eat, he still knows me, but he barely speaks. When he does he says he wants to die, but yet he hangs on...(?) Thank you Papi for giving me life, feeding me, teaching me and most of all for loving me. You are the only ONE who has never hurt me. Ile"

"Thank you so much for making this video. I cried most of the way through. My mother died several years ago of Alzheimer's and it was difficult to watch her life go down hill so quickly. So much of what you mention is what my mom went through. We needed a lot of patience with her. Thanks again."

April 4,  2007

"Thanks for making this presentation. As a pastor, I find the words very comforting --- my wife's mother died November 13, 2005 and her father is going through much of what was shown on the presentation. It helped my wife, Diana, feel better about their conversations, etc."

"As an 'Old' person, I can only hope and pray my children read and understand what I have sent to them. Maybe my oldest daughter and Son-in-law will start speaking to us again after four years. We just do not fit in her life."

"I think the approach is beautiful – but having been a single parent (for almost 15 years now) and all my children grown it’s hard to read the words 'WE' wanted for you, 'WE …. for you' . I have tried to insert the word 'I' instead of 'We' – I  bring this up as there are so many single families today and the 'WE' seems to not be the norm any longer and in many case, parents cannot provide joint feelings for the children – they are too busy arguing or going about their own lives. Again, these are just my personal comments and opinions."

"I have seen many verses and poems on old age, but nothing like this. I just wish that every child could have this on a video tape and play it every morning when they get up. Too soon do children forget what all their parents have done for them since their birth. And, also after they are 'suppose' to be grown, the help that we have still continued to give them, both in support and financially. What a beautiful video."

"This is so beautiful. Every word is true. I couldn't stop crying. I have raised my grandchildren and sent it to them. Thank you so much for this."

"It is so moving and hits everyone so close to home."

"As I write this, my oldest daughter has inoperable lung cancer at age58. I have tears in my eyes, knowing that her daughter will not have the chance to care for her mom, in the way inscribed in this message. May we all, sleep in peace and arise, in heaven, in joy."

"This slideshow has touched me and my friends."

"I enjoyed this video immensely, it was so touching because it is so real. Keep up the inspirations. Elsa Sanjurjo"

"Beautiful... Simply beautiful! I fought back tears as memories filled my soul. How soon we forget the love our parents bestowed upon us. Thank you for Blessing me with this piece. May GOD continue to Bless and keep you. I will happily forward this to my friends and family. (Michelle Gistarb)"

"I wish I had seen this 5 years ago. My mom went through all those things before she died Dec 17, 2006. If only all of her children and grandchildren could go back and be more sensitive and understanding. We just don't understand until it's too late. But lovingly, one of the last things she said to me was 'after I'm gone, please don't any of you ever think you did anything wrong, or neglected me in any way. I had seven wonderful, loving, caring and attentive children, a handsome great husband, and an amazing life.' Yes, whatever we did, was enough for her. Just not enough for us."

"This is a beautiful piece and so many truths in it. Thanks for sharing. Louise"

April 3,  2007

"This comes to me at a most pivotal time. My mom will turn 80 this year and I’ve struggled with being patient and compassionate, particularly now with her obvious cognitive decline. How important it is for me to honor all the love she has given and continues to share with me and my new baby. Even though I don’t like my mom, these slides have helped remind me to wrap my arms around her and be present with her, so that she will feel the love she has unselfishly given to me and her family at this time in her life. I am, who I am because of my mom – Thank you."

"Right now I am going through the process of caring for my elderly father. This helped me so much in seeing myself, and trying to be more patient and understanding. It was like this was written just for me. He repeats the same thing over and over. Now I will just listen to it again and again. Thanks so much for this beautiful piece of art and love. I want to make dad's last days on earth memorable and full of love. Thanks again. Miss B."

"Very touching.  My Father just got the fourth brain- attack. We, his children try our best to help him recover. Lord Jesus Christ, empower us to love in words and in deeds. Honor your father and mother so you will live long and well in the land God is promising you. In Jesus’ name. Amen".

"I am a nurse in Long Term Care and this was sent to me by a colleague I work with. It has touched me so. I also have parents who are elderly and this gentle reminder is so needed in our society today. My parents are treasures to me. Thank you for this poignant message!"

"This was the most beautiful, touching and sobering email I have ever seen. I always thought I took the best care ever of my mom; but now see that there was soooo much more I could have and/or should have done. I just hope my mom knows that I thought I did all that I could. I love and miss you, mom. Love, your daughter, Dixie Springer"

"I checked the single mom one and it sure made me cry!! Was so true and so beautiful! Can you email a printed copy of the one for single moms? That way I can let my Son, who wouldn't look at it on line, read it and understand myself and my aging mother."

"This is most moving and touching."

"BEAUTIFUL!!!!"

April 2,  2007

"My son passed away on March 9, 2007. I had not heard this song until after his death but it is so inspiring. I only wish he could have heard it. Parents are not supposed to bury their children, the children are supposed to be there for the parents when they get old. My son always said he would look after me when I get old. Please print more of this kind of format. Thank you!"

"Simply awesome."

"This is one of the most beautiful sites I have been on on the web. You are to be commended for putting this together with just exactly the right words and right music. Have a grandmother who is 100 in two weeks and a mother who is 82, I can fully understand every word that was transmitted. I would love to have this printed out to be able to look at it when my patience is wearing thin or at times when the depression sets in thinking about the loss of one I love so dearly. Thank you for putting together something that each of us need to remember every day of our lives. Again, thanks!"

"Within the past 8 years both of my parents passed on. My father was in his 90’s. For about 10 years before they died we found ourselves in a sandwich generation situation and now my husband and I are facing the need for more assistance from our children. This Parents' Wish brought tears to my eyes. Thank you!"

"This is the most wonderful slideshow I have ever seen. It gives much hope for the days when our parents will go through trials with their health. This slideshow brings to reality how we should treat our loved ones in their time of need. Thank you so much for creating this."

"Thank You This is really beautiful!"

"This wonderful creation was posted on the Alzheimer's website here in the UK by a forum member. It is especially poignant for those of us whose parents or grandparents have Alzheimer's, a reminder of who they were and who they still are, somewhere inside the shells they have become. Alzheimer's, maybe more than any other disease, forces a role reversal on parents and children, the bonds of love shared over the years make coping with seeing a loved one slowly fade away a little less painful. Parents' Wish stresses so well the words my mother no longer has the ability to say, to her I am a stranger, but a stranger who loves her and will sit holding her hand and enjoying being with her as much as I can. God bless Mum and God bless you for this wonderful gift you have given us."

April 1,  2007

"Thank you. I'm 72 and have sent this to my children (8) and grandchildren (29). They and I think this is beautiful. God bless you."

"This is one of the most beautiful presentations I have ever seen. I wept as I watched it and I watched it many times. It made me think first of my mom, who is 82 now. It made me think of my own children, and then I thought of myself and my husband, who at 67 years old are dealing with the loss of the physical strength and mental acuity of youth. I also related as a Registered Nurse, having cared for many Alzheimer clients during my career. Adding the beautiful words and music, and the voice of Josh Groban was a stroke of genius. Thank you for this wonderful piece. Laurie Guderian, Eagle River, Alaska"

"I started today crying, for my children's messed up lives, for my late wife taken at only 52 by Cancer, for myself and my aloneness. Then I open this and cry even more. How beautiful that one can find their own words written out and sung to already before them. This is the wish that their mother never really got a chance to say, and a wish that I will and am now gladly and proudly forwarding to each of my children, their children, and every contact I have that either is a child of another or a parent of one. Thank you so very much for the tears of joy and peace that you made me cry today. May God Bless you for this. I am a 100% Disabled Viet Nam Vet, 63 years old and you have put my thoughts to word and song again. Thanks."

"This is so wonderful. I wish äll my children could read this. Two of them have disowned me. So I know they may never see this. I am 69 years old and feel my time is getting closer all the time. God Bless you as I sit here crying.----Florence"

"The Parents Wish site is just beautiful."

"THANK YOU SO MUCH...that was a very touching, truthful presentation. I shared it with my family and friends. In return, I wish you abundant blessings!"

March 31,  2007

"Thank you so much for sharing this. My husband has ALS, sometimes called Lou Gehrig's disease. I want our children and grandchildren to see this. It is wonderful. Sharon Kuncl"

"What a beautiful, touching presentation! You really touched my heart."

"I loved this! My Mother has Alzheimer's, and almost every frame is something I have experienced with her. The Josh Groban song 'You Raise Me Up' is one of my favourite songs, and it is so appropriate here. Thanks for making this. Ann in Alabama"

"Beautiful, beautiful…….beautiful!!!! Giles"

"Thanks SO much. This says what I can't put into words."

"I love Josh Groban, and you could not have picked better music to accompany the words. Thanks for all the hard work and thoughtful minds that it took to put this together."

"Thank you for the beautiful video. This made me realize the mistakes I made when my mother was placed in a nursing home. She passed away in August 2006 and so wish I could turn back the clock. Thank you again. Marlene"

March 30,  2007

"I never heard anything so great. I sent it to all of my 5 children."

"My grandpa is at the age of 62 and has kidney failure. This song makes me cry because of the words and it makes me thankful that there are songs like these out there so I don't have to hide my sadness.  Thank you sooooo much.  I love the song can you send me another one if there is one. Thank you so much."

"My, my, my. My father passed away 3 days ago after many years of Alzheimer's. Support groups help immensely and so to care providers. After helping care for him so he could be independent and after finally finding the most loving care facility, I moved him to a beautiful and safe environment. But I always felt guilty that I wasn't doing 'enough'. The funeral is in 2 days and programs have been printed. I chose Josh's 'You Raise Me Up' -- the same version as your site. After I shared with a care giver which songs had been chosen, she shared with me your BEAUTIFUL tribute to what one does see/feel/think. After seeing your show, I feel a loss for my father-- but I also see that I shouldn't feel guilty. I did give 'enough'. Time, love, humor, and compassion. I encourage anyone out there that doesn't spend time with their elderly -- to really, really try to find time -- even if it's a stop in with a bouquet of flowers or a cookie. Our parents turn into our children at some point, and 'enough' is all a child can give. Kyle -- Colorado"

"I was profoundly moved by the words of reality that this special event 'said'. I am now 67, in excellent health, but, at God's Will, all that could change in an instant. My Mother is now approaching 89...the reality of her mortality grows with each passing day. I tried to print this, but could not...regretfully."

"I just loved this video! Yes, it made me cry, but it is so true. In my family we have cared for aged grandparents and parents, aunts and uncles for generations. There is no love greater than the thankfulness of the small child that dwells in the body of the elderly. Many times, even if they don’t know you anymore - - they are still thankful. It tells us a lot about loving and understanding and being thankful that we can enjoy those times as long as possible. Lyn Ann Reid"

"This video was a tear jerker. I watched it so many times. I can relate to it all. My husband is 59 years old and he walks with the aid of a cane. Sometimes his legs give out on him and that is very hard for him. He cannot do anything for himself, this was a man who was very active . Sometimes I get angry at him for falling but this video has led me to understand just to help him up. I have lost both my parents and although this video is for parents i as a wife can relate. Thanks a bunch."

"I teach Psychology at a college, have a doctorate, and I am 50, so no young chicken- but this is the biggest group of guilt ridden words and pictures I have come across in a long time. If parents feel this way they need to be in therapy! This does not promote family harmony, but, rather instigates bitterness amongst older adults because adult children can never live up to these 'wishes'; and resentment amongst adult children for being 'guilted' into caretaking. Yes, older people need to be cared for with mercy and compassion, but not from the guilt this presentation is dripping with, but from genuine care and concern. Truly, if my children take care of me from this paradigm, I would rather be in a nursing home."

March 29,  2007

"I had just returned from spending a week with my father, when I found this waiting for me on my e-mail. My father is a WWII veteran, a former college football player, and a former CEO. Now he weighs only 120 pounds, and cannot feed himself, dress himself, or bathe himself. I know the end is near. I cried like a baby when I saw this slide show, but it made me so happy to know that I spent some precious time with my Dad. Thank you."

"Amazing presentation! Very touching. Thank you."

"This was so beautiful... Words cannot express the whole composition. Thank you for it's beauty. God Bless"

"So true just made me cry. Martina P"

"Absolutely wonderful! I read through it three times and cried all the way through each time. My mom passed away a little over two years ago at the age of 83, and I know she had many of those feelings.  I am so blessed that I had the good fortune to have understood and now treasure the loving memories I have of our time together. My father, now 82, lives next door to me and I see so many of the things mentioned in the slideshow with him. Sometimes I do get frustrated with his slowness and of hearing the same story for the umpteenth time, although I never say that to him, but this slideshow really hit home. My parents were the best ever created and this made me remember how much they loved me and guided me and helped me. I will never again grumble, even just mentally, I will treasure every word and every step and every minute I get to share with my beloved father. I am so blessed to have them as my parents and this slideshow really said all that I feel for them so well. Sometimes we need reminders that at some point we will be in their shoes and we will want to be treated with love, respect and dignity, so how can we give them any less. Thank you for creating this site. Bevanne Sinclair, Colorado"

"This slideshow was so touching. I just don't know what in the world I would do w/out my parents!! They are the best parents anyone could ever ask for. If it wasn't for them I would never be where I am today!! Thanks for all the inspiration!!"

March 28,  2007

"I was so impressed with your Parents Wish email. I could not help a few tears from falling down my cheek. It was so inspiring to me. I have shared it with many of my friends. I have written a few poems and a book on What's this Life all about'. It deals with the little things in life, and roads we walk down through this life. The elderly people of today only want to be loved and share love with others. The young people today their lives are so busy the elderly seem to get lost and forgotten in this rush hurry world we now live in. Thanks. Brenda"

"Thank you for your excellent and tearful presentation."

"Even after seeing this it's still a little hard to understand why someone would want to give up on life. The very gift GOD gave us!! HE NEVER, EVER wants us to give up. If you have asked Jesus to forgive you of your sins (and HE promises HE will no matter what we've done) and to help you live each day for HIS glory and not our own, then HE will see us through each and every day and will take us home to be with HIM when HE is ready. The video is a good reminder of how we still need to respect them and not treat them like children because they are still our parents. LOVE and CHERISH them unconditionally for who knows what tomorrow may hold but I know the only ONE who holds tomorrow!"

"This slide show and the music that went along with it was very wonderfully done. My sister-in-law sent this to me. She knows how my heart goes out to the elderly people in the world. God bless you and keep on making slide shows like this. It is very well done. I cried all through watching it. It touched my heart."

"I just lost my Dad a week ago and a very thoughtful person sent this to me. It is a wonderful message and so true. I have saved it to my favorites and will forward to many, many of my friends. Thank you for a beautiful reminder. Kelli Krull-Syrigos"

"This is one of the greatest things I have ever seen. The background music sets it off to the heart. I am a 66 year old Single Father with a Mother that is 88 and going through many of the things this illustrates. I have bookmarked your site so I can order the DVD when available. I felt it necessary to send this on to my daughter to prepare her for what is coming. I can now understand why my Mother says so often she is 'Ready to Die'. Due to an accident in 1993, leaving me totally disabled, and a recent divorce, that took a Dear, Dear Mother-in-Law from me, I too have felt those feelings. Yes your mind works but slower and not quite so accurate as before. But life goes on. We must go forward as God calls us to do. God Bless you and your work. DeWayne in Texas"

"This is a wonderful presentation."

"My Dad who is elderly and lives in Canada sent me this the other night and while watching it, I was in total tears. I work in a nursing home and I just wish that I could send this to every child of every elderly parent that I look after. I just know in my heart that this world would be a better place if children would understand that parents need them when the 'old' years come upon them. Lesley Shell Georgia "

"Thank you for this touching presentation."

"I have played this piece over and over again, as I sit and listen to the music, read the messages I thank God that I am of sound mind and body. I hope that my children will view this 'Parent's Wish' as my way of saying that some day I too might needing their help in more than just surviving. I have enjoyed both the music and messages, please keep things like this coming out to make this world more livable."

"My 3 children are now wrestling with the eminent death of their father who is only 50 and who I left some 13 years ago. From all the abuse to his body with drugs and alcohol to excess, he is now in failing health. If you saw him, you would say he is nearing 65. They realize the care he may need in the near future but none of them are established enough to be able to take care of him, only visit. He will need to be institutionalized and when they go to visit him, they will understand two things; one from your video and one from example: Take care of your body so it serves you well and long. One day, when as an older person, mind and body fail, pray that someone cares enough for you to visit you and love you."

"I just want you to know how much I appreciate you and your creation. It is the most beautiful and most truthful piece of work I've ever had the pleasure to have sent to me. I will send this to my children, but I fear they will not really understand until they have children of their own. Thank you again. You truly are an angel here on earth and this is such a meaningful piece -- I pray your children did see through your eyes. So honest, so real, you did say it all and so beautifully. Many thanks and God Bless You."

"Thank you for making such a beautiful website! It really blessed me, I just sent it to many friends as a link. God be with you!"

"It is never too late! Rafa V"

March 27,  2007

"I love this. I have cried so much, mostly in shame for 'having' to take care of my mother who is nearly 84. I have a lot of resentment for feeling abandoned by other family members when it comes to her, but this has made me realize how abandoned she must feel. I do a lot of the things this song says not to do. I get very impatient when I try to tell her something and she doesn't 'get it', or when I take her in public and I am embarrassed because she is loud or cries. This makes me reach inside my soul and thank God every day that I have the privilege to take care of her. She yells at me a lot, and can be pretty nasty, but when she says 'I love you', I know she means it. I lost my Dad 11 years ago, and this makes me realize how much I wish I still had him here to take care of, and so my granddaughters and grandsons could know him."

"Bravo! What a wonderful site, It brought a tear to my eyes and a lump in my throat....How Profound! Wendy from Australia"

"I just wanted to say thank you for hosting such a wonderful message. I just recently *5 months ago* lost my father to a short but hard battle with lung cancer. Everything your slide said was things he said to me.. it doesn't make it easier to view this, but I think, if my friend passed it onto me before my dad passed, it might have made better sense of the things he said..... I guess, in life, as a child, teen and young adult, new parent, we tend to not hear everything our parents say to us until it is to late to appreciate what they were trying to say. But as I said.. thank you... this is really moving, and a great piece of inspirational motivation."

"My Father was killed in an auto accident just before Christmas in 1959. My Mother became afflicted with an Alzheimer's-type dementia and died in 1992. This was a beautiful e-mail. A bit of fun about aging, someone said once that you should always be nice to your children because you may have to ask them to empty your bed pan some day! I'm 75 ½ and in reasonably good health, but who knows what lies ahead. We have no children so don't know what the situation will be when and if we get to where we can't care for ourselves.~~~ Joe T., Tennessee"

"This is soo... awesome! I am dealing with this right now with my mother who suffered five strokes in 2006 at the age of 53. I thank GOD I am able to take care of her with the help of the good Lord. Thank You for creating Parents' Wish"

"This was done just beautifully. We have 8 children ranging ages 36 to 49 and I sent this to all of them. We also have 19 grandchildren. I worked with a lot of aged people in my 22 years of nursing and I tried to treat them all just as this poem says. Hopefully mine will do the same. Thank you very much. Peggy- Ohio"

"Please send me e-mails of anything else that you have like this. It is beautiful. Thank you."

March 26,  2007

"Thanks. This is so beautiful!"

"I was just sent this by a friend and I cried and cried. We are caring for the only parent we have left, my husbands father. Although there are 5 other children in the family we are the ones that do almost everything. We will have so many wonderful memories of dad when he leaves this earth as well as our own children; they have a close relationship with him. Sometimes I get impatient but then remember on my own all that our parents have done for us. What a beautiful tribute and I hope that my children will be there for us. Thank you very much. SH in Manitoba"

"Parents' Wish is an awesome, beautiful presentation. From the music, to the words and pictures, I was totally engrossed. Thank you. Peggy Holder Corinth, Ms"

"I really was touched by the email sent to me which was from 'Mom and Dad'. It was so beautiful."

"This can be a great teaching tool in long term care facilities."

"Thank you. I so needed to read that. I am caring for my 90 year old mother who has Alzheimer and it has helped me to find the patience and compassion you need (and once had) to care for this disease. I have not read anything this powerful in a Long time. Thanks again. JA Broussard"

"This was the most wonderful email I have ever received. It touched my heart so much I could hardly read it through my tears. Thank You so much for your work in getting this out to so many individuals."

"As I sit here wiping tears from my eyes I have an ache in my heart for the words I just read. This sure does put life in perspective. What a wonderful creation you have made. I will be phoning my mother just to hear her voice and be thankful I still can hear her. I lost my father just when I was getting to an age that I could appreciate him. This should be sent to every seniors home and played all the time to family members. Thank You. Tena Butticci. Magnetawan, Ontario Canada"

March 25,  2007

"Thank you so much. My gramma was 82 when she left me. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't remember her. About a year before she died she kept saying she wanted to go. But I kept telling her she couldn't, that I needed her here and don't be so foolish. But then it came to me she really did want to go. Then one day she said it again and I told her if that was what she wanted then go. She died 6 months later. I will never hold anyone back again. It is their right to go when they want to."

"My husband and I had just returned from taking my mother who is 92 out to dinner. When I got home and turned on my computer to read my email and this Parents' wish was the first one I read. During dining my mother said very loudly 3 times: 'I am not at all satisfied with this food.'  So we ordered a small fish chowder for her instead and got a doggy bag for her Pork Meal which she had ordered on her own, not at anyone's suggestion. After two spoonful of chowder she said. 'This is not good at all either' and again in a loud voice. My husband and I both got a bit irritated, but we did take her for her favorite 'grapenut' ice cream cone. That did make her happy and then we were happy. Then I read and listened to this beautiful Parents' Wish and it just choked me up. I called my husband in and he also choked up. We lost his mother last year at the age of 96. Thank you very much. Beautifully done.  Joanne"

"I lost my beloved mother on March 22, 2007. I had never seen or heard of this video before. It was sent to me by a very close friend. I cried tears of joy on viewing and hearing Josh's most beautiful voice. My heart was lifted of some of the pain and I will treasure her memory forever. My many thanks to everyone who helped on the wonderful site. The video and song have let me begin the process of mending my broken heart. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Terry Brewster Barnes"

"This is so true i was overwhelmed by it."

"I saw this several times, and all I could do was cry because it really hit home."

"This is so moving and truth finally unveiled, my tears blurred my vision some, but managed to read every word anyway. Thank you and God Bless."

"I can't even put into words how beautiful that was. I closed my business to stay home and take care of my mother who is 87 years old. I would not have it any other way. She is very happy with having me home with her. I too get frustrated sometimes and seeing this I will work so hard not to, in the future. I do have the best job ever and I thank God for her everyday. God Bless you for Parentswish.com. Connie B. Naples, FL"

"Thank you so much for this beautiful email. I have not felt such a wonderful feeling like this in a long time. I am taking care of my 75 year old dad and sometimes it is really hard, with his walking, his thinking etc. When it seems like I can't do it anymore, I come back to this and play it again. I keep it in my favorites and it helps me get back on track. Thank you so much for this beautiful lesson."

"Thank you for the inspiration. It came at such a timely time. I am taking care of my 96 year old mother, who at times tries my patience. This made me stop and think how much she has done for me in the past. Thank you again. Joanne"

March 24,  2007

"A very lovely message and well done! There is an exception though, the time that that the text remains on the screen is not sufficient for some of us who are visually impaired. I think it could easily be revised with some attention to detail and subsequent wonderful sharing and messages given text time extensions! All of that said, thank you for a wonderful, thought provoking sharing!"
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"Thank You for this film and song."

"This was wonderful."

"I just viewed Parents' Wish -- and I can't begin to tell you how much it touched my heart. It is absolutely beautiful -- and should be a 'must read' for all adult children who have aging, and often forgetful, parents. Bless you for sharing this most special site with us and all the others who have the privilege of viewing it."

"Thanks!!! Your Internet video has a beautiful message."

"The poem is beautiful."

"I sent this to my son in hopes he and his wife would treat me as a human, not as an animal! Ellen"

"My brother sent this to me. It came at such a time where I can truly appreciate a Parents' Wish.  Recently we lost our father who was our only remaining parent. He was diagnosed with incurable cancer. His wish was to spend his last days with his children. He would often apologize when he needed us to help his with simple task he was able to do himself for so many years. Something as simple as helping him to drink or eat. I would always respond that it was an honor and act of love to be in the position to take care of him as he took care of me. I do not regret one moment of precious time spent caring, and loving him. All of my siblings who live in other states made it a point to come help care for our father. I know all we did for him and the love we have for him made his last days more comfortable."

March 23,  2007

"I cried while reading this as I just lost my husband's Mother after taking care of her for just over 2 years. She died 17 days before she reach 89 years of age. She had Parkinson's Disease and Alzheimer's. We were able to keep her at home with us till the end. Nursing home care was never considered as we loved her too much. I too had days that were tough to deal with and my patience got thin, but I also realized that in her time of life she needed more patience from us than ever. Thank you for your beautiful website......Sharon"

"Very touching. It's never too late to teach our children and our peers to love and respect our older people. Nursing homes are full of forgotten people who need to be shown love and respect, instead they are put away and forgotten. Take the time to visit some of them. Someday if the LORD tarries we may be there. Brighten someone's life. Adopt a parent or grandparent. GOD will bless you for it."

"This was just beautiful."

"I just lost my father last year to Alzheimer's. Thank you so much for your comforting words. It helps to know how much he loved us and put up with us. Thank you Lord for giving him a new home."

"That was absolutely AWESOME!!! I was so touched to receive this from my parents. My mother and I don't always see eye to eye but even though it is not always said that she loves me, I felt it with this. I worked at a nursing home for many years and it is all so true. Let them LIVE not just exist. Make sure they know everyday how special they are to you. All they want is some time for you to hear their stories and you make their day. It brought tears to my eyes and goose bumps all over. Thank you so much. Love you too mom. Jeri Marie Leonard,  Hampden, Maine"

"Thank you so very much. Mom passed one year ago on March 24, 2006 and it brought back so many memories the best one was (please I will eat and I love you for caring). Thanks again you made my day."

"I found this beautiful and moving."

"It is an excellent brief written to children as we as parents get older. Thank you"

"This was so touching and definitely to the point. It helped ease the frustration I feel as a caregiver of my elderly mother. Thank-you!"

"Thank you for such a lovely web site. I lost my mother 3 years ago she was 86 and had polio since she was 39 and I became her caregiver. She was my angel and I cried all the way through your beautiful presentation thinking of her and all the things she did for me. P Schossler, Chesapeake Beach, MD"

"I only wish I had a copy of this to show to all of the nursing staff at our home. I think it would help them get through their days in a better frame of mind and promote more caring for their patients. We're not supposed to have favorites and it can be difficult to care for some of our elderly, but if we can remember that they are someone's parent and we should try to treat them as we would like our parents treated, we would all do a better job of providing care to our elderly. Both my parents are gone and I have very few older relatives left. I know that we all will come to this stage and although it is a very sad time for those who love us, I also believe that when we are tired enough and 'just surviving' we are ready to go. I think it's difficult for children to accept this. We'd love to have our parents with us forever, but God, in his wisdom, takes us when he wants us. Thank you so much for this moving film. As a friend who I sent it to said, it is powerful!. Gratefully, J"

March 22,  2007

"Wonderful presentation and just in the nick of time. My Father has suffered 3 strokes since Dec. 10th. He can no longer speak or get around and my brothers and I are trying to help my Mom with him at home. My one brother is having a very hard time accepting the changes and doesn't want to come around he thinks Dad isn't his Dad anymore."

"There are NO words to express the raw emotion that I felt while viewing this beautiful page. I have three sons and one daughter, so needless to say at my age of 61, I was moved and touched. Linda Siegelin, Ocala , FL"

"Thank you so much. I had this, had a computer crash, lost it and have been looking for it for almost a year!!! This touched my heart and soul. I love Josh Groban and I love the message of the Parents' Wish put to Josh's music. It helps so many people understand old age and even allows those of us getting older, to accept help. God Bless you! Donna Poole Anthony, FL".

"Thank you for this beautiful web site. It says all the things we want our children to know. Old age will affect each of us differently, but ultimately we all want the same thing, peace without children and friends and dignity in our old age. I sent it to everyone on my mailing list, especially my own child and the friends who are still lucky enough to have their parents, perhaps it will make them realize what a precious gift they have been given to still have one or both of their parents living. Thank you again. A most excellent job."

"I just had to let you know how very beautiful the slide show was/is. As my mom is aging and severely disabled with pain due to osteoarthritis -- one can never understand the excruciating pain she must feel. I always say to her 'Mom if each and everyone of your children could just take 1/6th of your pain away what a wonderful life you would have.' Her comment is 'I wish you could.' Thus, she must be so burdened with the pain that she would even be willing to let her children help share it with her-- this along allows you to understand and know how much despair she is in. This mom, my mom, would never have said this in the past as she always the mom who wanted to take our pain away! This slide show makes the heart and mind realize exactly how she must feel -- I've always known it but it has been very difficult to send that message to my siblings -- this does it so eloquently, with love and respect. What a wonderful tribute! Thank you! Thank you from the bottom of my heart, my siblings, our children, their children and our mother."

"It is beautiful. Made me think of my father as he grew older and left us. I will send it to my kids. Thank you. Verlaine Cutsforth, Clackamas, OR"

"I am at a loss for words. This has given me such mixed emotions. I am honored to still have both of my parents. That I love dearly, and have always been there for them. They are both sill in fair health, and I am the child out of four that, after I married and had my own family, never failed to have them at my home on all holidays and to have dinner at my home three of four times a week. Then I went through a divorce after 32 years of marriage, I became very sick myself, I still go to them when they call, and by God's grace their minds are very sharp. But the last few times I have gone over to their home I'm told I'm not needed or to leave and not come back. I have told them so many time how much I love and appreciate them, but it's as if I'm the only child they are always cutting down. Do you have something to let older parents know that their words can sometime hurt the children, no matter the age? But for me. it didn't start when my parents got older, I have gone through this all my life. And the scars that are left in the heart, never go away. And in even speaking with softness and love, I've never been allowed an opinion, it was considered talking back, so was always shown the door. Still by the grace of God, when I talk to my Mom on the phone, and she never misses a chance to cut me down, I try not to say anything back. So I promised myself when I was young, that if I ever had children, I would listen to them and try to give the best advice I could, even if it meant having to tell them the mistakes I had made in my own life. Keep all of us in your prayers, please. And continue to encourage others May God Bless. Carolyn"

"EXCELLENT...."

"I have not been in touch with my mother for four years. I am the mother of four. Your program touched me in the way nothing else had. That maybe, at one time, she meant for the best for me, although it did not seem that way as an adult. Thank you. You helped take away some of my anger and bitterness and replace it with fond memories of childhood with her and, best of al, hope for the future. You always helped me remember fondly my grandfather- I wish I could have viewed it when he was alive. I was young when he died and would get frustrated why he did not answer me quickly or respond to my questions. I know now it was probably his age and his medication. Thank you. Maybe this will help other lost souls deal in a more positive way with their parents. You helped me realize-- to be patient and loving with the parents I am in contact with- as they grow older and age. It is so difficult to see the changes. It brings much sadness. The strong, tall father who is now questioning how he raised us.. before so proud and tall. Now quietly aging... with a sereneness. Thank you. May God bless you as you have blessed many. Sincerely, Trying to be Thankful for What GOD has blessed my family so greatly ~"

March 21,  2007

"I have listened to this so many times and I think I cry harder each time! It is absolutely beautiful."

"Such a beautiful tribute to our parents. I have recently lost my Mother and will be caring for my 80 year old Father in my home. I work with the elderly and wish that more 'children' could see this lovely arrangement. Thank you for a sincere and touching piece. Linda T."

"This is fantastic. Made me cry. Have an aging mother and I, myself, am an aging mother of one child. Everyone with parents young or old should see this very emotional and so very true slideshow of aging and how we, as senior citizens, should be treated. Honor thy Father and Mother so your days will be long upon this earth. Remember that they (we) still feel within our souls to be 25-30 years of age, though our bodies say otherwise. We still have feelings, memories, and love for our children. Children, do not judge or be disrespectful to an aging parent. Do not lose your sense of understanding. One day you will know first hand what it is like to age, to be alive and 30 years old inside, while you look in the mirror and see yourself as you once saw your own great-grandmother. We do not want to burden you, our dear children; only to love you and have you love us back. We still need your hugs, your touch, your kisses. Thank you for this wonderful slideshow - wherever the author is, God Bless you eternally."

"Thanks. Very nicely done."

"I love this... I'm so lucky to have parents who are so loving to us and I'm so lucky to be a parent to a wonderful loving son. Thank you for sharing this. May C."

"Thank you for the wonderful slideshow. I just recently lost my father after his fight with Alzheimer's. Viewing this slideshow reminded me of what he had said before he slipped away. You really pegged it on the head. All those memories of my youth and the good times shared with my parents came flooding back in a huge wave of emotion. I can only hope that I will be as good and caring as they were. Thank you again, Phil"

"Thank you for this beautiful show. So many have no idea what getting old really means and how it effects our lives. Pamela Lorenz / Gordon Roseville,CA"

March 20,  2007

"I am an Administrator for an independent living retirement community, when I saw this at a training it really touched me in a way nothing else has. I am using this with my staff so, they always can remember that the residents have feelings, rights and were where we are at one time in their lives. This is so touching that I have shared it with as many people as I can. Thank you so much for the inspiration."

"So Powerful! I wish that everyone could have a chance to read this and to live it. Not only have I dealt with aging grandparents and parents but I am also a hospice nurse. I wish more people had the understanding of this message and would allow their loved one the dignity and peace promoted by this message. There are so many truths in this message. I will certainly do my part in spreading the message."

"This is the most touching, wonderful and truthful email I have ever received. I am at a loss for words as to how really moved I am each and every time I view it. My highest compliments to those involved in putting this together, it is pristine. My wish would be that television has this to show every day and I doubt that that will be for they forbid the use of the words in Josh Groban’s song. One word in particular 'God'… however that being said, I think the Morning Shows would do well to show this instead of their constant barrage of 'bad' news and other unimportant stuff they think the public wishes to know. It is a suggestion that you at least try to show this to Good Morning America, Today and even Fox news. I for one would be exceptionally grateful if one of these would just show this ONCE. The response they would get would be overwhelming. Thank you for allowing me to see it. I loved it."

"Your message to the world is very real and true. I am reaching that age where the pain in both my physical well being and spiritual needs are over come by the true love that our children have been showing us. Isn't the Father of us all shown (through) by the giving and receiving of love by those to whom we have shown love to. There is nothing more satisfying and real then the giving and receiving of love by the design of the Fathers' spiritual gifts to His children. I am so happy by the receiving of His gift of love through His children. I am blessed! J.M."

March 19,  2007

"I cannot stop playing this over and over, and cannot stop crying. My brother and I are struggling to care for our 86 year old parents, who are failing more each day. This piece really hit home, and will help give us the patience and understanding needed to care for them. Thank you."

"I don't think you can watch it without a tissue nearby..."

"A little, but very important guidepost on life's road."

"I very much enjoyed the presentation. Please permit me to offer a small suggestion. Parents' Wish / hope / desire component is fine. However, the rejoinder or the reminder seems little odd to me. My belief is that if our children are good, they won't need to be reminded that I washed your bum so now you must put up with my impositions. If, however, I was not successful in inculcating a sense of responsibility / sharing / caring, when they were young, my pleas in the evening of my life are likely to fall on unreceptive ears. Presentation is great, let's just skip the latter parts. Thanks."

"This is the best e-mail I have ever seen. It touched my heart and my soul. Thank you."

"I have watched this for the fifth time, and cried each time. My parents and mother- in-law are all 85 now and I see these things happening in their lives and I cry for the beautiful sentiments this conveys. My own children don’t understand right now, but one day they will. Soon I will only have memories of my parents and I will cherish each and every one of them, even more than the happy memories I have now as I see the their lives fading from them."

"My family just put our mother in a nursing home. A friend sent Parents' Wish to me. I read it and cried. I sent it to my sisters and brother. They cried too. I now have it in my favorite to view each day. Thank you for helping us to understand our mother."

"Thank you. I have never read an email and felt so moved as this one. You put everything into perspective. I hope everyone that reads this email will understand that we need to treat our elderly with respect and love. Just imagine what could happen."

"My wife and I enjoyed this more than any other email that we have ever gotten. I have sent to all of our friends as well as our two grown children.  We have both lost our parents. We hope that all that have seen this message take it to heart as we have thank you. THE HOUSTONS OF WINDSOR N.S."

March 18,  2007

"WOW. I just received this and it brought tears to my eyes. It says what I truly believe are the reactions we should have toward the elderly. And it speaks volumes to the younger generation, I have e-mailed it to friends and family, including my own children. THANK YOU SO MUCH !!"

"I was so touched... my tears welled up and the lump in my throat was tightening. My parents are in their mid 80's and struggling to 'keep it all together' physically and mentally during the sunset of their lives. My precious mom is care giver to my dad who has dementia, and watching her gently and tenderly deal with him and still keep herself together is hard to bare. The pictures, words, and music are God-inspiring to me... a comfort, a 'heart-check' of my own, sometime too selfish heart, and a reminder of their love and concern for me when I was in need of their attention! It has inspired me to look with new eyes. My God bless your ministry to others! Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Carolyn Hook"

"A friend sent this to me, and I sat here and cried. I lost both my parents in 2002 and 2003. Someday this could be me. What a beautiful poem. Thank you."

"This is indeed so touching. I cry everytime I listen. Thank you so much for it. I play it every day. BMA"

"This is beautiful, every child should see this."

"Your presentation is so simple yet so true! This is coming from someone who has lived on both sides of the fence - caring for elderly parents and becoming elderly at the same time. God bless you for your insight; how quickly we forget what our parents and elders have done for us. If you awaken understanding in even one young person, some elderly people who so deserve love may receive it before it is too late. Absolutely one of the most beautiful things I've seen on the net. Beautiful music, words and pictures that brought tears to my eyes. Thank you."

"You did a magnificent presentation with this piece of work. It brought tears to the eyes of some rough and tough men in their 40's and 50's that I did not think there was a tear in them. It is a powerful reminder of the respect the Bible tells to have for our parents. Thanks so much, Roxanne Gale, Mariposa, California"

March 17,  2007

"Just read your Parents' Wish feedback and cried through the whole thing, for the memories of when my parents were at that stage and who are gone now. My husband and I are now at that stage of our lives and i wish at the time we were going through this with our parents someone would have helped us to be patient. It is human nature to lose patience and not know how to understand. I thank you for your link and I have sent this on to my two children."

"I would like to thank everyone who put together this video. My parents and I got into a fight this morning, and no more than 5 minutes later, I checked my e-mail and that video was in my inbox. I just started bawling and apologized to my mom and dad. It's amazing how God can work in these mysterious ways. Thank You."

"Thank you for this video. It is very moving. I think every day about getting old. Am feeling it. Actually I am scared. Even though I set good examples, am afraid not to have a human being there for me when I really need it. I have but only one I can trust and depend on, and that is JESUS. God bless everyone that sees this video and hope it will open there eyes to the reality of it. PA"

"Beautiful. Simply beautiful !!!!!"

"This is the most beautiful piece I have ever heard, beside living in a new world where we all will enjoy a good life forever. Continue the good work. Much love, Port & Pat"

"This is absolutely BEAUTIFUL. It certainly did bring tears. I lost my precious Mother at the 'too early age of 64'. and I felt cheated... but now as I watched your beautiful presentation I had to admit 'thankfulness' to those feelings, knowing she was spared memory loss and the other things that come with old age. I lost my precious Daddy at the age of 77, but like Momma, he still had not lost his ability to know who we were.. I give thanks for that, that the two of them never suffered in this. Thanks for the beautiful music, and the presentation, which I saved, and sent to my three children, all grown, with children of their own. They too will cry. God Bless you in your presentation of this great site...E.Fox"

"In this day of single parent families, it would be helpful if the ending to this read: "Your Mother" or "Your Father". Would it be too much work to make this change? This is perfect for my daughter, but I am no longer married to her other parent and do not feel I could send it on to her. Thank you.
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"This is absolutely beautiful. I am going through this right now with my Mother who just turned 90. It was nice encouragement for the moments where I do get frustrated. A very wonderful thing to pass on to the children who perhaps don't really understand the situation we will all face someday. This presentation couldn't explain Love any more perfectly. Thank you so very much from the bottom of my heart for sending this my way. Sincerely, Susan Scur"

"Just love it too much!!! I am lost with words. I just become too emotional, all I can say is it is Super! I can use all the superlatives to describe how an excellent job you have done to touch so many lives. Reading the infos, I learned that this is composed by a Filipino. As a Filipino-American, I am so proud of you. Keep up the good work. Thanks again for a very wonderful job!!!"

"A wonderful and moving slideshow..... my folks are gone now and I am so glad I had the love, patience and understanding to assist them in their needs at the end of their lives and and understand also that we will all be there someday. Thank you, Susan"

"From our heart, THANK YOU. Stephan and Laura Rich"

"Having just lost my dear father at 90 last year, and letting him go to God in dignity and peace, this was a beautiful tribute to all parents and children lest we ever forget all our moms and dads have done for us. Thanks Vikki"

"It was sweet and it made me an 11 year old cry. It was touching."

"All I can say is wow. Now I realize how it must have felt for my dad, to get older, and start forgetting things, and not being understood. I have a lot of regrets, but I also realize why doing what I felt was right, was so important... even though I didn't understand why I was doing it, I knew it was the right thing, and the right thing is always in the end the best thing to do..."

March 16,  2007

"This is one of the most profound messages I have ever seen and one that has so much meaning for parents entering their senior years. After having dealt with elderly parents several years ago, it touched me so deeply that it brought tears. Somehow, I wish there was a way to share it with every child who will be the care taker or at least have some responsibility toward their aging parents. It's beyond wonderful. Nina R. Simmons"

"I was so touched with your story and especially the video. My mother is living with my husband and myself and I try so hard to understand her feelings. It's so hard because she tells me all the time how she feels, and I don't have the patience I used to have. I want to enjoy and appreciate her for the time she has. I want to be close to her, hug her, and love her. She doesn't want to be a burden and this is on her mind every day. She has a lung problem but never smoked. She is very religious, and prays she will have better days. Not knowing why the Lord wants her here, and reads her devotional every day. I wish I could be more like her. I am so grateful for this email because we do forget the important things sometime. This really helped me hopefully to regain my patience. Sincerely Roberta Rouse, daughter of a wonderful 90 year old mother, Mary Hilliard."

"Wonderful video....thank you."

"It is a great things to show to everyone. Thanks."

"This was awesome, It said exactly what I feel, and I could never share those feelings with anyone, especially my children. I live alone and sometimes it gets to be too much. But they know now, I send it to them all 5 of them and the grandchildren. Listening and reading this was a soul cleansing experience and I cried for a long time. Thank you. I really needed that. Elvira"

"I thought this was totally awesome. I am now helping my 81 year old mother and can totally relate."

"I often bring this up in remembering the joy of raising two sons with my wife and the trips we would go on after saving up to afford them. Even though one is gone before us people should treasure the memories and that is what your program does for me. Thanks and prayers are for you whoever and wherever you are. ErnieJ."

"Parents' Wish was just sent to be by my mom as I'm setting here with tears running down my face. I cant help but believe that this poem is the most touching thing that I have ever read. and it has made me realize that no matter what differences my parents have had in the past they are here with me now and that is all that matters to me. Thank for for this touching poem."

"Huhuhuhu!.. when I watched this video, I couldn't help it but cry! Well actually, its my classmate who show this video in our whole class and we were like babies crying ultimately and missing our parents.. hay, it is very touching, as in!... d'best!"

"I thought this was a beautiful clip to show how the elderly deals with everyday task. I lost my Dad 3 years ago and I went thru these same things. It really touched my heart and made me grateful that I took the time to let him deal with the task at hand. It's a long road for some kids to take and yet some roads are very short. Just remember every minute, hour, day, or year you spend with them makes for better memories after they are gone. Thank you for this."

"Thank you for one of the most beautiful shows I have ever seen. As I was crying I remembered my mother, and how she tried to tell us she was still the same person she always was, even when she had dementia. I tried to have patience with her but sometimes I lost it. I hope that God and Mom forgive me, I truly loved her. I had a dream, years after Mom died, and she was smiling at me with arms outstretched I took that to mean she did forgive me. God Bless You. All Children need to see this. More parents would then feel the love their children have for them, but don't show it. Thank You. Phyllis Peceny, Melbourne, Florida"

"I can't say anything any different than what already has been said about this e mail. I am a lady of 73 years. I lost my wonderful husband a year and a half ago and I miss him so much, but God holds my hand all the time when I need him so I know I will see my husband again after this life. My friend sent this to me from Kokomo, Ind. And I watch it every few days. It is so true to my life with my family of 4 adult wonderful children. I am so glad I had them when I was young. I know people who never had children and I understand how lonely they must be when their mate dies. Please do something else for us older and younger adults who can enjoy it. I live for my e mails on the computer. They make my day. I love all the e mails. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I forgot to say, all my children live in other states so I don't get to see them too often but, they e mail me a lot. I sent them all this e mail so they could see it. Thank you , Peggy Cox , Ala."

"I think the Parents' Wish is so beautiful. I am grateful to have seen it and I have sent it on to others. If you have a website to see other things so that I would love to be able to view them. Thank you for doing such wonderful work. I am one that is getting old and have grown children in their 40's. I think it is something that every child should see. Berdie"

"It is so moving and says more about the treatment of our elders than I could ever teach. Thank you for your efforts. GREAT JOB!!!"

"I feel so guilty. I thought I was doing my best as I took care of my Dad, but as I watched the slide show, I look back now and remember, how I sometimes rushed him or became annoyed with him, when he spilled his food, or some other small thing that he didn't do right. My Dad just passed away 7 weeks ago and I can't get through a single day without crying. I miss him so much. Then to see this, made me want him back so I could do it over again and really do the best I could. My father always thanked me for everything I did and we always enjoyed each others company, I just feel I could have done it better after seeing your presentation. The background music was beautiful. Thank you, it was all a real blessing and I passed it along to many others. God Bless, Carol"

"Absolutely beautiful presentation to go with a beautiful song."

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